Marriage & Divorce - 26 May 2007

I know about India where wives worship their husbands. they fast on karwa chauth day each year to pray for him and express her love for him. I seek to know about similar practices around the world cultures

2007-05-26 23:18:24 · 8 answers · asked by Pawan M 1

actually bow down their when look at you?i dont think i m such a respectable or whatever person..i felt bad when someone does that to me?

2007-05-26 22:58:33 · 9 answers · asked by truth set free 1

Your probably going to think that I'm really sad and a pathetic person.I have alway had problem when it came to having a relationship end. They've always left me. And as they were going I was still madly in love with each and everyone of them. I'm 46 years old now and live with four different men in my life that I love dearly. When the relationship is ending I not very good at letting go or excepting that it over.I cry ,plead and beg them not to leave me. Trying everything that I could possibly do and say to convince them to give me another chance. Hoping that they will realize how much I love them .I get so scared just like a little girl when she loose her mommy in a big department store. I can't began to explain how scared I fell. I become imobalized with my life.The cruel part is now I've been married for 5 years now and my husband has for the whole marriage has pack up, walk out on me once every 2 to 3 months saying that he was leaving me. Isn't that sad?

2007-05-26 22:15:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I LIVE IN OHIO, WILL BE MARRIED IN NEVADA. WILL THE LICENSE BE VALID ONCE BACK IN OHIO?

2007-05-26 20:59:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My huspand and I separated a month ago I left him first but thats only because I thought I had no other choice and he didnt love me or I thought was putting his family first. Then he tells me he didnt see us ever working out because we didnt get along. However the week before that we got along great. Now hes giving me mixed messages he doesnt want anyone else or does he want me to be with anyone else, but yet he doesnt want us to get back together right now either help confused and heart broken!

2007-05-26 20:18:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-26 20:16:58 · 18 answers · asked by HONESTJOHN T 1

2007-05-26 20:04:45 · 33 answers · asked by uuummk 5

I have told my husband before that I consider talking secretly to the opposite sex on the internet and telephone cheating. Now I found out he has been talking to a woman with 25 phone calls and he says he did nothing wrong. Do you consider that cheating? Not to mention it was all long distance so there are charges for it.

2007-05-26 19:59:34 · 22 answers · asked by sherryliz 2

i'm planning to marry someone,
but i still resent them,
everyday i deal with my resentment;
i'm not one to complain.
We've all had held or hold resentment,
and it gets hard but I won't give up.
Anyways,I love this person.
I dont hate him,I just hate what he did to me.
When we were a match a couple of years ago,
I've caught him cheating and fliriting so many times before.
But I have secong thoughts of not marrying him.
He is locked up,but we had something before that,so please dont judge me for that.
So is it unhealthy to marry him,we really do want to get married,but I still hold alot of resentment towards him.

2007-05-26 19:20:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-26 19:16:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are going through a seperation with your wife (she asked you to leave), but you aren't really sure if you are in love with her or just love her, would you rahter she: a) give you space to allow you to figure things out. b) still want her to be affectionate etc. as normal OR would "b" be considered putting pressure on you to make a decision? Help! How should I handle this? I don't want my marriage to dissolve. I will not be treated like a doormat, but I will give it everything I have. I also feel like maybe I should act like we were dating again, but then maybe he would think I wasn't being myself completely? Or that I was just doing it because of the situation we are in?? PLEASE HELP!

2007-05-26 19:09:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

One day a year ago I went to visit my fiancee at his work(retail) and myself and my(his also) 2 year old daughter happened to walk up on him and his co worker/ school mate and she was rubbing his shoulder and giving him a puppy dog face/eyes pouting for him to do something for her, when she noticed us they seemed very surpirsed. I DIDNT see him flirt back with her, perhaps because we walked up.
I explained to him I thought this was inappropiate and it was obvious this woman liked him and that I wanted him to not associtate with her anymore.

Yesterday I found out that he had been having a class with her for the past 3 months, and he didnt tell me at all. We have even spoken about her and he didnt tell me. I then found out that on top of lying to me he also chose her, himself, as his study partner and had been hiding it from me!

I am furious, we share a3 yr old girl and a baby on the way..
should i be concerned about this?

2007-05-26 18:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by mother to be 1

We had dinner with friends tonight and all seemed to be going well until he started talking about me and finding fault with how I will turn the AC on and I don't consider the fact that he pays the bill. He thens calls me a walking moral hazard in front of our friends. For some reason, whenever we go out with other couples (which isn't often), my husband always brings up a fault or something that he perceives as a fault. I sure I do it, but he takes it to a whole nother level. Needless to say, his stupid comment made me livid and there was no need for it. The walking moral hazard part was uncalled for.

2007-05-26 18:31:36 · 21 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

Her insecurity is so great that I let her get plastic surgery to boost her self esteem. I've given her NO excuse to be this way. Even my friends notice it at social events. It's so unfair for a guy who has truly been a good husband. Parties are great! But when an attractive lady talks or is introduced to me,
I CRINGE! Any ideas?

2007-05-26 18:09:27 · 26 answers · asked by Mr. C 1

It's late and I would just like a few opinions. What would you do in this situation...

My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. He is in the military and we live on base right now but when we get out he wants to move back to our hometown, wich I HATE! I have horrible ex's there and it's just the kind of small town that you just get stuck in. I really really really hate it there. I've expained to him that I would be miserable there and he doesn't care. He absolutely will not budge on the issue... I just, I know that I am going to be miserable living there. On the one hand, I love him and need to just suck it up and hopefully everything will end up ok. On the other hand... Why am I the one who has to sacrifice my happiness?... I just don't know.

2007-05-26 17:30:34 · 27 answers · asked by K.A. 5

need to get away from bad relationships bad people start new

2007-05-26 16:10:03 · 8 answers · asked by ROBERT D 1

I had some heart stuff done a couple years ago and I was certain I would die on the table. I got all my affairs in order. I named my beneficiaries on my life insurance. I made sure my heart was in tune with God. I put all my records in a box so my 16 and 18 yr old could find them. I gave them instructions on what to do if I died since they are fatherless (he is a deadbeat dad). I did not think I could count on my family to be honest in their financial affairs, so I had to be specific.
I made all the arrangements for my death. I am so greatful to be alive. I was scared my 16 and 18 yr old would be left on this earth to fend for themselves alone with no one.
Have you ever done anything like this? I am just wondering.

2007-05-26 15:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6

We still talk about the house we are trying to sell. We also have others we are dating. If there were a choice, I would be back with my Once In a Lifetime.

2007-05-26 15:30:29 · 11 answers · asked by BA 1

2007-05-26 15:25:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for the past three years and we have kinown each other for almost eight years. Sincethe beginning there have been some great times but after the marriage the relationship has gone down hill fast. I have been tring to keep things going for the past few months but it is like I'm beating my head against the wall. Everyone around me keepsaying that I should hang in there but I am running out of patients. What should I do? Counseling has been suggested but she is refusing at this time. She states that she wants a break from the marriage. Once againwhat should I do?

2007-05-26 15:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by Ryan m 1

I was diagnosed with depression years ago, started taking meds almost 5 years ago. I've been married just over 3 years, unhappy for most of them. I have no good reason to be unhappy, he treats me well, is a good daddy to our 2-year-old, works hard, and I know he loves me. I feel like I'm always looking for something better, though. Is that just because I'm a shallow, selfish b*tch? Or could it be that my depression leaves me feeling so empty, so hateful of myself that I'm hoping someone else will make me feel something? I know people will judge me, tell me I should suck it up and appreciate what I have. I'm miserable, though, which makes it really hard to appreciate anything. I feel like I'll always be in search of happiness, but I wouldn't know it if I found it. Is it even fair of me to stay with my husband if I'm always feeling this way? He's supportive of me, am I just using him for that support? I feel like such a terrible person!

2007-05-26 15:12:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you know the internet show Cute With Chris on youtube, does he really make up the teen letters? Or do teens really send them?

2007-05-26 15:00:27 · 2 answers · asked by | 爱 ) 2

2007-05-26 14:56:15 · 24 answers · asked by sara 2

My husband and i have the same fight over and over. I tell him I am not happy in our marriage and he says he doesnt understand why. I tell him i feel lonely and bored in our relationship. He always says i dont understand or he will do just a little bit in our relationship to shut me up. I always tell him he will only do things in our marriage to shut me up. He always says not, but tonight When i finally said it really doesnt matter anymore he comes back with yes it does, because if your not happy then i have to listen to you *****. I really believe he is just here because he is afraid of divorce, the cost of it, and putting his children through it. All I want is just a little romance and little more quality time. Is this to much to ask for.

This is what he considers romantic. He fixed dinner, it was good, and we ate with our kids. He bought a bottle of wine, but he never opened it during diner. We never talked during the meal.

2007-05-26 14:34:23 · 11 answers · asked by TTG 1

2007-05-26 14:14:09 · 8 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

I'm fascinated by something. Every woman I know appears to define an intellectual or emotional connection as a more serious form of cheating than a sexual connection. I've also recently heard this from women on TV as diverse as Miss Ellie Ewing from Dallas and Sharon Osbourne. On the other hand, most men I know follow the Tony Soprano line - "It's nothing intimate, just talking".

Looking for thoughts from men and women, straight and gay - how do YOU define cheating, and which is more serious - sexual or emotional connection?

2007-05-26 13:52:51 · 26 answers · asked by mdfalco71 6

We attended a dinner last week. Everyone at the table waited to start eating until the last person was served. Not my husband! He dug right in. When I said (quietly, so as not to embarrass him), "Everyone is waiting, you should too", he replied, "I'm hungry!" Mind you, I was there receiving an award and he made me look really bad in front of my colleagues. He keeps doing this (even though he is fifty years old, for God's sake) and I don't know how much I can handle. If I try to talk to him about it, his attitude is, "I can do what I want! I don't care what others think!" I'm about ready to leave him.

Am I being unfair?

2007-05-26 13:36:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-26 13:21:30 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3

Does it depend what they are? If one involves a specific other man, is he better off not knowing?

2007-05-26 13:12:52 · 25 answers · asked by Goddess of Grammar 7

2007-05-26 12:44:10 · 16 answers · asked by physicallyfit001 1