Marriage & Divorce - 26 May 2007

2007-05-26 08:21:45 · 7 answers · asked by ThanksJustWondering 2

My husband and i are very much in love, he is my best friend. We have a problem though, we have no sex. When i mean by haveing no sex i mean once every two weeks, he preferes to masterbate it seems. I know when he is doing it, those stupid clues that he always leaves behind. He claims that he doesnt do it all the time, but i know that he does, its pretty much everyday or other. I have discussed this with him and he had said that it stems from when he was about 15 years old, it is something that he has always done and enjoyed. He is not all about the sex thing, it takes him a week or two to really want the real thing. To be honest with you it really bugs me because it makes me feel really bad and unwanted. I dont understand is this normal?

2007-05-26 07:53:51 · 12 answers · asked by hazel 2

i have a sister inlwa who is twice as my age. but she wants to controll every thing in my live. she even wanted to chose my wedding dress and my jewelary . she calls my husband at his work place and i dont what she says,but when my husband comes he starts fighting whit me.once when i had a fight with my husband i called her and argued with her too caz she was that one who made my husband to fight with me . since then she calls even more almost every day. my husband wont tell me wht she told him that he is fighting me. and when i decide to get divorce and leave the house , he comes and says sorry and he kisses my hands and he cries. and then i feel sorry for him and i stay.some times i feel like running away with my son. i have a 9 months son tooo. we have been married for 2 years only. plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz i need help, and i love my husband too.

2007-05-26 07:38:32 · 11 answers · asked by fatima 1

me and my boss are married but really like each other

2007-05-26 07:31:32 · 26 answers · asked by texazgirl_85 1

My wife and I have no kids, no property and it is a no-fault although she abandoned me to go to California.

2007-05-26 07:29:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

married 25 years looking to chat with married woman in s. fla or other area about marriage

2007-05-26 06:50:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-26 06:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my partner for 14yrs - we married 4 yrs ago and have 2 kids together. We were only 18 when our first was born, and after 3yrs we seperated as I was young and niave and fell for someone else. We got back together and had another child (well 2 but we lost 1). I love her, she says she loves me (not as much these days) - and I have found that she is phoning some guy every day from work and gets so defensive when we talk about (she always hides her phone and never mentions this guy) but his number is all over my phone bill. I am sure she is having an affair but says she isnt. I am really low - I posted a messge earlier and got some good responses but still feel like theres nothing left. I have been sat for the past hour thinking about ending it all - but I love herand the kids but cant bear to think she is with someone else. Never ever thought I would open myself up like this on the net but so low - dont know what to do 4 best

2007-05-26 06:43:06 · 13 answers · asked by ealesy 1

I understand that when you get married you don't get that much FREE time, BUT you are still your own individual person and you need some time to yourself every onec and a while! Well me and my husband have been together for 4 years and mrried one of those. I am 21 and he is 24, we spend all of our time together except for work which is about 9 hours Monday through Friday! We have only been apart one time, and that was about 3 years ago for 2 days! Everytime he wants to do something, he always ask me if i want to go, which I usually do, because I love being with him, BUT if I choose not to go one time, he will not go. I ask him why he doesn't ever want to go without me, he says he doesn't know. I think we spend too much time togethere therefore we fight over small things alot, so how do I get him to do some things with out me and feel okay about it?

2007-05-26 06:03:08 · 8 answers · asked by Heather M 2

My girlfriend and I have been living together and are a very happy couple. But lately she's been telling me indirectly that she wants to get married. A lot of people have said, "if it aint broke don't fix it". I have heard everything changes after the vows. Is it true?

2007-05-26 06:01:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 16 going out with a 22 yr old man and im engaged with him and we both want child but cant go to the doc dont want to leave mine and his mother no how can i do it none of use drive or got not alot of money

2007-05-26 05:24:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife told me that shes not in love with me but loves me? whats that mean

2007-05-26 05:21:04 · 20 answers · asked by bobswiming 1

2007-05-26 05:14:33 · 32 answers · asked by redhead 2

He dosn't look at me anymore in that special way. He's always tired or sore from work. I fix his favorit foods for dinner and he eats and gose hide out in our room to watch tv. He's there all the time when he's at home. Are son is now 6 mths. old and he spend no time with him at all. My husband calles our son a mamas boy, but I point out to him that I'm the one that cares for him 24/7 scince he has been born. I love them to much to send my husband away. Because this is only child he's going to have. What should I do?

2007-05-26 05:07:13 · 12 answers · asked by deblyn73 1

What can help me stay wet longer? I seem to do my thing a few times then I can't get wet anymore and my man still needs to do his thing. Does anyone know what I can use or do to make me stay wet longer?
I'm very easy to please, which sometimes can be a very bad thing!!! :(

2007-05-26 05:05:54 · 11 answers · asked by T 6

they met on myspace...they talk on the phone...they met twice. but hes tellin me i need to trust him. i wanna be a great wife, but im now insecure, and scared. he left the house yesterday, because we cant see eye to eye with this. he told me she is a friend. and i need to trust him. so why do i feel distraught? i love him with all my heart. but he's married. and if they are such great friends, why didnt i know about her?? and why in gods name is he not letting her go for me, even if it is just a friendship, isnt that disrespectful to me???? please someone i need as many opinions as possible, from both males and female...married and single. i need to be sure i do the right thing
signed,
the jealous wife??

2007-05-26 04:37:02 · 14 answers · asked by ♥chelle 2

My husband and I met in '98, got married in '01, we were both 23. His first job out of college, he was fired 1 month into it for really stupid reasons (they didn't communicate his job expectations, etc.). I tried to encourage him the best I knew how, but it wasn't enough. He turned to pot. On the same day I discovered the drug use, I came home to find him talking about killing himself. He had the gun on the table and it was loaded. This was 2003. I called my mom the next morning to tell her what had happened. He has never forgiven me for telling her.

I've never used drugs in my life and when we got married, he told me it was something he wouldn't ever do again. I developed an emotional relationship with a male co-worker. We didn't have sex but kissed. Meanwhile my husband and I were more like roommates and barely talked. Then, this January, I found out he was having an affair which he claims was just emotional (but a hotel charge on his acct?). Still love him but can this be saved?

2007-05-26 04:15:40 · 32 answers · asked by sweetpetitegyrl 2

She left me and went to live with her Dad when she was 15yr old. Now, she has been staying with me every weekend, until this past weekend, her Dad said she could come and stay with me everyother week end. She left because, 1) she hated her stepdad 2)her dad bought her car, $440.00 prom dress,etc.
I have been paying 618.00 amonth child support, the judge was a friend of my ex., so when we went back to court to lower the child support, the judge refused to hear it, said it was a conflict of interest. Now, we have a court date in Sept. to lower the child support. Just recently, I was terminated on my job, my ex. had his lawyer write mine, and said I asked to be let go. I am working part-time right now. My dad has severe Alzheimer's disease, and I am his guardian. I feel wiped out. Any suggestions on how to manage this with my daughter. I love her dearly, and she knows it. It just hurts so bad.

2007-05-26 03:43:28 · 13 answers · asked by themantofield 1

I am a cristian, I am married w/kids,I love my husband very much but i'm sure he doesn't love me. he's been unfaithful many times and i have prayed for my marriage and i've seen the work of God at times in my relationship but i'm not getting any younger. He left me once for someone and it seems like he never trated me like he treated her or any other women for that matter. He doesn't want to go out with me, doesn't kiss me and he's out all the time. I'm not stupit or blind but as a cristian I believe in the word and the power of prayer and everytime I want an answer the Lord wants me to wait and be patient but today i found out how much he was into this person he left me for and that the only reason he came back was because she slept with someone else. What can I do to move on and still be right with God. I'm reaching for an answer for all the true christians out there. I truly need help. I'm lost ,confused and hurt and I don't want to do anything that will cause my salvation.

2007-05-26 03:41:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last question I asked was... Why would you husband cheat on you if he knows you love him and you're pregnant? Now, my mother-in-lay would like us to work our marriage out throught a marriage counselor. Should I try or just divorce him and nail him for what he did to me?

2007-05-26 03:38:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a divorce since september. I talked to her yesterday and she told me that she slept with 3 guys since and 1 is living in my home now without paying rent or utilities. I told her to leave and she declined. I just feel hurt bec of the three guys. 1 was when I was married. How do you just stop thinking about it and shrub it off like its nothing?

2007-05-26 03:30:19 · 15 answers · asked by dirbe22 2

I wanna steal houses from the bank and put them on my properties, I own boardwalk and park place,

what should i do

2007-05-26 03:12:27 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2

My husband is currently serving 15 months in Iraq. In two weeks he is coming home for R & R...that is a mid-\
deployment trip home for two weeks. He will be home on our 5th year anniversary. We have two childern ages 2 and 3. I want to go to Florida over the weekend just him and me without the kids. IF we did that then it would take time away from the childern and like I said he is only here for two weeks and then gone until April 08. Should I cancel the trip or take time for just us? The reason they can't go is because we would be going deep sea fishing and they are too young.

2007-05-26 03:00:52 · 18 answers · asked by Shaney 2

Do you feel now that your married or have been married for a while and your friends dont call you anymore? that has happened to me and i dont know what to do basically all i have is my husband, i feel like i caught a disease and no one wants to hang out with me anymore, has anyone been in this situation before, how did you get through it?

2007-05-26 02:47:01 · 7 answers · asked by AllenKD21707 2

From what I've seen, marriage and family life are so difficult, but the only people I've ever known that have remained unmarried all their lives are either homosexuals (who can now marry where I live), very unattractive women, or men with extremely controlling mothers. Are there people who can remain unmarried their whole lives without being ugly, pathetic, or lonely? Do you know any such people who seem happy being single their whole lives?

2007-05-26 02:44:22 · 16 answers · asked by Cybele 1

2007-05-26 02:33:58 · 38 answers · asked by alicia b 2

I do not want my sister to attend our step whores funeral. She ran off with our father, and the 2 of them raised her children and had one together. They lived in a big house,went to college,never sent child support, holiday gifts,zero acknowledgement to the 3 of us.I have zero respect for them, and anyone who does this. I feel my sister should not show honor by attending the funeral of a selfish,thoughtless,whore!! Your opinion?

2007-05-26 02:08:41 · 14 answers · asked by sandra b 5

I'm pretty sure the baby is mine, but my neighbor is so happy his wife is having "his" baby. She doesn't want to tell him it's not his, because it would expose the affair. She thinks he won't know and would only find out if one of us spills the beans. Should I just keep my mouth shut? I feel like one of those birds, that lays eggs in other birds nests, and let's the other bird raise their young.

2007-05-26 01:58:06 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

we both got married 7 yrs ago, now i husband has gone abroad 1 month back. For me to go, i've to get marriage certificate from govt. of india.
Rules are - both husband & wife have to sign before registrar to get certificate. My husband cannot come juz for this.
CAN SOMEBODY HELP ME IN THIS CONDITION.

2007-05-26 00:27:06 · 5 answers · asked by poo 2

My lover belongs to Hindu religion but i am sikh. According to Sikh religion i can't do registered marriage in Gurudwara if both parties are not sikh. Is it possible to do registered marriage in Hindu Temple. Is their any provision of doing registered marriage in Temple. Do i have to change my religion. We can't do court marriage because out parents are not agreed. We both are adults.

2007-05-26 00:14:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous