2007-05-26 02:33:58 · 38 answers · asked by alicia b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES he does, looking at porn is perfectly healthy and normal, unless it's all male porn then you might have a problem.
2007-05-26 02:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok here's some incite to a porn addict. He might be a sexual addict and is not getting enough to satisfy his needs, but the funny thing is that if you are a sexual addict you can never get enough to please your insatiable desires. There is also a good chance that you have a very standard sex life, such as missionary and doggy-style. He probably wants to break out of the ordinary and spice it up. So I would say communication is the key here. See what he wants or if you can watch it together and try some of the things you see. The key to a healthy sexual relationship is: COMMUNICATION...................................................................
You must talk these things out( and not just dirty talk)..
I would say that he enjoys being a voyeur. Maybe he wants to watch or be watched but once again only COMMUNICATING how you feel and how he feels will give you the true reason for his actions...I think he wants you but maybe a little more of you being adventurous.
2007-05-26 11:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found porn on the computer history when my ex was working away. The only reason I lost it was because he kept it a secret. Share and enjoy it with him, if you feel comfortable doing so. If you don't, accept that it's a part of him (and almost any man). It will just make him appreciate you more for your open mind. And don't ever expect to look like that. Be confident with who you are are and what you look like and he will find you all the more appealing. Trust me, if you don't draw attention to your (perceived and self recognised) weak spots, they won't be noticed. Confidence (even if you fake it, no matter how hard it is) is hell sexy.
2007-05-26 02:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by missm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked myself the same question two months ago. I had no idea he had so much (movies and mag). It made me so mad that I made him throw it all away. It made me think of him as dirty. But now that I have calmed down about it and really thought about it and asked about it. I found out a lot of men at some point in there life love porn. Don't know why but I guess it's something in them. But anyway look at it this way at least he can't cheat with those girls. So, to answer your question yes he does want you. Very much so! It helped me for him not to let me see it. Like keep it in the basement!
2007-05-26 02:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by tls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a husband who looks at porn and the answer is yes. The reason we look at porn is because we are simple minded pigs but at least we can lift heavy stuff.
2007-05-26 02:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If there's not a problem in your sexual/social romance life then yes he still wants you.You are the one who will evaluate this actually by the performance you have in your bedroom I guess.
How is your sex life going?How is the romantism?If everything is going fine then it's normal for him to watch porn films.Psychiatrists say that it's not an abnormal behaviour to watch porn unless he's not addicted to porn.Does he watch too much porn?Does he need porn in order to get turned on?I mean is it a must for him to watch porn in order to get turned on?If yes,then there might be a problem.
2007-05-26 02:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by zeynepp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see - Husband = Male = Likes Porn = Normal. Should make him want you more. Lol.
2007-05-26 02:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Moondog 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Try it with him...it's really fun. I am sure you have seen porn before, and you still want him, right? Same thing. Besides, maybe he is looking to try new things YOU would like. Better internet porn than a stip club where he spends all his money. :)
2007-05-28 20:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by WifeandMother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, yeah. Probably will want you more. I'm a chick that looks at porn, has NOTHING to do with my husband of 8 years!
2007-05-26 02:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Freakgirl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not a general indicator of his lack of interest in you...
Unless he wants you to be "in" the porn...
(but it is a clue that he's a shallow, immature jughead, whose voyeuristic proclivity proves he's not the classiest, most well-adjusted guy on the planet)
A true, sexually well-adjusted male gentleman does not entertain himself with crass picturesque provacative portraits of naked women caught in the public eye doing something that should normally be done in private with a loving mate (or mates...but come on...two is enough for most people)...
One of these days, I think I could learn to be a gentleman...
2007-05-26 02:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋