Marriage & Divorce - 22 May 2007

When I am out in public with my 19 year old son I don't trust anyone. Their are way too many sickos out in public places to trust my son to be out of my sight. When my son and I go shopping and he or I have to use it, I take him right into the ladies room with me. He is only 19 and now old enough to be out of my sight. Someone in the mens room may try to snatch him or molest him.
Some of the women in the ladies room seem to have a problem with me bringing my 19 year old son into the bathroom with me but I don't care. They need to get over it and get a life. Why shouldn't I take my 19 year old son into the ladies room with me?

2007-05-22 23:58:12 · 34 answers · asked by Flushing06 1

We seperated because he had an affair,we have been txtn each other a lot bout our feeling and stuff he even called me baby and all that stuff.
Last week, i got his sister to babysit so i could go out with a guy i liked and since then he has been blunt with me and only txtd bout the kids.I haven't txt him either cause i don't wanna come across as waiting around for him.
Thing is, it was him that fell for someone else and promised he wouldn't go silly if i dated, so whats up with him?

2007-05-22 23:45:07 · 29 answers · asked by live life 4

all the self pity, it was the excitement of being with someone new.well after 9 mths with this other woman how could it still be exciting. he said he felt like she would do anything he asked,drop her plans in an instant to see him. don't you think he was falling in love with her come on after 9 mths fooling around with the same person. called her everyday sometimes 40 times a day. or was he obsessesed with her.never showed any signs of guilt during the time i never suspected anything.basically admitted to me he felt guilt sometimes i couldn't live with myself if i had done this.she was 13 yrs older than he. was it an ego kick or what.obviously he enjoyed being with her more having sex or talking on the phone. his only regret is that he got caught. she had told him you are not going to quit calling me or seeing me, so he didn't.sounds like she was emotionally involved or trying to break our marriage up what do you think

2007-05-22 23:41:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband was 22 when we married 19 years ago. I am older than him, but at the time he was so keen to marry me he said he was 5 years older than he is. We have a daughter who is 17. In the last 5 years he has been restless and says things like he has never lived alone, that he feels stifled. When I asked to control my finances he saw this as a sign of not being committed and our problems escalated. I found out 18 months ago that he was having an affair, he says it was a mistake. He moved out of our home and I transformed myself by losing weight, spending money on my appearance and regained some of my youth. I think this confused him and also because he feels duty bound to our daughter to finish school etc, plus he has a half share in our house, but he comes back 4 days a week and now makes out he lives away because its nearer to his job. He is making an effort with me by spending more time with me, by giving me more consideration. but says he needs more time before moving back in.

2007-05-22 23:37:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not enough postage, a tornado cost me my job, I don't think you need it, let your new husband pay our kids bills. These are a few I have heard recently, I am just wondering how many other men/women are in the same boat? I have 3 wonderful daughters....they are losing out on a lot, mostly because, however creative we can be with our finances, we just don't make enough money, for everyone to do everything!

2007-05-22 23:17:57 · 4 answers · asked by hjmordgz 1

So far, he has called my employers to check if I am working there, has done numerous background checks to see if I have been charged with anything, has asked friends to follow me...
I am constantly hearing accusations about what he THINKS I am doing, though none of it is true. He has subpoena'd everyone from my boss to my loan companies, anything to find dirt.
Where can I get a line drawn? We've been divorced for 5 years, and he's even remarried! Crininal checks? Calling my work? Is that invasion of privacy?

2007-05-22 23:15:36 · 9 answers · asked by kyndrad77 1

Been married for 10 happy years and want to buy my girl a fab pressie.
Her vacum-cleaner is the same one we got as a wedding present and i wanted to surprise her with a new one.
Dyson or Hoover is my question.
I cannot wait to see the look on her face when she opens it.

2007-05-22 22:30:06 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-22 22:28:02 · 10 answers · asked by ob1kenobi 1

2007-05-22 22:24:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thanks for the replies sent to me.

I have one more additional information about my old Qtn.
The girl is in job and her yearly income is (in seven figure) more ( three time ) than of her in laws. Now what is your openion.

2007-05-22 20:58:59 · 13 answers · asked by rekha 1

He says he was joking or playing around and that it didn't mean anything.NO.1, he spent a lot of time talking at work, having her call him at work just to talk on the phone, etc.NO.2 he emailed her and said stuff like, how she is a hot blond and wanted to give her a "wet sloppy kiss down under".NO3, he emailed her saying how beautiful she is/he can't get the smell out of his head from her/how he missed her when she wasn't at work.NO4,he set up a meeting with her to walk around a store and chitchat, so he said.We went to a therapy after that.Then he was looking for another woman online.He went through 18 pages of women with her name looking for her, then denied he did. Last week,NO5 he emailed, "WOW!I still can't believe I actually saw you in person.You have no idea how awesome it was.It's like everything means nothing now.I'm ruined and I think I'm going crazy".He told me he isn't going to defend himself to me anymore.I am wasting my time in this marriage.I used to have hope.No more.

2007-05-22 20:35:12 · 46 answers · asked by daisy_otn 2

If not, when was the law changed?

Is this law presently in effect in any other state?

Is the law the same standard for a wife killing a husband?

This question is not relating to any mental instability defense (temp. insanity, heat of the moment....). This question is regaurding the actual written state law.

Thanx

2007-05-22 20:26:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

there are some misunderstanding between the both's way of thinking and a cold war is going on inbetween their hearts, due to a very minor confusion.

2007-05-22 20:03:08 · 14 answers · asked by pooja s 1

2007-05-22 19:40:32 · 10 answers · asked by shona 1

Pl. advise?
Pl. advice . My friends son got married Jan 2007 it was a love marrige . The wife of friends son is staying with her parents as she did not want to stay with her inlaws this was the past story . My friend has a small family she ,he & son all are working they are open minded with no boundations for anybody. The new couple was staying freely but because of her parents interfaerence are creating problems betveen husband & wife . Now son's parents advicing them to live sepretly. Now the girl is asking for finance support from inlaws

2007-05-22 18:39:42 · 10 answers · asked by rekha 1

I've been married 2 years, been together almost 7. I've caught him cheating in the past, found emails from girls etc. We got married, I found more sexual content emails to and from another girl, that stopped, noe I found text messages to and from this new girl he works with. I don't know what he wrote, but the stuff she wrote got me upset and very worried. They've exchanged numbers, he said it was innocent, but things have happened in the past and I can't trust that! He get's defensive when I question him, he's not affectionate toward me at all anymore. I am mentally and physically exhausted from dealing with this stuff. He changed his email, changed passwords, and gets angry and raises his voice to me for trying to talk things out. Should he have told me about this girl and the texts? He said he blows her off, but I saw his bill and I must have counted about 40+ text message to and from, I even saw a few phone calls on there! What should I do? Forgive him AGAIN? Pls help!

2007-05-22 18:20:21 · 25 answers · asked by kaebrenmom 1

In a complaint relating to domestic violence, the magistrate has awarded monetary compensation of Rs1.50 Lakhs to a live in partner for domestic violence committed by a man. The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005, is Act to provide for more effective protection of the rights of women guaranteed under the Constitution who are victims of violence of any kind occurring within the family and for matters connected therewith or incidental thereto. "Domestic relationship" means a relationship between two persons who live or have, at any point of time, lived together in a shared household, when they are related by "domestic relationship" means a relationship between two persons who live or have, at any point of time, lived together in a shared household, when they are related by consanguinity, marriage, or through a relationship in the nature of marriage, adoption or are family members living together as a joint family, in India a live in partner included in such a case ?

2007-05-22 18:14:51 · 9 answers · asked by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7

Is there a difference being in a relationship and living with someone and having a baby and actually signing the marriage papers? Does getting married change anything other than financial issues?

2007-05-22 17:46:45 · 20 answers · asked by Wretched Bonsai 2

2007-05-22 17:42:11 · 10 answers · asked by qwerty 2

He is not a bad hasband, but now I dont see my self with him forever(defination of midlife crisis I guess). I dont want to ruin the home as we have kids. please advise.

2007-05-22 17:41:26 · 11 answers · asked by needHelp 1

2007-05-22 17:36:49 · 19 answers · asked by maggy4love 1

SOME ON FROM UR PAST TOLD YOU THEY LOVE U.
AND ALL READY MARRIED ,??

2007-05-22 17:32:56 · 10 answers · asked by RENA 2

We have often played around and even invited others, have u and what was you experience with this?

2007-05-22 17:24:17 · 17 answers · asked by sarah l 2

My wife has no sex drive at all, she has never initiated it since we have been together (about 10 years), I think it will get better but it doesn't She uses sex as a tool, she will have sex with me but I have to pull teeth and she blames her low libido on things that I have done a long time ago. She knows how much sex means to me but again says it's my fault, if I knew she would be like this I would never have married her. A person needs to feel as if they are desired and I feel as if I am undesirable, so I am going to look outside of my marriage to find a woman who makes me feel I am desirable

2007-05-22 17:19:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

and now what should i do ... should i give everyone their gifts back. i dont want to hurt anyones feelings.. what is the right thing to do .. i am soo hurt on so many levels.. and i just cant think straight... please help...

2007-05-22 17:07:09 · 32 answers · asked by just me 2

I have tried walking in shopping malls till late. Where can I go for a drink alone, without looking funny to others.

2007-05-22 17:06:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my best friend since we were in pampers, well shes getting married shes a Cna shes moving fort leonard wood with him but she cant find any nursing homes around there or hospitals, her fiance said they only hired doctors he kept on asking her to stay with her parents while he down there along so he can make more money if he was only worried for being deployed she could always go back home but at the bigining of the marriage she wants to be with him you know get to know him as a husband now but he doesnt want that i kept on thinking maybe he wants to marry her for the extra money, mayby im wrong, well she desperatly need your help to find nursing homes there or hospital.

2007-05-22 17:02:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think they are going to get divorced! Like my mom has been yelling at my dad latley and my dad has been yelling back! And they started smoking! I found 3 packs of them in my dads car! And I found one in my moms! and when ever I ask my dad about that stuff he offers me a ciggarett! And when I try and talk to my mom about it she changes the subject,

PLEASE HELP!!! They arnt listing to me at all! And when I ask them stuff they dont answer! HELP!!!

2007-05-22 17:02:45 · 3 answers · asked by Yawners 1

my husband's family creates havic in my household. i have always welcomed them into my home EVEN THOUGH they are insultive to me and show no consideration for my feelings. My husband makes excuses for their behavior and although he agrees that they are VERY inconsiderate he says he wasn't raised to stand up to them. we've been married for almost 6 years and have one child together. we always fight when his family comes around. I don't feel I should have to spend the rest of my life being treated poorly by these people... WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-05-22 17:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by JayneDoe 5

I AM 33 Y/O AND HAVE NO DESIRE TO BE MARRIED. I LOVE MY SINGLE QUIT LIFE AND JAZZ MUSIC PLAYING WHILE ENJOYING A GLASS OF GREAT WINE IN A PEACEFUL QUITE HOME,IT'S GREAT. I GET BAD VIBES FROM PEOPLE WHEN I SAY I LOVE BEING SINGLE.CHIME IN YAHOOER'S.WHAT DO YOU THINK?

2007-05-22 17:00:55 · 8 answers · asked by GW.BUSH 2