Pl advise?.?

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Pl. advise?
Pl. advice . My friends son got married Jan 2007 it was a love marrige . The wife of friends son is staying with her parents as she did not want to stay with her inlaws this was the past story . My friend has a small family she ,he & son all are working they are open minded with no boundations for anybody. The new couple was staying freely but because of her parents interfaerence are creating problems betveen husband & wife . Now son's parents advicing them to live sepretly. Now the girl is asking for finance support from inlaws

Answer 1

Living separately as a single family unit is a good suggestion. As far seeking maintenance from the parents of her husband is concerned it is neither reasonable nor legal allowed by law. The maintenance of wife is the responsibility of the husband not his parents. No enactment relating to maintenance provide the parents of the husband will be legally asked or ordered to do so, in case they want to financially help the young couple in settling their independent home it their personal wish but no legal responsibility of this lies on them.

Answer 2

I too am a soft spoken young lady and standing at 5 ft. 1 in. am not too much of a presence in a class of 30 high school students. I don't have a lot of experience but spent 4 months student teaching recently. I found that it is very helpful to involve students in forming the rules and consequences of the class so they feel as if they are involved in the class and are treated, at least somewhat, as equals. Discipline generally should also be in the form of a consequence instead of a punishment (instead of detention, ask a student to write an essay about why his/her behavior was inappropriate and what he/she is going to do to improve). I also always had something for students to do so they were always being held accountable. Students could never say they didn't have anything to do. And even though you might not want to, it might help to contact parents or guardians. Starting off with a compliment early in the year before students have a chance to cause problems would help establish a relationship. Then if the student is causing problems later the parent already knows who you are and doesn't assume you are just being some jerk teacher who is calling home. Parents might not always help, but sometimes they're your best weapon. Lastly, my favorite part of classroom management was developing a good rapport with my students. I knew every student's name, greeted them at the door, and was able to joke with them. This in turn led to respect (a majority of the time) and made students actually want to behave. Good luck-- it isn't easy and is underappreciated!

Answer 3

Realy the parents who rear there son and have some dreams about there son and them but when son gets married he has his own concerns but if he will be lucky in getting a life partner as per his likings but this has not happened in case of your friends son.
I would only say that your friend and his wife are working so they don't depend on there son in money matters, just advise them to get out of the life of their son and wife.
I know this is a very though and a very difficult thing to act upon but to safe guard and make your loved ones life smooth and functioning leave both of them and let them cope up as they wish especially the wife of the son.
I know she wants this only let her win and parents be the looser.
This is not the runner up prize this will be a winner prize for your son.

Answer 4

Daughter-in-law has no moral right to ask for financial support from her husband's parents in this situation...
The old parents should not give a single paisa to their spineless son and his irresponsible wife...
Better, throwaway food rather than feeding these disgraceful couple that have no integrity...

Answer 5

Rekha G we are normal and natural human being
we puzzle early
we have no patience
Keep Faith in Good
Bhagwan Jo Karta Hai Acchha Karta Hai
Saas Bu Kabhi Bahu Thi
Sochna Kya Jo Bho Hoga Dekha jayega
'Kal Ke Liye aaj na yeh khona
aaj na yeh kal aayega
anyhow please chat with me on yahoo messanger
[e-mail]
than we can find some fruitfull solution
and i am true and honest
same case in my home

Answer 6

While living separately is no problem, seeking financial help from in-laws is not correct. One should learn to live within means. Or stay with in-laws and accept their company. How can one say that the in-laws are not welcome but their money is fine. No way.

Answer 7

If i were your friend,i would tell her either shut up and stay with us until you can move out,or get the hell out now i don't care where you go.If the son couldn't afford to live on his own,then why the hell he got married for?

Answer 8

Though not immediately but sooner the better to live separately ,peacefully and respectfully is the law of nature.

Answer 9

complicated,u better stay out of all this.

Answer 10

very good and happy she can proceed