there are some misunderstanding between the both's way of thinking and a cold war is going on inbetween their hearts, due to a very minor confusion.
2007-05-22 20:03:08 · 14 answers · asked by pooja s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is always a way out for reconciliation between relatives if they sit together & discuss between themselves the issue that caused misunderstandings & follow the golden principle of life 'Forgive & Forget'. You can be instrumental in such reconciliation along with your mother & mother in law as all of you ladies can make & break a family but here you all have to make the family not break it. Marriage in Indian society is not only marriage between two spouses but its a marriage of two families so all you ladies get together plan a strategy & bring an end to this 'Cold War'.
2007-05-22 20:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pooja this sounds like a frequently traversed path. The best way is to be open and frank. Bring them together and have a honest discussion. Do not get emotional. You need to play a Good Cop and Bad Cop strategy with finese. You are the Good Cop and the Bad Cop. Make sure you do side your hubby at all times but then make sure your parents understand that. It sounds like an ego issue. Sooner its sorted out its better. With time ppl do not forget but unfortunately the distance keeps increasing. Let me know if you happen to get it solved.
2007-05-22 20:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if all have will to do. U have to take the initiative. Make them gather at one place. U apologize to both parties on behalf of each one & ask them whatever has happened should be forgotten by everybody for the sake of your new family to be free from tensions in future & u don't want any fuss anymore & want to make a new beginning . Ask both parties to be positive , cool down & help u morally to have future life peaceful, ignoring all previous egos, for God's sake.
2007-05-22 21:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
each and every from time to time the lady famous that siding together with her kinfolk became the suited decision. She marries somebody else and has teenagers and a happy existence and hardly thinks approximately that previous flame. each and every from time to time the lady facets together with her kinfolk and regrets it perpetually....on no account totally letting bypass of the previous and, for this reason, on no account totally embracing the present or destiny. She is on no account truly happy returned. each and every from time to time, the lady chooses her love, her kinfolk finally comes around and each little thing works out advantageous. each and every from time to time, the lady chooses her love, her kinfolk rejects her, the affection fades, they divorce and she or he appears like an fool for no longer listening in the 1st place. base line, there are no ensures in existence and you only could desire to compliment consistent with what you are able to and can't stay with.
2016-10-31 04:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Resolve the confusion, attempt to harmonise the different personalities - try and get them to accept each other's views, neither of them are inherently wrong.
2007-05-22 20:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by thebritishfight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The success in union lies with you. You are the apex coordinate of the peacefull life for all the three, your husband, inlaws and yourself.
Anita
2007-05-22 22:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by anita d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is same as mine,first u explained him why this happen.if this doesn't work then try to avoid talking him about ur family for some days.don't say no but suddenly change the topic when he says abt ur family
2007-05-26 19:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by Pallabi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is your relationship with your inlaws - if its bad you take the 1st step in resolving and ironing your issues. then speak to your parents, get them to understand then speak to your husband even pointing out of how you resolved your issues with his family and get him to start mingeling with your family. Yes you do speak to your parents and make them understand but do not get them to break the ice 1st, your hubby is younger than them he needs to approach!!
2007-05-23 09:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that this is NOT an issue and they are having difference of opinions on trivial matters. THIS REQUIRES YOU TO STEP IN AND TRY TO RESOLVE THE MATTER BY MEDIATING...
Good Luck!
2007-05-22 22:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait and watch. its required some time but try to understand boths.
2007-05-22 20:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by san 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋