Marriage & Divorce - 25 May 2007

I know that lots of people have to work on their reletionship at times, but how do you know when it's time to just accept that it'll never work?

2007-05-25 23:31:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend started seeing this guy who was still with his kids mom, but said the relationship was over because she was cheating. At first they were just friends. Eventually a connection built between them. They found out they had a lot in common. Do you think they really had a chance or is he just seducing her in a way. Is it considered him cheating, just because he was still living there?

2007-05-25 23:03:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i suspected my boyfriend had cheated on me, of course like everything else he denies it. He has been spending a lot of time with his "new friend", he has lied about how often he talks 2 her &see's her. long story short i called her up & said 2 her, " I just need 2 know the truth,.have you been with him?" her reply was " iF you dont trust him thats on you, What do you think?Fallow your gut!". When i approched him with this he said "she's lying". i should add the last weekend i was visiting him,we got into a fight, he then calls her up to pick him up (about midnight) left with her, and left me at his house. He didnt get back until 4:30AM!(but nothing happen, he says)
when i found out he was gone, i called her phone(redial) &of corse no answer.oh &this girl was a old friend of mine, he met her @ a friend of his house, when i seen her i told him i know her, turns out we used 2 work together years ago.ive already caught him in so many lies about her, but he swears he
never was w/her.

2007-05-25 22:52:28 · 19 answers · asked by SIS 1

My son and his wife have a wonderful marriage, both are successful and are one another biggest fans!
The thing we all find so funny about their marriage is the VOODOO DOLL, they use as a trophy. When one of them does something Funny, Evil then it's awarded to the other person!

My son played a successful joke on his wife he got the doll!
She returned the joke with a little zing to it , She was award the doll!

Other night we went to their home in Pacifica just outside SF, both parents his, hers were their for dinner we stayed the night because we live 2 hours away, her parents live less then 10 minutes away.
My son was kissing his wife passionately (12 years too) and her father said will you 2 ever stop that!
Daughter inlaw said hell no, and told father if they did not come for dinner she would have given son allot more!

Her mother my husband and I started to laugh , her father was less then pleased then she said Ah oh dear it looks like dads going to ground me!

2007-05-25 22:44:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not happy in the marriage, It comes from alot of different things that have happen in are past, But we have only been married for a year and 8 months out of it has been us yelling at each other everyday and me just growing more and more away from him. But now he has started to grow up and he really wants things to work with us. Cause it was him that was wildin out when we first got married and before and I just took it. But now that he is ready to be a husband I dont want him. Am I wrong for that, My heart is just not into it.

2007-05-25 22:34:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-25 22:17:29 · 40 answers · asked by astra 5

2007-05-25 22:04:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

this man and i have been together 10 yrs r better ,we have a 8 yr old and i have a 14 yr old living with us.he is a trucker,when he works he comes in like a wild man .hes very physical n mentally abusive .he is also starting to be mean to the kids,and hes not a good dad at all.he has me in such debt i see no way out i risk loosin my house i got when my mom passed. i have no family ,no money im on ssi for asthma the money i get want even pay utilities,its almost like he has planned all of it for me to loose my home he is a misery loves company person and it has takin me a long time to figure that out,ive just always tried to keep my family together but its got to fit together before i can keep it together and he is just ready to say ---- me .is there any where i can go ,talk to some one about my house and him helping me with all the debts we have ran up.im in greenville sc .please somebody help me before i really loose it.does s c recognize common law?

2007-05-25 21:59:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean I still love her, though it was a horrible break up with me being in Iraq and her sleeping with another man. But lately she has been spending a lot of time with this new man and has told me that she missed me. My passion, my love. I really don't know what to do. I don't know if things would even change.

2007-05-25 20:57:48 · 12 answers · asked by Bartleby 2

I used to believe that money is the root of all evils.. But in the recent years.. I discovered that only with NO money truly is the root of all evils..I read news relates to murdering, blackmailing, violences, cheating, committing suicides and depression mostly are relating to financial problems...

Even in my own experience, my cousin is starting to fall into trance of depression due to shortage of money to pay for her house loan and now desperately in need of cash. she does not mind to take up another job as part-time basis but most pple turn her down due to her age..

In this world, am I right to say that it is the money in search of money?? Rich people gets richer and richer, but of course with hard work and good luck.. But poor pple just gets poorer no matter how much hard work they put in, few years or even 10 or 20 years down the road, they are still struggling to work for money in order to secure 3 meals on the table??

What will do if you are poor?

2007-05-25 20:49:51 · 9 answers · asked by Precious 8 1

he told me to shop better clothes and loss wieght... he thinks im neglecting myself!

2007-05-25 20:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by fritzel o 1

She sent him a pm and he answered her and they chatted back and forth for a few days(till i caught him)u could tell she was "feeling him out" to see if there was an interest.and my fiance who had no interest in his page till she contacted him fixed it all up with songs,photos(none of me)sayings ect.plus he was quick to answer her when ever she pm him.now he never said anything bad to her but it only went on for about 2 days before i caught him.now he never told me about this, i found out when i logged on to his account to get someones email(he did not know i was doing it)when i asked him about it he blew it off as no big deal but as soon as i left the room he deleted his whole account,weird i thought.oh let me add he left his 1st wife for this chick.shes like a bad penny allways turning up.

2007-05-25 18:35:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone worth living with ( marriage).

2007-05-25 18:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by bevirtuousok 3

2007-05-25 18:18:16 · 28 answers · asked by sweet_leaf 7

I went to my husband's office and found him having a nap on the sofa. There were a man and a woman working on the computer. My husband was sleeping in the same room where the woman was. Then he woke up and walked directly to that girl without wearing his glasses(he's near-sighted), close enough to be thought as a couple, the girl shouted: "watch out, wear your glasses." After the warning my husband stopped hugging her and went back to put on his glasses and then he found I was already in the office. He asked" why you were here earlier than usual? " seemed not to welcome my visit. Do they have a relationship? Did they have sex in the office? Is it normal for colleagues to be this intimate?

2007-05-25 18:14:51 · 16 answers · asked by mimosa 1

It just seems a little bizarre to me that with so many people on the planet, we are expected to follow through with what seems to be a cultural trend. I mean, I've fallen in love before and have seen myself spending a very long time committed to this person, but for the rest of my life? Honestly, shouldn't we try to fall in love with as many people as possible(even if it's in a non-sexual way)? It's funny because my parents have been married for 25 years and they are happy, but monogamy seems so unreal to me at the moment. What if it's not made for everyone? In my opinion, the only valid reason to explain why people should be monogamous is because I know 99.999% of people believe that being "unfaithful" is wrong, making it a form of disrespect. Like many people, i'd be upset if my partner were to cheat only because I know that most likely he wouldn't do it to try to "love everyone." But what if this idea became the cultural trend? Then what? What do you guys think about monogamy?

2007-05-25 18:12:06 · 16 answers · asked by scarlett 2

i want to break him,but i cant move, on,til i found myself with him again.............

2007-05-25 17:50:57 · 21 answers · asked by wilma a 1

we both work fulltime and split the bills 50/50.I work 8 hours a day 5 days a week.she works 10 hours a day and 4 days a week.she always has friday off(3 day weekend).I think since shes off she should do the cleaning and grocery shopping on friday.she feels we should do it together on the weekend.i just think she should do it since she has the day off.

2007-05-25 17:44:09 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this wrong?

2007-05-25 17:42:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

both sexes, men and women

2007-05-25 17:32:16 · 23 answers · asked by 11111111111111111111111111111111 1

2007-05-25 17:27:24 · 2 answers · asked by canadiancinderangel 1

Especially if you were the "injured spouse". How did you 'just let it go" How did you stop from talking about it? I am the injured spouse and it has been 8 months, but I still find myself bringing it up or throwing some really nasty comments to my husband about it. And I know that talking about it isnt going to change it and will only delay the healing, but how do i get myself to stop. It is driving my husband insane and I honestly think I have made him pay enough for it so i need to stop the verbal abuse or its going to ruin my marriage. Any suggestions to help me with this would be appreciated. Thanks.

2007-05-25 17:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-25 17:22:11 · 7 answers · asked by pixies911 2

Okay, so this is my first love I am speaking about. I still love him and get jittery when he is around (not very often) I am married now with two kids and I truely love my husband. In saying that I have all these questions that I want answers to because the break up happened without warning. I have no thoughts of jeopardizing my marriage or his so how do I get this questions answered without it being suspicious? It has been 10 years i am afraid they will not get off my mind if I don't get answered.

2007-05-25 17:05:18 · 9 answers · asked by Shaney 2

2007-05-25 16:55:12 · 14 answers · asked by Liss 2

2007-05-25 16:54:58 · 10 answers · asked by amw11380 1

if you really had to choose, and marry a person, would you marry someone who you loved (crazily) but they didnt love you, or someone who loved (crazily) you but you didnt love them?

and you have to choose one!

2007-05-25 16:51:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal that I am feeling no feelings of sadness at all? He was verbally and emotionally abusive. All I feel is relief that I am away. Should I expect to feel bad about this at any time coming up?

2007-05-25 16:45:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-25 16:38:42 · 14 answers · asked by jazzy j 1

I have a live in boyfriend for over 2 years.I saw some emails from another woman 2 weeks ago that he had been flirting with for some time. They emailed each other back n forth for 2 months. i know nothing happened because he was in texas for work and she lived in cali. He had been home for 2 weeks when I found the emails. I confronted him and he said it was nothing. I strongly believe had I not said anything it probably would continue and some how they would arrange to met up. I know they havent emailed each other but today I used his cell phone and saw text messages from an ex-girlfriend.
I asked 2 weeks ago to respect our relationship. I ended ties with old male friends because I dont think that men and women can be friends without some sort of attraction.
I ask him randomly who has been emailing him or texting him and he says no one.

But indeed its an ex girlfriend that says she cant stop picturing them F***ing.

2007-05-25 16:09:17 · 19 answers · asked by dirtdiva 2