if you really had to choose, and marry a person, would you marry someone who you loved (crazily) but they didnt love you, or someone who loved (crazily) you but you didnt love them?
and you have to choose one!
2007-05-25 16:51:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marry someone I loved crazily, and divorce them, because I know it won't hurt the person, and I'd rather hurt myself than hurt the person.
If I loved the person that much, I'd do what the person wants and respect his/her life/feelings.
2007-05-25 16:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Oh gosh neither but you are making us choose.
Well you don't want to be broken hearted so marry the one who loved you crazily. But then how married couples are still in love ?
A lot of people marry for other reasons than love.
2007-05-25 21:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Providing I was treated with respect and understanding I would choose the person I loved crazily!
2007-05-25 20:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rizzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. If you did either way, in the end you would end up unhappy and miserable. When your with someone who you love and they dont love you back, there is a greater possibility of that person cheating on you, treating you bad or leaving and hurting you.
If you love them but they do love you, then there is also a possibility of you wanting more in the relationship and cheating or leaving and hurting them. Thats not good.
When you find someone that loves you and you love them, you make a bigger effort to make things work for both..
2007-05-25 20:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by pretty_kitty_vicki29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the man who loves me crazily. Its always better to be loved than to love. Perhaps, I'd rather believe that its easier for love to grow on my part than hope and pray that love would grow on his part (the man who don't love me).
2007-05-25 16:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Destiny Wan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it wouldnt work at all if you pick just one or the other.. so thats impossible to pick just one. I wouldnt get married if i knew thathe didnt love me... and i wouldnt get married to a man just because i knew he was crazily in love with me and i didnt love him back. In order for that to work both partners need to love each other
2007-05-25 19:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by misspookett 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone who I loved crazily. I would hate to be loved by a person who, lets say, when he touched me made my skin crawl.
2007-05-25 17:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some one who loved me crazily
2007-05-25 16:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by corey t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if i had to choose one i think ide have to say who i loved crazily .
2007-05-25 16:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd choose the one who loved me. In the end the one who is going to be a better partner, a bestfriend, and who is going to treat you better is the one who is crazy in love with you. The onther one on the other hand will most likey hurt you in the long run. Maybe YOU are over looking something good about the one who IS crazy in love with you.
2007-05-25 16:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋