Marriage & Divorce - 25 May 2007

2007-05-25 16:07:02 · 18 answers · asked by minnetta c 6

2007-05-25 15:52:15 · 15 answers · asked by smalltowngirlinsc 1

my so called wife of 12 years sept will not try to be a wife every weekend she goes out and doesnt come back im almost suicidal what do i do ?

2007-05-25 15:48:05 · 23 answers · asked by yamadori4u 2

We have joint custody and I just found out that she is driving to georgia as I write this need some help fast

2007-05-25 15:31:35 · 33 answers · asked by dconnerii 2

I cheated on my husband about 5 months ago. And about 3 and about 2 months ago. Same person, we didnt have sex but we did make out, and I did pleasure his man hood with my mouth! Its not that my husband is mean, or hits me or anything. The only thing I can think of was that he wasnt there for me during a very hard part in my life (while we were married). I kept saying hunny I just need some one to talk to. some one to just be there. He seemed to think me being upset was wrong. This other person was there for me, he made me laugh. Dont get me wrong. I love my husband. I really dont have any feelings for the other guy except i love being around him.

I dont know if yall can keep from being mean or not but please dont Judge, it isnt what I am asking for.

I am asking If I am broken cause I do not feel the slightest bit guilty.

Some people say they wouldnt be able to live with themselves.

Please help. Appricate it..

2007-05-25 15:18:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He hasn't been interested in a while and when we do go at it, he goes limp and then gets mad at me. I don't know what to do anymore,.

2007-05-25 14:57:51 · 21 answers · asked by lobo5747 2

other than having a family and buying a home together.. or love...cant you love someone with that dam piece of paper

2007-05-25 14:39:13 · 32 answers · asked by vis 7

so that they dont make the same mistakes as before?
i like to ask A LOTof important and unimportant questions so i can learn from them and sometimes i get ridiculed on here for doing so. isnt that what yahoo answers, marriage/divorce is for to speak your mind and help you get through things, or am i wrong?

2007-05-25 14:34:43 · 6 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

My husband and I are constantly fighting over money. He has the chance to go work tomorrow and make some good money, but doesn't want to. He makes almost as much as I do, but we are still broke. What do I do? I have been having some bad thoughts because of it. We have been married almost 6 years and keep fighting over the same thing for 5 of those 6 years. I love him with all my heart, but I can't take the fighting anymore. HELP please!

2007-05-25 14:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by littlemama9130 2

Ok this is my third time asking this. I just need 5 guys to tell me if they were to have childern what would they want their only child to be as well as their oldest.

Thanks

2007-05-25 14:02:10 · 4 answers · asked by Siberia_McLean 2

I have a group of friends who have been very good to me; when I first came over to America from Australia I stayed with several of them and through them I met my girlfriend. We are all couples(my girlfriend and I are the only unmarried couple) and we fellows have all covered for each other when at various times we've cheated on our wives/girlfriends. Well, now I found out one friend's wife was herself cheating(I have a previous question about this), and, instead of keeping my big mouth shut, I met her at her home this afternoon & told her she needed to tell her husband or I would. She instantly turned on me and said that if I said anything she'd tell everyone that WE had been having an affair! She then said that with my reputation(admittedly the worst of the lot) no one would believe me innocent and that I would lose all my friends. She's got me there: no one would forgive me for crossing the line with a friend's wife, and my girlfriend wouldn't forgive me this time. I'm stuck.

2007-05-25 14:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been in a long term relationship for many years and together although unmarried we share 3 kids. i haven't had sex for a very long time (think in years, not days) . Dude's poor. we're poor together and in one crappy situation.the thought of sex makes me want to hurl. but i dont know why i hate myself for it and i dont know what to do. anyone?

2007-05-25 13:53:15 · 18 answers · asked by ohsosad 1

Is it bad to hate an ex if they put you through hell? I am just curious. When my ex and I were together, I remember him saying he didn't care what happened to her because she made a mess of his life. He cared for her, but from the way he talked about her, they weren't really in love. She had 2 kids and she neglected them. He cared for her kids and one time they had such a bad diaper rash they had to go to the doctor. She was a horrible mom. He just thinks she is a horrible person and they used to be friends back when they were kids so he thought she was better than that. I really don't think he ever loved her, but I think that she put him through hell. All they did was get drunk and she would never admit that she was cheating on him. He broke it off with her. They only dated for about 2 months. I know my ex. He is the love of my life and i am his too, we have known each other for 8 years. He holds grudges. This was 8 months ago, so he prob doesn't care to much now, but when we were tog

2007-05-25 13:23:54 · 13 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1

My husband is usually running late after work. I will call him to find out whether to hold dinner or not. Lately, when I call he doesn't answer his phone. If I call 20 minutes later, he will answer but seem very distracted and out of breathe. Then he will tell me he will be late. This has happened nine times out of ten. I think maybe I am paranoid but there is this little voice that tells me to look into it. What do you think?

2007-05-25 13:16:29 · 24 answers · asked by 4532 3

I feel like we both have given up and I am open about my feelings with my husband. He knows exactly what went wrong, yet he does not take a responsibility of his contribution to our marital problems. We live like housemated, who care about each other, but past issues never been resolved and seems like a sexual chemistry never really existed. I don't blame him, I know my own flaws and at least admit to them. I am just sad that instead of being honest he would keep it all quiet and pretend that everything is great. I am not working at the moment and he tells me that I should be grateful that he is "being nice", that he takes care of me. What is the alternative? What if he was sick or unemployed? I would then take care of him and would not even think that I am going an extra mile. Anyway, what do you do with the husband, who keeps being defensive and unwilling to have an adult discussion about where we are and what we want?!? Tried counselling - no desired change.

2007-05-25 13:12:29 · 7 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3

Personally, I would rate mine a 7~ it's not perfect, but it's nice.

Just curious to see how other people feel:)

2007-05-25 12:36:55 · 31 answers · asked by Proud mother! 6

The other day i came home early from work and my husband didn't work that day, didn't know i was coming home early. When i was pulling into our driveway i saw him coming out of the neighbors house fixing his belt, our neighbor is a women about 30 years old. I asked him over dinner what he was doing and he told me the truth. He said that he and the neighbor have been having sex for like 3 months now. Then he said they wanted me to join them. I really love him we have been together since high school. He said this was the first time he's ever cheated on me. I don't want to leave him but he keeps insisting that we have a threesome. What do you all think?

2007-05-25 12:28:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I'm in need of some partial advice!
I've been with my partner for nearly 5 years now.
We are both professionals owning houses very near each other (don't live together). My partner is 32 was married and has a daughter - from what he tells me the relationship was quite bad. We generally have quite a good relationship but communication has always been a problem because he does not like to talk about feelings. I'm 30 and feel my life is good and feel ready to really commit. Just over a year ago we had a termination, I feel this was more his decision than mine. Recently he ahs asked me to stop birth control as he feels ready to have a baby, but not to get married. I feel that marriage is no where near as huge commitment wise as having a baby so don't understand. I really really don't want to have child out of marriage so my dilemma is do I wait & pray he'll change his mind or call it a day. 1st option worries me because of my age and the 2nd option will definitely break my heart.

2007-05-25 12:19:45 · 30 answers · asked by Sooz 1

and my daughters church sent us a check to help us as my husband missed several days of work, and we also had extra expenses due to driving back and forth to the hospital.I want to write a thank you note to the church.I wish i were good with words, but am not.was hoping someone could help me write an appreciation letter, thank you so much

2007-05-25 12:13:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay my Husband has been deployed for about 9 months. recently he has been just in the last week been doing things he has never been doing since we were together... like asking about have 3 somes and such and like ive never done it before. and he registerd for a porn website... and then alll that kinda stuff i duno hes just acting differently... please help.i dont want to lose him.

2007-05-25 11:57:21 · 35 answers · asked by jbairswifey9706 1

I think I have decided to just deal with it cause I cannot break his heart . please tell me i am doing the right thing cause i really feel like crap just for thinking about breaking his heart and telling him . Read last 2 questions to understand and not there not long so don't worry about that ....

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlQ2x.tRkBFzqgL9yjD5uyzsy6IX?qid=20070525135347AAUda0Y

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgPz0B4PIop5dVj4aq94O3nsy6IX?qid=20070525150757AATG1eL

2007-05-25 11:57:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known my wife a long time but we started seeing each other only 2 years ago and married in March 2006. I had never married & have no children, we yalked about having children and that is why we got married.
My wife had delibrately let me believe that her first child was from a relationship that "was made in heaven" and she had personally chosen her partner because he was so perfect. However after we had decided to get engaged she dropped the bombshell that in fact he was married with two children and he had left his wife and children to be with her.
Two years before that her previous 4 year relationship to another married man with children ended when he committed sucicide leaving his wife and children alone.
After leaving the father of her son of 15 years she had an affair with a married builder working in her house and used guessed yes behind his wife's back and risking his marriage and family too.
She has a 6 year old daughter to a dropout who she slept with while drunk

2007-05-25 11:42:42 · 29 answers · asked by mermaid 2

When my wife and I were still dating, there were times when I would be on the phone with her and I hear her scrubbing the tubs in their family house (where she used to live with her brothers). But when we got married, she bearly ever touches the bathtubs. I have two jobs, come back home, fold her clothes, vacuum, pay majority of the bills, wash the bathrooms, take out the garbage and do any type of maintenance work round our apartment. It is VERY tiring and I feel really used. When I asked her why she never cleans the bathtubs and remind her about how she used to tidy up in their house, she says "I did that because I was the only girl in my house." There have been times when I come home after both jobs (around 11pm) and meet a messy place which I end up cleaning up. Meanwhile she only has one job and just goes to the gym after work. I have spoken up about this, but she seems to take it for granted that it has caused alot of inner resentment in me. Did she put on an act to marry?

2007-05-25 11:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2

My husband has recently been unfaithfull to me and i am giving him another chance but i still keep thinking of it and when i get mad i throw it up in his face!How do i stop?

2007-05-25 11:27:27 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm recently divorced and I live in Iowa. I moved 300 miles across the state after the divorce was finalized. I was thinking about moving to Texas where my Aunt lives with my kids. I was being nice and was going to talk to my ex-husband about it. He than stated that he can get it where I would have to move back to my original city. Saying that his lawyer said that he could get it where I have to move back to the original school district. I don't know any of the laws in Iowa but can I be told I can't move? Or even better can it be told that I have to move back to the original city? My ex husband is a complulsive liar so I never know what to believe. He plays alot of mind games...so anyone that can help me out with any information on this would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

2007-05-25 11:26:06 · 12 answers · asked by brokenhearted 2

ive been with this man for seven years and have literally been through everything you can think of with him the situation were going through right now is i was sexually abused growing up and my four year old daughter told me that my nine year old niece touched her private part with her underware on i have never trusted my daughter with anyone and i am so furious i want him to talk to both the girls but he works twelve hours a day its been three days we have to live in the same house together her mom my fiancees sister sais that she didn't do it my mother in law sais that its all me and i'm just trying to get my nieces mom and her kicked out of the house i know without a doubt she's telling the truth i got so mad i keep telling him to talk to them because either the girl goes to couseling or i'm going to call the police i'm so stressed out he needs to make time he shoved my face and said lots of bad things in front of his mom and my kids everytime we fight he hurt me what can i do

2007-05-25 11:24:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-25 11:16:50 · 22 answers · asked by waterzone 4

Could my mom get in trouble if she consents for us to get married?

2007-05-25 11:13:04 · 25 answers · asked by divafurlife 1

i have no income and no where to go. any ideas on how i should go about this? by the way, we only moved to our new house 2 weeks ago and the thought of uprouting my kids again is killing me. i also have 3 pets to think of too. some of you may think this is trivial to worry about animals, but they are part of my family too. please write helpful answers only. i've sworn about him enough tonight! just need to know if anyone out there has any thoughts on what i can do. thanx

2007-05-25 11:12:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just got married and I wanted to know will my wife's income be used for child support?

2007-05-25 11:08:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous