2007-05-25 15:52:15 · 15 answers · asked by smalltowngirlinsc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why have you both not divorced? 2 years!??? He has moved on, so should you.
2007-05-25 16:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong to be hurt. While you may be separated for 2 years, you are still married to him and you need to close that door so that you can move on with your life. Looks on he did that without closing the door on your marriage. Sometimes closing the door on a relationship is better and you won't feel hurt every time something major happens in his life.
2007-05-25 23:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Nava 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! I would definitely be hurt. You are still married!! Separate doesn't mean "do your own thing with whoever you want". If he wanted to move on, he should have gotten a divorce from you first! That's really mean.
I'm so sorry to hear that! You are normal to feel hurt. I definitely would! ((hugs))
P.S. I would suggest an immediate divorce though. You don't need that extra baggage he is creating.
2007-05-25 22:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it's not wrong to be hurt. I would go ahead & get my divorce. My heart goes out to you. I would never be able to trust him again, you will have so many more problems because he will have to pay child support.There's a thin line between love & hate. Everytime you look @ him it will rip you poor heart out. Big Hugs to you
Star
2007-05-25 23:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by texasstar1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings are neither 'right' nor 'wrong'. They are just the way we feel about something. So, no, I do not think it is wrong.
Separated is not divorced. Doesn't look like your husband values the marriage vows so maybe you should check into a legal divorce so you can move on.
2007-05-25 23:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by ~Casper~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce never had anything to do with still loving someone and separation definitely doesn't stop you from caring. It's quite normal for you to feel this way, however it is a sign that you haven't moved on with your life or your new beau doesn't quite add up to him. Either way, you got to keep it movin'
2007-05-25 23:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong for you to hurt..it's wrong of you to still be married. go file the paperwork for a divorce. he got over the marriage long ago, now it's your turn to move on and be happy with your life.
2007-05-25 22:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural to be hurt. He was a special person that you held close to your heart. Its not wrong to be hurt but its best not to dwell on it. Try to keep yourself busy, maybe take up a new hobby?
2007-05-25 22:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after two years one would think that kind of hurt wouldn't happen, but it probably has something to do with your reasons for not finalizing the divorce.
2007-05-25 23:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong, I would be hurt. and I agree with others divorce immeadiatly. No reason to continue now
2007-05-25 23:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by Marge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋