Marriage & Divorce - 25 May 2007

I love my husband. But this is my only issue, I can't stop thinking "what if?" when I think about my ex. Am I screwed up?

2007-05-25 11:07:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you be upset? My hubby only goes out 1x a month with his friends I dont mind but I have been so sick and in bed all day fever, chills, etc etc. Have been sick since Sunday and so has my little boy. My hubby let me lay down for 2 hrs today while he watched my 4yr old but then he went out. He had it planned for a few days. I just felt that since I was so sick he might want to stay and take care of me? Is this selfish?

2007-05-25 10:57:09 · 35 answers · asked by jodilynn0303 1

Ok....hes only 13 and is guided by his mother who he lives with.
But how can my boyfriend develop a relationship with his son when his mother only agrees to contact if there is some financial or material gain in it for the son, which obviously the son has now caught on to.

2007-05-25 10:49:19 · 13 answers · asked by hollyb20 4

He has started writing down instances when her outbursts occur (she'll curse at their 8-year-old for nothing) and he wants the kid to live with him and for her to just get visitation after the divorce. What other steps should he take to make a better case for this? He feels it would be damaging for the child to live with her most of the time (plus, he's very close to this child-- it's the only reason he's stayed married this long). Any help, especially from a lawyer, would be appreciated.

2007-05-25 10:35:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to ask if a husband denies to go widh his wife to her paernts withour any solid reason and even she fullfills all rights of a husband then jst please tell me what is the solution of this problem from Islamic point of view,actuaaly husband is of the view that he cant take her to her'perents home please answer this question

2007-05-25 10:31:36 · 2 answers · asked by khan durrani 1

If two people are married, and the wife no longer wants to be in the relationship, and abondons the marriage and the husband, and she seeks alimony, is the husband required to pay it? The wife has detroyed the husband's clothes and other property. She no longer wants to be married and has left on her own leaving her married life behind. What can the husband do to not have to pay the alimony? From the way it looks, she wants the TV, the bed, her car- material items, and alimony. I don't see this fair since she ended the relationship- what advice can I give to the husband?

2007-05-25 10:16:16 · 11 answers · asked by CuriousMama 1

interested in pursuing a relationship. He is a guy; I'm sure he is interested in sex, but she needs much more than that to get involved with someone.

Some background. He is 35 years old, recently split, 2 year old son that he is very involved with. She is 29 years old, a widow, has a 7 year old daughter, and she is a wonderful mother.

She has been seeing him for a short period of time. He is willing to do kid involved activities, he always answers the phone when she calls, he seems like a decent guy to her, he kept tissue in his pocket for his son (this one really impressed her). I have not met him; I'm thinking there might be a reason for that like I will give him the third degree or something.

What do you think? How can she tell? When will she know?

2007-05-25 10:14:42 · 10 answers · asked by Randy 5

2007-05-25 10:07:06 · 20 answers · asked by Stickman 3

I would like to know the chances of my guy proposing. I have a B.Sc., but no job, no car, alot of dreams that seem a world away and I also live a world away (overseas). Do you think he'd still go ahead pop the question?

2007-05-25 09:57:44 · 12 answers · asked by SugarPie 2

2007-05-25 09:57:21 · 27 answers · asked by sandstone901 4

My boyfriend and I of one year recently broke-up, but got back together a few weeks later. He has been on his own for a long time and never been married (he's in his early 50's) He definitely has a problem compromising. Last year he didn't make much effort to do anything for my birthday, and wouldn't come with me to my family's for Thanksgiving or Christmas. He has no family in the area, and for Christmas he flew to the west coast to see his daughter. This I understand since I would never come between him and his daughter, but I don't think asking to spending time with me and my family for birthdays and holidays is too much to ask since it's a serious relationship. Now that were are back together he says if he compromises, then I have to compromise. He is demanding I get a car and a nicer apartment! Now - I live in a big city and don't need a car and I get myself to and from his house just fine, and he never comes to my apartment!! Whats up with this? I told him I think it's shallow..

2007-05-25 09:52:51 · 28 answers · asked by Dee 2

In Quran God says that Eve has been created from the left side rib of Adam, The rib in its nature is curve, if you want to straight it, it will break. Similar is the natuure of a woman, who in its status is not straight but stubborn so the man should recognize that we have to handle woman politely and tactfully to avoid any embarrassment.

2007-05-25 09:46:51 · 12 answers · asked by Iqbal H 4

the question is should i have gave my husband mor eof a chance or what

2007-05-25 09:46:33 · 42 answers · asked by dynasty_morre 1

I want to get my husbands attention. He seems to want to hang out with his friends all the time. I would hang with them but he doesn't feel comfortable with me being around his friends. I was told by a few girlfriends to pretend like someone was interested in me and that I was interested in someone else. I was told that this would work. I am not one for playing games, but this seems like a good way of getting his attention. If you one could please HELP!!!

Thanks in advance.

2007-05-25 09:45:42 · 24 answers · asked by De_Light 1

i was halfway through a sentence and hes in there like a rocket telling me how wrong i am. he didnt know how my sentence would finish but jumped in to correct what he very wrongly guessed i was saying. twice tonight hes done this. i fight back but whats the point? im p*ssed off with it

2007-05-25 09:44:25 · 11 answers · asked by kati 6

I crashed his pride and joy and demolished our fence, any ideas how I'm going to lie myself out of it. He's going to go mad oops

2007-05-25 08:45:17 · 54 answers · asked by Tyanna-Daisy 5

he says that it's just that he doesnt want to, he doenst feel like it... i know hes not cheating on me .. hes with me all the time and doesnt go out on weekends if its not with me so thats out could it just be because im pregnant?

2007-05-25 08:38:30 · 35 answers · asked by anonymous 2

When a woman gets married in the United States, society expects that woman to give up her identity (change her last name), and take her husbands last name as her own. I am doing research, and would like to hear from people in every country in the world as to what their customs are regarding this situation.

2007-05-25 08:31:19 · 7 answers · asked by bingo babe 1

2007-05-25 08:27:01 · 19 answers · asked by eliza l 3

I am 7 months prego and the baby is kicking like crazy and moving around under my ribs and my husband doesnt seem to care or have any compassion. I feel like crap, i feel unattractive because i have no energy to fix my hair or put on make up. And he isn't helping. When we are sitting on the couch, i'm like " Wanna feel the baby?" and he rolls his eyes kind of and puts his hand on there for like 5 seconds and says " i didnt feel nothing". If i ask him to massage my back or scratch my back, all i get is a 1 minute massage or a complaint about how his hand hurts. My 6 year old son is more excited about the baby than he is. He wants to go shopping and feel my tummy all the time.
dont get me wrong, he's not a complete butthead. He does clean the house spotless and cook for me cause he's knows i'm tired from working all day long. It's just he doesnt feel my pain. He doesn't understand I can't push mow the grass or get myself out of the bathtub. I think he thinks i'm exagerating! Help!

2007-05-25 08:05:35 · 20 answers · asked by Cutie 3

I am going to get married on July 19th. I haven't seen him for a year coz he's in the US and i'm half way across the world from him. I met this other guy at a party, and he's being so sweet... I feel different when i'm with him and I went out for coffee today..... He's funny and amusing. He knows i'm getting married in 2 months and told me that he likes me but will be my friend no matter where I end up at. But he warned me that once he falls in love with me, he won't let me go... I was disappointed that he doesn't love me yet.. you know.. my ego!... But for a moment I thought, what if he's in love with me for real? I can't talk about this with my fiance coz i can't lose him. I don't wanna do something stupid. I do love my fiance, but this new guy is getting me out of my senses...
I feel so confused and getting heart aches coz of that. What am I doing..Why..
It's getting more complicated every minute..
One mor ething, this other guy is from my culture, my fiance is from another

2007-05-25 08:05:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i get a women that will love me unconditionaly? what is the chance to find a pure frienship...and sex and hormonns will come after?

2007-05-25 08:03:26 · 12 answers · asked by dan6 2

I am living in a situation that has been draining me for along time. My husband has cheated several times during our marriage, to the point where he decided that we needed an open relationship. I went along with it because I loved him. But it didn't seem to matter, things got worse, for the longest time, several years in fact, he spent all of his time w/friends, at the bar, or anywhere that wasn't home. He acted like he didn't care about his family. Finally, fed up with the whole senario, I became close friends with a neighbor. One thing led to another, and after months of being close we finally broke down and had an affair. My husband caught us. Now he is fuming because I cheated. But what about his request for an open relationship that he took advantage of? Why is it only good for him and not me? I have only stayed with him because of our daughter otherwise I would go and leave. I am just trying to figure out why I am the bad guy when I only did what he said was acceptabl

2007-05-25 08:01:23 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

To waste less time... basically, hubby had a 10 month affair. It was recently discovered. I want to file for divorce. There are 2 kids involved. We are agreeing so far. I'm beginning to waiver in my descision. I miss my husband/ friend/ the kids' father, but definately don't trust him.

Is this repairable? Has anyone else recovered? I know that it may be very hard, but am I jumping the gun because I was hurt? I've heard plenty of once a cheater always a cheater.... I don't need to hear that. I need down to earth practical advice.

2007-05-25 07:47:25 · 31 answers · asked by Penny's from Heaven 3

I am married for 12 years and have 3 kids. I work with a women who married and has 3 kids. We have always been very close friends. About 2 years ago I thought I was falling in love with her and it took me a while to get over it. The past 6 month or so she seems to be making little hints that she has feelings for me but sometimes it's hard to tell because she naturally has a flirtatious personality. Once a while be back were out drinking and we kissed. Now she keeps joking around saying that we should do that again. Both our marriages are in a little trouble and I honestly think we are 2 people that would be great as husband and wife. How do I address this with her without ruining the freindship?

2007-05-25 07:46:01 · 18 answers · asked by Regular Tampa Guy 1

I want to have a 3 some with another woman and my husband. It is a real turn on but, Afterwards I will get jealous. how do i avoid this?

2007-05-25 07:42:27 · 36 answers · asked by Jeannine L 1

I have a lot of female friends from college and high school that I like to hang out with. Most are still single or divorced. Most are friends with my wife. Is it inappropriate in you opinion to go out with them, when she is working nights? I know she trusts me, but is it disrespectful? If so, that sucks.

2007-05-25 07:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by cueball 1

My wife goes out all the time with her girlfriends. We have known each other for about 5 years now but have been married for 1 year. She goes out and spends the night with them every weekend. I tell her how i fell about it and she acts like it isn't a big deal. I really want to do more things together but when I suggest it, she blows it off. She says that she might be depressed but she only acts depressed towards me. Not to mention the girl that she meanly hangs out with, she also works with and sees everyday. What should I do to make her realize that i want her to stay home. (forget anything romantic, she hates stuff like that). And why does she get tired of me and not her friends?

2007-05-25 07:23:58 · 28 answers · asked by Lonely Man 1

also wanted to know if you have clean socks on the floor of the side of the bed to put on before you get off of the bed?

2007-05-25 07:20:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

a good age to get married..Other then 80

2007-05-25 07:09:55 · 24 answers · asked by JAYDEN 2