how can i get a women that will love me unconditionaly? what is the chance to find a pure frienship...and sex and hormonns will come after?
2007-05-25 08:03:26 · 12 answers · asked by dan6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think marriages are base on physical attraction!! I have dated many good looking men, and they seems to be cocky. I hate that. I married an average looking man and he treats me pretty darn good. Yeah, you have to be attracted to the person, but just because you grow old and become less attractive isn't a reason for divorce. You make a committment to love one another thru thick and thin, good times and bad times, through sickness and in health. If someone can't obey their vows, then they shouldn't get married in the first place. Both parties have to make an effort to make things work.
It is very possible to find someone to love you unconditionally. It's natural for the sex and hormone thing to be raging when you first meet someone.
2007-05-25 08:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by breisingermela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriages tht are based purely on physical attraction usually dont last but then beauty is in the eye of the beholder too. Ugly people need and find love too but more of the inner beauty of the person that lasts a lifetime. Inner attraction more than outer beauty. Go for the inner beauty and live happily ever after and who cares what they look like as long as youre happy
2007-05-25 08:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a great post I feel divorce is based on the fact that there are couples that don't like hard work and presererance they thing everything should be easy. You get a woman to love you by you loving yourself and not making her your God. Wives are not perfect I know I am one I feel if more people waited until they were married there would be a lot less divorce. Marraige is hard work and at times is $ucks excuse my language just enjoy the season you are in as wonderful as marraige is there are some rough spots and hardships too.
2007-05-25 09:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man and woman are attracted in a physical way but I would say that is not all that cause them to attract. Believe me it is a lot more than that. But to answer your questions, it is possible to find a woman to love you unconditionally but to find that really takes time. You can find all the things you are looking for if you just get into the dating field and get to know a person. But I hate to break your heart, even after getting to know them, you still actually never will know everything about a person until you marry them and sometime you don't know everything then. So sadly to say, you have to pray and hope for the love and happiness. I"m losing interest in my husband right Now, at this moment but I'm trying to work through it. It is not a physical attraction that I"m losing interest in, I"m losing interest in how he treats me. No communication!!!
I believe if I knew earlier what I know now, I wouldn't have married my husband. I hate to say that but it is the truth. So the best advice I can give you is just pray for guidance in helping you find that one special person. Good luck on your search.
2007-05-25 08:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there for everyone you just have to wait patiently until you find him/her..I see is as looks arn't everything, it's the love the matters most...
See my husband is soo gorgeous, but it is also his personality that makes him gorgeous, you can have a gorgeous girl/guy with absolutely no personality and you can have a not so good looking person with the best personality..Now tell me when someone gets with someone because of the physically attraction, later on when they get old, grey and wrinkly there gonna leave because their not physically attracted anymore??
Looks fade away, but the heart is there forever..If my husband was ugly i would still love him no matter what, because he is a great person with a big heart and there are woman out there who feel the same way....
Be patient you will find someone!
2007-05-25 08:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish we girls could do that too! Instead we have all these emotions that get in the way. Now that I'm older and not so stupid when it comes to sex. I think you are right! The ladies of the world should just be more like the men and have sex when they are attracted to someone no strings attached! Life would be easier and much more fun!!!
2016-05-17 21:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a definite, but it makes sense for some situations. Case in point, being "The Good Girl" doesn't work if your mate wants "Lara Croft"...damn those supermarket tabloids.
2007-05-25 08:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by matwior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think theres a real answer to this question. I would have to go with the cliche saying, "Just be yourself."
Date around, if one relationship dont work, then dont lose hope and just move on.
2007-05-25 08:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person I know who got a divorce did it for other reason. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about.
2007-05-25 09:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm positive your question is riddled with inaccurate stats. Good luck on getting a decent answer to your question.
2007-05-25 08:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sangria 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋