i was halfway through a sentence and hes in there like a rocket telling me how wrong i am. he didnt know how my sentence would finish but jumped in to correct what he very wrongly guessed i was saying. twice tonight hes done this. i fight back but whats the point? im p*ssed off with it
2007-05-25 09:44:25 · 11 answers · asked by kati 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
meriski i did that and he didnt like it at all ha bloody ha i need a big stick
2007-05-25 09:57:34 · update #1
and lisa i did that too. hes sulking now big time. lol
2007-05-25 09:58:59 · update #2
soulful yeah i know. im trying to teach him. like i said earlier .whats the point.
2007-05-25 10:01:25 · update #3
zail yes it does happen all thetime. i can never finish a sentence. and he has right now gone upstairs ignoring me . bollocks is a word that springs to mind . i nee outy of this
2007-05-25 11:18:39 · update #4
Try gently saying - could I finish the sentence I was about to make please. You have no idea what I was thinking, or what I was about to say.
If this doesn't work; try hitting him with a large stick - that should stop him in his tracks.
EDIT OK apologise about the stick!!!
have you tried doing the same to him - interrupting everything he has to say, when he complains tell him - 'now you know how I feel'
2007-05-25 09:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does this happen all the time? If so maybe he feels inferior to you thinking he needs to prove you wrong. If not, Remove yourself from home (if you can) and ask him to go grab a coffee with you if it's out of his character, somethings bugging him it may be you , may not be but somethings under his skin.
Well then, he needs to deal with his issues because they are not yours to own Hun. Your other half should compliment your life not create it, if him interrupting you is a constant (which is so rude and you must be soooo frustrated), live for yourself just as you did before you met him and if he can not see that he is doing this or isnt willing to work though it you I guess have the choice to leave or to stay and all I can say in the end, make sure what you choose is for you and what makes you happy.
2007-05-25 18:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by zail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband is a bigamist, cos he sounds exactly like mine. But i'm sure i just dropped mine off up the pub tonight!! Don't worry i think its that all men like to get the last word, even though that word isn't always the right one. In the end i just turn round and say "go on then you finish what i was saying" and walk away.
2007-05-25 16:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the exact opposite. It floors them once they get the gist of what's happening. Takes self-control on your part, but it becomes empowering. When he interrupts, at that exact moment STOP. Don't say another word. At all. Don't finish what you had to say, at least not that day, unless he begs (it has been known!) He'll begin to get frustrated and learn to listen until you have completed what you're saying!
2007-05-25 21:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by jaffacake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not married but all i can suggest is you either wait until he has calmed down (he might have had a hard day at work or stressed out and wrongly taking it out on you) and calmly tell him that he is p***ing you off by butting in when you are trying to talk and that its rude or when he does it again just grab him and kiss him passionatley - he'll be so shocked he'll wonder what you were saying before! then when he says what was that for? you just say ' i just love it when you express yourself so strongly but darling please dont but in when im talking again cos its really annoying!' try those and see what happens
2007-05-25 16:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Crissie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mess with his head.
Go, hey hon, I have something I want to say, and walk away. When he asks what did you want to say just go, oh, I thought you already knew, because, I'm sure you're going to tell me I'm wrong.....
So, never mind....and go take a shower....
Or start your sentence, let him interrupt, go, "Oh." when he's done and go take a shower. No feed back. Just "Oh."
Effective communication isn't going to happen anyway, so it might as well be funny.
2007-05-25 17:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem i sometimes let it go if its not worth it but if it is then i argue till im blue in the face i dont get y its ok for guys to b wrong but when were wrong heaven forbid
2007-05-25 16:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by hotmomma2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men have an A.S.D. problem,where they are on the spectrum is variable.Autistic Spectum Disorder.
2007-05-25 17:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by forty and fabulous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told him calmly that you don't like it when he interrupts you and he continues to do it... you have a choice..
Live with it ... or.....Live without it.... your choice.
2007-05-25 17:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't respect you.
2007-05-25 16:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋