I am going to get married on July 19th. I haven't seen him for a year coz he's in the US and i'm half way across the world from him. I met this other guy at a party, and he's being so sweet... I feel different when i'm with him and I went out for coffee today..... He's funny and amusing. He knows i'm getting married in 2 months and told me that he likes me but will be my friend no matter where I end up at. But he warned me that once he falls in love with me, he won't let me go... I was disappointed that he doesn't love me yet.. you know.. my ego!... But for a moment I thought, what if he's in love with me for real? I can't talk about this with my fiance coz i can't lose him. I don't wanna do something stupid. I do love my fiance, but this new guy is getting me out of my senses...
I feel so confused and getting heart aches coz of that. What am I doing..Why..
It's getting more complicated every minute..
One mor ething, this other guy is from my culture, my fiance is from another
2007-05-25 08:05:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds to me like your not to sure about your fiance since hes not in the same place as you are and the other guy is. You better think long and hard before you get married you don`t want to move to a strange place and decide you don`t want to be married to this man..Also being away from someone that long are you sure you know this man as well as you think to marry him?
2007-05-25 08:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically, marriages between those who have more in common (i.e. similar religion, family values or "culture") have a better chance of surviving. I'm not advocating one or the other, just throwing that fact into the equation. I'm sorry if this made it worse for you.
OK, I'm sorry, but that poster above me is totally off-base! Don't listen to them. Be honest in whatever decision you make or it'll end up biting you in the ***.
2007-05-25 15:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sangria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hurt your man; If you feel this way now what will it be like if you get married?
2007-05-25 15:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by jackie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it, you want the green card.
2007-05-25 15:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by whitexsaucer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where is it written that you cannot have your cake and eat it too?
2007-05-25 15:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋