I want to have a 3 some with another woman and my husband. It is a real turn on but, Afterwards I will get jealous. how do i avoid this?
2007-05-25 07:42:27 · 36 answers · asked by Jeannine L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you really want to see your husband have sex with another woman? What if he likes having sex with her better than you? Do you understand what your getting yourself into? It's going to cause a lot of problems with your marriage and you will resent your husband for the rest of your life. Once you do it once, he's going to think it ok to do it all the time or whenever he wants without you. Come on, think about it!
2007-05-25 07:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by breisingermela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a 3 some.
2007-05-25 07:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your the jealous type then a three-some will never work. It might be a turn on for you now, but afterwards it will only leave you with questions and doubt which in the end will only cause fighting between the two of you. How to avoid it, the only way I see it is not to have one. Rent some movies for the evening, then....... have a good time!!
2007-05-25 07:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inviting someone else into your sexual relationship with your husband is definitely asking for trouble, especially if you already know you'll be jelous.
Are you turned on by women? Go to a strip club with your husband, and have him give you a pile of ones and fives to give the girls. He will definitely get off on having the girls dance for you, and no-one has crossed a line!
It works for us, and I have come away with some new friends (who are girls), too!
2007-05-25 07:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont do it. Just because something is wanted doesn't mean it should be done.
I want a lot of things but i don't go and do it.
You avoid it by not doing it and living by the vows you took with your husband or wife
2007-05-25 07:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want to have a threesome and avoid being jealous, remind yourself that YOU wanted to do it, and that your husband comes home to YOU every night, not her.
If you are still jealous beyond doing that, maybe a threesome is not for you. there are other sexual adventures you can have that dont drive you crazy the morning after!
2007-05-25 08:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a nod to the Hindu concept that all images of God even the image our minds of God is a mask. IF your gonna get caught up in language and miss the deeper meeting dont bother go watch TV But if you mature enough for poetry keep reading only a dolt takes a poem as literal.
2016-05-17 21:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant avoid being just jealous its what make us human. you made the choice to have the 3 some and then you got jealous because you saw you man with someone else it just mean that your still in love with him. (DONT DO IT AGAIN)
one time just to get it out of your system ok. doing so again is just you asking for drama
2007-05-25 07:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by kt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it. That's the only way to avoid jealousy. You are opening the door for your husband to leave you for another woman.
2007-05-25 07:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by STEVEN 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good question, I went through the same thing with my x wife. I ran off with the other woman. Personally, your putting your marriage in jeopardy, not to say its not alot of fun, but there are dangers in this activity...You will do the right thing...Good Luck
2007-05-25 07:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋