Marriage & Divorce - 23 May 2007

My wife is 18 yrs older then me who doesn't look nice in gathering. we haved 4 kids so it is difficult to divouse her. so is there any possibility to bring her young?

2007-05-23 23:28:34 · 8 answers · asked by LoCo#33 1

She has hurted my kids as well, I do not understand. She had everything she could want. I have spent time and all I could give to her.

2007-05-23 22:41:25 · 19 answers · asked by terrencetljlv 1

My big c ock gets me up so early in the morning it is beginning to become a problem.
How can i make the " fella" less active at such an early hour ?
My wife is getting annoyed at the " chap" and has suggested wringing his neck but i have become so attached , what sould i do ?

2007-05-23 21:46:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wie and I are getting divorced. She had a physical affair back in December. We got back together and then she abruptly changed her mind. The dishonesty has driven me crazy. She swears there is no one else. The because I snoop I found a message she evidently intended to send to a number but send it to her email.

It reads, "

-----Forwarded Message-----
>From: @message.alltel.com
>Sent: May 23, 2007 5:32 PM
>To:
>Subject:
>
>Maybe I could walk with u awhile, rest beneath ur smile, everybody
>stumbles now and then and needs a hand to hold... Its a long trip alone"

So do I confront her or leave it alone. This is I am almost certain to a lawyer she is in the works of a business deal with. I have suspected at least an emotional affair.

2007-05-23 21:22:22 · 14 answers · asked by ZenMonkey 1

I am American and I am engaged to an Indian. He lives in India and has been denied visas to come here so far. So, I have decided to try to go there next year. Everything has been great between us so far, but in my last visit, I found some things to be very hard....cultural differences...and I am also realizing he doesn't understand me as much as I thought he did (language barrier)...so it's causing some problems. I want to try to work them out. I can read and write Hindi and I'm going to take a grammar class starting September. I could REALLY REALLY use some other input - some advice from other Americans married to Indians or some Indian ladies who can help me understand the men there a bit more...some support group...some tips on cross-cultural marriage (any good books?) - anything would be helpful. I believe he's getting a little tired of how hard it is for him to understand English and I really want to meet him half way - any thoughts?? :) Thanks!!

2007-05-23 21:19:51 · 12 answers · asked by Jazmin 2

my best fre told me her hubby got woman outside but he still do the duty of husband n father but he still want his gf.why man got $ cannot be faithfull to the wife........ if the wife do that to the husband i wonder how will the man feel.

2007-05-23 21:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by pretty girl 1

My boyfriends and i have talked about it for a while and now for a fact that whatever it takes we will get married. The problem is telling my parents. They already have a clue that we want to be married, but im not sure how they will react if i tell them we are wanting marriage now. I know he is the one. It hurts everyday when im not able to see him cuase i dont get to see him alot. I don't care if we live with my parents, and neither does he. We don't care about where we will be or what we'll have to do..we just want to be together,...but time is holding us back,..and we are afraid of what my parents would say or do about us getting married. I have one more year of school, and then ill go to beauty school for a year or so. He has a job already. I promise to focus on my school and career even if im married, becuase I want us to be able to move into a house oneday then have children. I just wish we could be married. Im not just another teen who thinks she's in love.what do i do...?

2007-05-23 20:38:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23yrs old, very beautiful. I got married in court when i was 18yr .the guy was good a little elder to me, but later wen V lived, V realised our difference of opinions, i was still ready to live wit hm, but hs financial standing was too weak & he nvr supported me, in other words, he was immature. I couldn't wait until he could get matured & change things. our parents realized our mistakes & V mutually got divorced within a year. Overall it wasn't a proper marriage also. My parents supported me a lot & never reminded me of the past. We had no children or anything. We didn't marry in church. Since then I continued working & lost interest to pursue a 2nd marriage. Now I am doing very well at work & holding a good post in an MNC. I have considered marrying in a proper way but I am not getting good proposals. Many of them come up with random matches, assuming my past to be some big crime. I want to marry a good looking man who is also doing well & god fearing. No online matrimony plz.

2007-05-23 19:31:38 · 22 answers · asked by Deanne 1

She's having a mental breakdown and causing me one too, She's with her sister who says she don't need help, The police wanted to call the judge but he was gone for the day. Would i be a villain for sending her to a mental hospital or would she maybe understand after treatment? I offered to a polygraph test thinking this might help her understand that what she thinks is not true. What made her think it she said was because my daughter laid her panties on my pants that were on a chair. Does she just want a divorce from me? or is she jealous of my daughter.

I'm distraught and in distress and unbelief of what is happening in my life.

Should I commit her against her and her sisters wishes and ignore the treatment she needs or commit her

I need help.

2007-05-23 19:17:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean they always want someone to take care of them like there 5 . What the hell is it about . My husband seems handicapped hwen it comes to his work clothes like he cannot get them out himself . What is your husband handicapped on .

2007-05-23 18:56:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

(i'm 25 right now and he's 26. I love him and he says that he loves me too. When asked about whether he would get married to me, he is like it scares him to think about it. He says that he loves the way things are and can be with me for the rest of my life. He thinks about marriage and feels it is ok, but when he seriously thinks about it, he can't commit. He asked me for time and that he's not sure if he will ever change his mind about marriage. He also promised me that if he were to marry, it would be me. I have a feeling that he is worried about having children, as he feels that they take too much out of life. Should i wait for him hoping that he would one day commit or should i move on?
Additional Details
4 minutes ago
Just to update with questions that some of you have asked-
No we don't live together as he lives 80km away, but the weekends are always spent 24/7 together.
He did mention to me the other day, that he's not sure, but maybe if he was more settled in his career, then he may feel that he is ready to committ.
At the bottom of my heart, i do feel that he thinks i'm pressuring him, but its just that my culture/religion expects me to be married before i'm 30.

2007-05-23 18:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 18:48:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 18:10:47 · 17 answers · asked by Masood 1

I have a daughter who is 2 (His stepdaughter)
I have been with my current Boyfriend/Fiance for 7 years and he is still married to his ex wife because she refuses divorce...and he feels threathened by her. So do I.
He has 2 sons (my stepsons) , age 13 and 17 and he pays for everything they need including the proper food. Is She entiled to half of our new business that we started 3 months ago?????????
The new business is starting to go very well!! ( A dream come true).
I am nervous that she may have some rights, I do not know about and will act on them.
We are finally able to make a better life so we can take better care of the children and send them to university.
Also, can I be his fiance if he is still technicially married on paper.????

2007-05-23 17:55:30 · 15 answers · asked by Katz 2

Hey everyone,
I need some serious answers with my problem.
Naturally I am very cool headed. However, I have been with my wife for two years, we dated for 5 making a total of seven. She is very very troublesome. At times, she riles me up so much I want to hit her. In fact, in some cases she does hit me first and when I try to leave she doesn't allow me to leave, and still keeps hurting me. Naturally, I have to retaliate and hit her back, more out of self defense and not to hurt her. I have never caused her injury. She provokes me so much, even when I want to leave, she does not allow me to,.
Now my questions are these
1. How do I deal with this?
2. She says I'm abusive and I also feel so, am I?
3. I really love and can't leave her, what do u think i do. I've tried everything ,but she's just troublesome.
Please advise me and I'd really appreciate it Also, there should be no holds barred. State the fact as it should be very candid answers.
Thanks a lot and hoping to hear from you

2007-05-23 17:50:33 · 24 answers · asked by concerned s 1

Hi all,
My husband is having an affair with one of his friend's wife since June 06. He has admitted having an affair with that woman and always told me it's over until i find yesterday that they did not take any break.I want to file for a divorce , but the single evidence i have is his cell phone listing of him spending hours on the phone with that girl. Is my evidence enough to get a divorce in Maryland? I can bear that anymore. I am a full time mothers of 3 kids full time student and full time worker. My life is already full of stress. Please kindly help.
Thanks
Florie

2007-05-23 17:35:52 · 11 answers · asked by florie k 1

your spouse had an affair with for a short time,( 2 months)?? Is it a mistress or just a plain wh**e?? Be nice this man had a deep feeling for the other woman........He told his friend that she is a nice lady.....

2007-05-23 17:30:31 · 24 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5

nice woman

2007-05-23 17:28:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

when ever I go on our home computer I notice that in the tool bar there's porn sites, but when I ask my husband why he says he's not going on them but every time I use the computer there's more sites popping up so I believe he's lying to me. And I think if he'll lie about this then he's probably lying about other things. I really want to leave but we have two kids and I don't want to hurt them, I'm just not happy anymore..What should I do.

2007-05-23 17:24:10 · 30 answers · asked by Castro 2

Have women forgotten their role in the home? Is it so wrong to expect to come home to a good dinner,clean home and quiet kids after a long day at work? Divorce rates seem to be at an all time high.... should men be allowed to have a speedy divorce on the grounds of lazy wife? Im not a chauvanist at all.. just asking opinions...

2007-05-23 17:22:15 · 33 answers · asked by RubbingRhubarb 1

Did you take your wedding vows to heart & understand the magnitude of their meaning or now that you're married you realize the weight of their importance & wonder if marriage is what it's all cracked up to be?

2007-05-23 17:10:49 · 29 answers · asked by eluvsdmode 6

my ex wife plays "the victim" (by the way,SHE's the one who filed for the divorce) to manipulate people into giving her money. meanwhile making me look like an uncaring father.

2007-05-23 17:10:35 · 12 answers · asked by autoshopexpress@sbcglobal.net 1

How do you tell when a man is being honest and when he is lying through his teeth??

2007-05-23 16:25:26 · 34 answers · asked by dorcas_3210 3

I am torn between my wife of nine years and a 27 year old lady I met in a bar. I have never cheated on my wife until I met this lady in the bar. The chemistry between us from the first time I laid eyes on her is unbelievable! We have kissed and fooled around but have not done the nasty. It has been going on for three weeks and I can't seem to break it off. I really do think I have feelings for this woman. My wife is great to me and is a very good to my 3 year old daughter. She is subpar in bed and has a low sex drive. She lives a rather plain life and I think I am in a major 7 year itch! That being said I am not sure I love my wife and am not attracted to her anymore. I need some advice. What to do??

2007-05-23 15:40:38 · 37 answers · asked by okrainmaker 1

My husbband has no idea what he is doing to me, but I wanna know what else I can do to fix our sex life. we have been married for less than a year. He is out of town on "business" alot, so I see him on weekends usually, we work opposite shifts but not that different . But anyway, I have always been the kikny kind and willing to try new stuff and do things sexually for him with no problem while Im doing it. The thing is that is all he will do. He will not do anything sexual back to me. Not even have sex with me. I am not unattractive, and I am pregnant, but I still have a high libido I always have. But he will get his and not even care about mine, until the other day, he actually bought me a vibrator, instead oh just having sex with me already! Other things have happened in our relationship lately to make me think he may be having an affair. What do you guys think? I have discussed this with him and he just thinks I am over reacting. We have only had sex three times in the past mont

2007-05-23 15:25:02 · 41 answers · asked by pumpkine0011 1

Did it happen to you? Did it happen to somone who hurt you? Was it worth it in the end? Okay I know this is more than one question. My ex cheated on me with this girl. She knew about me and rather than fess up when I asked she punked out. Come to find out later that he disgraced my name by claiming my oldest son was my nephew and I was not a very good parent to my youngest because I was always with my mother. My mother was taking care of my sisters kids because of domestic violence and I was helping her. I love my niece and nephew. Anyway...all these lies came out of the water. Furthermore...he got engaged to her while engaged to me. Anyway...I am moving forward but sometimes it really pisses me off that he can get away with this. So does what come around really go around?

2007-05-23 15:17:53 · 25 answers · asked by happybeans79 2

My husband and In have been together for 15 years and I caught him talking to someone else on the phone about 3 years ago. He claimed he met her on the chatline (meaning a dating place usimng the telephone) so when I confronted him... his response was she is just a friend. If she was just a friend he wouldn't have kept it from me. During the same conversation he said that he wasn't happy with me anymore. So eventually we worked things out. He lied to me about how many times he would talk to her and how often. So to make the long story short.. He just now walked in on me on my computer and saw me chatting with some friends that I met here actually and had a major fit.. he stormed in here and yelled at me and said that he knows what I was doing. To be honest when he barged in on me I got scared, panicked & logged off. Being that he has hit me before I got scared. So now he is gone. What does that mean? Would I be considered as cheating? Why would he accuse me or sneak up on me?

2007-05-23 15:17:33 · 14 answers · asked by good_girl 2

2007-05-23 15:12:04 · 16 answers · asked by sara 2

She has already said no 2 hours ago....

2007-05-23 15:03:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 15:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous