Marriage & Divorce - 23 May 2007

What is this passion that I feel inside
Such love and joy that I cannot hide
Do you see what you do when you are next to me
You've let me loose, you've set me free

I've tried to hold back this tied of emotion
But I just got sucked into this heavenly ocean
I'm drifting on the timeless currents of pure bliss
Hoping I will alway feel like this

For in your arms is where I'm at
No longer caring for this and that
I've just surrendered all I am
So that I may be, forever your man

Yes, I wrote it.

2007-05-23 11:37:20 · 19 answers · asked by honest guy 4

My husband left me and doesn't want to come back to the arguing. I have soul searched and really know what I need to do to change, and he is scared to take that leap and come home. Just wondering what I can say or do to get him to believe me and come home.

2007-05-23 11:32:44 · 18 answers · asked by crysmomof1 1

why is it when a man tells you he loves you every day, and then one day he forgets to say it for a couple of days, you start to think he is up to some thing, just wondering,

2007-05-23 11:27:56 · 22 answers · asked by birddog 2

My boyfriend has been accusing me of cheating and having hidden cameras in our house recording him for some time now. He thinks that I am sex addict and has called me an "internet whore" accusing me of meeting people online and having them come to my house to have sex while I put our 3 year old in the next room. He is finding pictures of girls on the internet and sending them to family members telling them that they are me, even though his family and I tell him they are clearly not me. He calls me a liar in front of my kids. The accusations keep getting bigger and more frequent as time goes by and they could not be farther from the truth. I have told him repeatedly to leave if he thinks I am a cheat, but he insists he's in love with me and won't leave. We live together in a house that is in my name, so I do not plan on moving out. What would you do??

2007-05-23 11:25:05 · 17 answers · asked by Gone Crazy 1

My boyfriend is so bossy that it is absolutely pathetic! It sucks! He is soooo ruude!I can't stand it! Every thing I do he's right in my face saying"Don't do this,don't do that!"What are some thiings I can do to get him off my back?What makes him this way and who gives him the right of way to another person's private business?!I can't stand the way he acts. I wish he was dead! I can't wait to doog him the next time I see him!I hate his ****** guts!What would you do????

2007-05-23 11:18:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

They got married last July... and I saw her through a car window once. I have NO idea what this woman is like... what her views on parenting are...etc...
My ex is an extremely controlling man.. any advice on how to get him to let me meet this woman??

2007-05-23 11:18:15 · 5 answers · asked by running2adream 6

cutting through
my soul broken
what is left?
i hate you
you don't love me anymore
i can't move on
you cheat on me
what is new?
our friendshp is broken
you cna't do noghting to make me happy now
why did you do this to me
hate my life
i just wanna be dead
i cry in school, in my room, in the car anywhere i just cry
how much i give you
you just useing me
please need me alone and don't talk to me!!!

2007-05-23 11:15:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How often is too much? too little? I want to know how often you want to hear those words.

Don't tell me everyone is different. Tell me what you like.

2007-05-23 11:15:24 · 24 answers · asked by na 1

there are phone calls,nasty movies, and now internet porn. it makes me feel sick!

2007-05-23 11:11:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 14 years. we have no friends to hang out with. I feel that one reason is that my husband wants it that way. The signs were there before we married but we were so much in love I couldn't see it. Here are just AFEW samples of incidents. We were on his boat, going to meet some of my friends on the river. As we found my friends on their boat, he wouldn't drive within 100 ft of them Other days he would get in verbal agruements with strangers as we were putting the boat in or out of the river. Claiming that they were taking cuts in line. Once we went camping with my friends, He bent my fingers back while hiking with them, saying I was walking too close to them. This behavior continues to this day. Once we went to an out door concert, Looking for a spot to sit, a woman was infront of us about to take a spot that looked good, John pushed her out of the way. Ruins vacations when we're with other people. He belives that he is justified for every incident. This is sad.

2007-05-23 11:09:28 · 12 answers · asked by DONNA T 1

My fiancee just left for his friend's 5-day bachelor party - is this normal? How long do bachelor parties usually run?

2007-05-23 11:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by trillian 5

I'm a stay at home mom of four kids. I do feel that it's my job to do all the housework but I just need a break! I work 24/7 for over a decade now. I do all the yardwork, taking care of the kids, housework, bills, you name it and I'm in college full time to get my degree, oh and I homeschool the kids. It is starting to bug me when friends and my husband included get to relax on their days off but I never have one. This may sound like just a bunch of complaining but after 14 years without a day off I'm getting burned out. It's affecting my moods, I just dont' want to do all this for a day or two. We can't afford a vacation, not even a small one. I'm not the type to go get my nails or hair done, besides that would cost money. What's something free I can do for a day where I can seriously just relax?

2007-05-23 11:02:22 · 9 answers · asked by fourzenuff 2

in your opinion how young is too young to have kids? I'm not planning to have kids anytime soon. i know im not ready for that. in my opinion im to young(im 15). what do you think is to young?

2007-05-23 10:58:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 10:50:26 · 21 answers · asked by panelman 1

me deal with my feeling. Well my husband takes it upon himself to read my journal and then throws it in my face about what I wrote. I am so pissed I feel violated and confused. Should I be upset or am I overreacting. I haven't spoken to him in 2 days he says he didn't violate me and is very upset that I would even say that about him.

2007-05-23 10:44:56 · 15 answers · asked by KH 2

Ok My question that I'm debating with some of my friends is this.
I think that if the man WORKS (remind you that I say works) the woman should do the house work; cleaning, laundry, ironing, cooking, dishes. I think that it should be this way.
BUT
If the man and wife work, but the man works 12 hour days 6 days a week and gets home around 10:00pm, and the wife works 40 hrs per week and is home by 5:30pm then the wife should still do the house work right? I think so. See that is my situation. My friends say I do too much because I work too but I dont think so....I just want to hear what complete strangers have to say about it...Kinda fun to know other peoples opinion. Thanks!

Oh and my husband feels this way too. Is he wrong?

2007-05-23 10:40:34 · 38 answers · asked by Just here. 4

I just want your opinion. Do you think that two mature attractive adults can be friends without either one of them thinking beyond that friendship? How about two co-workers? Just want a fresh point of view. Thanks..

2007-05-23 10:40:31 · 30 answers · asked by Shabby_Chic 2

My husband and I have been married for four years, but we've been off and on. This time he got with a girl and she is now pregnant. We had been talking about truly working things out and now he says he wants to do the right thing and come home but he feels he has failed me as a husband. I don't know what to do. I want to make my marriage work with my husband. He says he's tried to talk the girl out of having the baby but she wants it. Even though he tells me this his actions are different from what he tells me. I'm thinking he may want to be with this woman and he just doesn't want to tell me. Could that be possible? Or do you think he feels as if he has messed up so bad that he can't face me. I'm confused and i just need to know exactly what to do or what i should consider doing, you know.

2007-05-23 10:35:03 · 60 answers · asked by stillovehim 1

my husband "kissed" another woman because i was neglecting him physically. only because he was very emotionally cruel. now we have sex whenever he wants it how he wants it. he said it's over and i make him happy, he only wants me yada,yada......is he finally telling the truth?

2007-05-23 10:34:15 · 8 answers · asked by phattkitty23 1

I cheated on my wife in a moment of weakness. I told her and we got counseling and are working it out, but now the girl I had sex with is claiming to be pregnant.I asked her to get an abortion, but she's in love with me and wants to have the child. I don't know what to do. My wife can't have babies and this will break her heart. Do I tell her? What about the girl? Do I take her baby and give it to my wife so we can raise it? Please help?

2007-05-23 10:33:36 · 36 answers · asked by marquelandchristina 1

When I ask him why.. he states..I dont know I just felt like it. Why do you think he's doing this?

2007-05-23 10:24:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well. He is older and we have been married 8 year. I use to complain he wanted it to much so now that I want more I dont know what to say with out seeming like a Horny todd..also we have a baby that's almost two and she sleeps with us a lot so it's hard jump on him and do it.

2007-05-23 10:22:26 · 56 answers · asked by SisterSister 2

got caught kissing each other in her house by her daughter, she was shocked and did not know what to say about this, she walked out of the room, the mom followed her to the bed room, i dont know what went on in that room but i was told by the daughter i should leave now, pls help me, it just feels strange you know.

2007-05-23 10:18:19 · 26 answers · asked by birddog 2

Someone I know and very close w/ was dating this guy for 9 yrs & they never were married b/c he was married and stayed in the marriage to keep his pension, not pay child supp. etc. and he treated his wife like a dog. The person I know and this guy stop seeing each other around decem. b/c he started seeing someone else they work with since august supposedly probably longer but whatever. They all work together and HAD a friendly working relation. today the person I know found out that these two are getting married and he decided divorce his wife, she called him and asked him about it and he confirmed it si its not a rumor. What would you do to get through it? She is very hurt, it was a lot of wasted time and what advice can I give. I feel that she shouldnt have been talkin to him anyway b/c marriage is marriage no matter the situation and she put up w/ it for too long.

2007-05-23 10:15:05 · 13 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4

my sister is graduating this weekend and my new husband and my 2 step children are going to visit my family that i rarely see due to the distance between us. like hundreds of miles. my husband has never met most of my family and i have been EXTREMELY excited about the vacation. Until recently, my husband has been making every excuse in the book as to why he doesnt want to go. he doesnt know them, it will be boring, a waste of money, he'll miss work, blah, blah, blah. my family is soooo excited to meet him and the kids. it just hurts my feelings that he is so mean. his family lives near us and we spend time with them all of the time. why doesnt he want to meet my family? if he loves me, he should want to make me happy, right? even if he has reservations....he should act like hes excited. i told him not to go if he didnt want to, but he was like "yeah, right" i'll never live that one down. but he has to understand that i want to enjoy time with my family and not be worried about him

2007-05-23 10:09:35 · 12 answers · asked by jenni 2

I have been married for seven years, and knew of my husband infidelities, but just found out he was dating one lady for three years and they have an 11-month old baby, just 7 months younger than our last child together.

2007-05-23 10:08:11 · 33 answers · asked by heartbroken 1

When my son was first born I asked his father to have a paternity test because I had been seeing someone else during our break up. He refused. There is a huge chance that he is the father, but he has waited until my son is of age to bring this up. I asked again a few years back to have this test because we were divorcing, but again he refused. I am torn by this because a decade has passed

2007-05-23 10:05:18 · 13 answers · asked by sherril 1

My boyfriend is great and tries so hard with me, but no matter what he does, I find something wrong with everything. Its impossible for him to do anything right. I know it hurts him and I don't know how to fix this behavior I have. My mom was like this too so I thinks its something that has been embedded within me since I was young. I really want to fix it but I don't know how. I do try not to be this difficult. Anyone have any input, advice or experience regarding this?

2007-05-23 10:02:02 · 17 answers · asked by kristajade 1

I am fed up with a lack of communication from my bf and lack of interest in our life as a couple. I am close to up and going as i have been trying to express how i feel for nearly a year now (too long i know) but u gotta try havent u. I'm really close to getting my own place and finishing it ...but 6 years is a lot to give up or am i just wasting my life by sticking around?

2007-05-23 10:00:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know Im going to get some mean answers b/c this sounds like a mean question but Im not trying to be mean! I seriously need help with this. My husband used to be attractive- well dressed, clean shaven, nice hair cuts, wore contacts, in shape...etc. Now he rarely shaves, (some may look sexy but he doesnt!!) wears his thick ugly glasses, always needs a haircut, wears whatever he finds in the afternoons and weekends (wears uniform at work) I know this sounds so terrible b/c I love him for whats inside and I try to concentrate on that, just like I would want him to do but I dont know how. please no mean answers. I know this is terrible but I need some real help here.

2007-05-23 09:55:50 · 25 answers · asked by Emily 5