why is it when a man tells you he loves you every day, and then one day he forgets to say it for a couple of days, you start to think he is up to some thing, just wondering,
2007-05-23 11:27:56 · 22 answers · asked by birddog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cause we get so used to it.. and when you stop saying it... we go like "wtf why did he stop".. maybe you shouldn't say it alot.
2007-05-23 11:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now if my man says I love you everyday and then suddenly stops, I don't wonder what he is up to, but I do wonder if he is upset with me.
It would be the same if it was a reverse situation.
2007-05-23 21:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people search their whole lives for the right person to say i love you to and hear it back. When they find that person, they are going to want to hold on to them. When you make it a daily routine to her, she knows that she has found that person. When you stop saying it, she will wonder why you arent saying it, and by human nature, shes going to think negative thoughts.
2007-05-23 18:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurities.
2007-05-23 18:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by mom of two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once the expectations are set, then certain things become... well... expected. I found that it might be best to not make something like this a routine; be more unpredictable.
2007-05-23 18:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it becomes a daily routine that affects us when you man don't say it. It is waking up every morning and brushing your teeth... if few days you don't brush your teeth, will you sub-consciously feel that your mouth stinks?
2007-05-24 07:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mint_Always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends did you remember to take the trash out every day?
2007-05-23 19:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, I'm not that needy. Matter of fact, I don't say it everyday, or maybe even every week. My actions are much louder than my words. Make a man feel loved, he won't need it said each hour. Make a woman feel loved, you won't need to say it each hour. If you over say it, it seems to loose meaning and effect.
2007-05-23 18:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're women is just insecure. However, action specks louder than words... maybe your not showing her enough love. Just don't say it, show her. Maybe she's not getting love from you and you're not saying it.
2007-05-23 19:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by 0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know the answer to that. My husband doesn't tell me he loves me unless I say it first.
2007-05-23 18:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its a big deal for a guy to say i love you so when he says it its special and then when he stops it feels like its not special anymore
2007-05-23 18:31:22 · answer #11 · answered by Gabby. :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋