My boyfriend has been accusing me of cheating and having hidden cameras in our house recording him for some time now. He thinks that I am sex addict and has called me an "internet whore" accusing me of meeting people online and having them come to my house to have sex while I put our 3 year old in the next room. He is finding pictures of girls on the internet and sending them to family members telling them that they are me, even though his family and I tell him they are clearly not me. He calls me a liar in front of my kids. The accusations keep getting bigger and more frequent as time goes by and they could not be farther from the truth. I have told him repeatedly to leave if he thinks I am a cheat, but he insists he's in love with me and won't leave. We live together in a house that is in my name, so I do not plan on moving out. What would you do??
2007-05-23 11:25:05 · 17 answers · asked by Gone Crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dump him and move on.
2007-05-23 11:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 04:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he is 'crazy' or not, this guy needs to get the hell out of your life. I'm sorry, but your 3 year old comes before any man! My God, can you imagine your child hearing him call you a 'whore' or worse? If you stay with this paranoid jerk, your child will more than likely grow up with a lot of anger towards you...wondering why you stayed with him. Believe me, I wonder why in the hell my mom stayed with her husband! Do yourself a favor and lose this loser. He is NOT in love with you. Is love calling someone an 'Internet whore'? No, my dear, it isn't. It is about trust and respect, and it sounds like neither are in this relationship.
LOSE HIM NOW.
2007-05-23 14:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is blamming you for the things that he is guilty of! for one, how would he know where to find these pics of women on the net? and two, why would he want people thinking these women are you, if he is not wanting you to be on there in the first place? i mean, if he doesnt want you flaunting yourself on the web, then isnt he helping you out a little with doing this with the pictures? HE IS GUILTY OF SOMETHING!!! believe that!! i wouldnt move either girl, thats your house and you need to let him walk out! or better yet, help him along!! GOD bless!
2007-05-23 11:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by brn.eyed.grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sure doesn't sound like rational behavior! I'd think that his family would be worried about him as well. Talk to them to see if they'll help you make sure that he gets some help. You say that these incidents are getting worse so I'd be worried about your safety. You should have him go stay with his parents for awhile until he can get some help. If he won't go voluntarily, you can have a sheriff escort him out.
2007-05-23 11:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop the accusations, and go get some help. If he refuses, kick him out. It is your house. Nobody should have to live like you are living day by day. That is just wrong.
2007-05-23 11:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by ☆Zestee☆ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he needs to get counseling and if he refuses throw him out of UR house and tell him that if and when he gets his things together and wants to be a family again then and only then he can come home. But he really needs to get help
2007-05-23 11:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him to stop if he doesn't then you guys can't be together. But if you are going to tell him that then stick to your word. Because if you don't then he will think that this is a game.
2007-05-23 11:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by *AntA mAriA* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should visit a psychologist. not becuase he os crazy but because he needs help. he might be jealous or something. do not move out. do not let your kids to believe him or not even listen to the discussion between your boyfriend and you.
2007-05-23 11:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jeannie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is worse than crazy. better disappear 1 day when he's away. or get protection and keep him out. I hope nothing bad happens to u in future.
2007-05-23 11:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by edleforce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to kick is butt to the curb and dont look back. you need to protect your kids and letting them see how he treats you isnt good for them.
if you stay with him, your kids will suffer and you will regret not kicking him out.
2007-05-23 11:30:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋