My boyfriend is so bossy that it is absolutely pathetic! It sucks! He is soooo ruude!I can't stand it! Every thing I do he's right in my face saying"Don't do this,don't do that!"What are some thiings I can do to get him off my back?What makes him this way and who gives him the right of way to another person's private business?!I can't stand the way he acts. I wish he was dead! I can't wait to doog him the next time I see him!I hate his ****** guts!What would you do????
2007-05-23 11:18:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you plan to keep him, tell him "If you wanted a boss you'd get a job" and cut him off. Otherwise cut your ties with him...
2007-05-23 11:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is the precise same way..yet extra verbally abusive. Its confusing to handle. I on no account became the style to this component or be controlled by way of any guy, he's my first. he's very controlling and jealous, and that i'm very self sustaining, and affected person. in the beginning up it wasn't as undesirable. A 365 days later this is been undesirable, many cases i've got confidence so embarrassed and ashamed that I enable him handle me the way that he does. For the previous few weeks, i've got not enable him administration me or tell me to close up as quickly as we are arguing. He thinks he's conscious superb, and what he has to assert is extra considerable, even with the undeniable fact that this is no longer. I watched Oprah a month in the past, there became a woman on their speaking approximately 5 signs and indications that a relationship could desire to be come violent. I remembered all those signs and indications, later that day mutually as we've been arguing, and he became telling me to close the Fcuk up, all i could desire to think of of have been the signs and indications on the t.v demonstrate. i became taken aback, and it made me wake and a understand each and every thing. Now, I won't enable him administration me. I instructed him the signs and indications that I observed on Oprah, that made him bypass insane. It became frightening, yet now he's conscious that he became being controlling, and abusive. he's making an attempt to alter his techniques. do only no longer enable it bypass to far like I did, now I could desire to go through with the self humiliation and embarrassment of being controlled and abused by way of a guy.
2016-10-13 06:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dislike him that much then dump him dingy and find someone you DO like and acts the way you like.YOU do NOT have the power to change him.Whats between your legs wont change him.You cannot change anyone but yourself and even then we have a tough time changing ourselves.I dont know him to know what makes him the way he is.Then again maybe he is keeping you out of trouble? I dont know.All I do know is you cant change or fix him.He has to eee his faults and desire to change.Tell him how you feel when he acts like this.If he takes it to heart, it will bother him and he will apologize and make an effort to change.
2007-05-23 11:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only choice is to leave.
Men tend not to change, they are always the same, and he might cover up this issue for a brief time, but he won't change.
You might chatting with him about it, and if he really sees it and wants to change, then you could have some secret signal and then he will know this is what he is doing, but usually it won't work.
His bossiness is an expression of his need to control and his own insecurity. Men, generally, do not change. Either deal with it or leave. he won't change.
2007-05-23 11:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend i am telling u if u have great self respect and u love yourself you would not allow it, he does not respect himself and can't do for u let him know the real issue of the situation and leave, he might even get more disrespectful but that will be the last of it. Turn a new leaf.
2007-05-23 11:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're giving him exactly the reaction he wants. Stay calm or you will end up in an extremely destructive relationship. If you really can't live with it, then move on.
2007-05-23 11:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Delerious? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd break up with him. If you're going with someone whose '****** guts' you hate, then you are with the wrong guy.
2007-05-23 11:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd beat his *** and he'd done thought he got into a fight with a bear. The first time he got in my face would of damn well been the last time. I'd of ripped his face to shreds.
2007-05-23 11:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, dump him and Kick Him To The Curb!
2007-05-23 12:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Marge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his *** to the curb on trash day
2007-05-23 12:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋