my husband "kissed" another woman because i was neglecting him physically. only because he was very emotionally cruel. now we have sex whenever he wants it how he wants it. he said it's over and i make him happy, he only wants me yada,yada......is he finally telling the truth?
2007-05-23 10:34:15 · 8 answers · asked by phattkitty23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he blamed you for his infidelity.. go figure -- thats a sign of a true cheater.
2007-05-23 12:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell, I understand why you are upset. I would be too. But this is your marriage, you know your husband better than any of us out here. It up to you to decide whether to give him another chance. But don't let him use this as an excuse to have sex with you even when you don't want to. You should make love not just have sex. Maybe marriage counseling is a good idea for both of you.
2007-05-23 17:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl once they cross that BIG RED LINE you need to dump this guy....I could say that same thing "oh I just kiss the girl" but reality I did everything and much more. So be carefull and dont let yourself get play like that....and dont let him tell you its your fault..everyone is free to do whatever they want but when they are committee to someone they should RESPECT that and it doesn't matter if you dont want to get physical or whatever....
2007-05-23 17:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is being honest. At least until the next situation comes along where he is alone with the right woman. It sounds like you are selling yourself short. There are lots of good honest men out there to spend your life with.
2007-05-23 18:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by I39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is telling you exactly what he is thinking at the time.
The problem is he keeps changing his mind.
2007-05-23 17:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOKS LIKE HES GETTIN HIS CAKE AND EATIN IT TOO... FIRST HE CHEATS ( YOU GET HURT BY IT) AND NOW YOU HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING THAT HE WANTS YOU TO??? DONT BE HIS LIL PUPPY.... I THINK HES TELLIN THA TRUTH... BUT IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN... AND THEN HELL BLAME IT ON YOU AGAIN... MY ADVICE, GET OUT!! ITS NEVER YOUR FAULT IF THEY CHEAT,
2007-05-23 18:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your gut feeling. It very rarely leads you wrong.
2007-05-23 17:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a bridge for sale......real cheap.
He is manipulating you!
2007-05-23 17:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Willie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋