Marriage & Divorce - 23 May 2007

My husband and I have only been married for 2 years(with 2 kids)the only thing we do is argue all the time. 2 days ago we argued and I packed my things to go but ended up not going. I was thinking " I love this man, and I could not live without him". Today we argued again and I cried like I always do. I can not take the rollercoaster emotions this marriage is giving me, even though I love this man, what should I do? Is this normal?Is this is what marriage all about? Maybe we are not ready for this (young married couple) Help..

2007-05-23 03:10:34 · 25 answers · asked by Sundae 2

If you are no longer with the dad of your kids do you feel you are more important or have more rank than the new wife/gf in his eyes? Do you feel you could come between them if you wanted to? If you are a man is this true in how you feel about your childrens mother?

2007-05-23 02:58:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Usually when a man and woman have kids and break up/divorce, the father continues to take care of mother along with kids. When the father gets serious with someone new, he should still take care of his kids but why does the ex expect him to continue supplying HER needs? I personally think it would be an insult to the new wife. Are there other women that feel like i do or women who are the exes? how do y ou feel about this sitiuation and why would the ex expect ths and get mad when the man doesnt go along?

2007-05-23 02:56:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do men take care of the kids after the split but stop when they get into another serious relationship? Why do they take care of babies they have with the new girl and not spend as much time or not take care of their other children?

2007-05-23 02:53:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 17 years. My husband is a very good liar, he takes things from the house and never admits has taken them. I have missed so many items in house, thinking that they have been stolen only to find that he has taken them to his small business in town. What worries me is that he never admits to taking them. Lately music CDs have been disapearing in the house, he knew nothing about it, only to find them hidden in one of his travel bags. I dont know but this is tearing me apart and my love for him is just deteriorating, when I look at him I just feel resentment just because of his attitude. Kindly help.

2007-05-23 02:40:51 · 13 answers · asked by mabennyt 1

I am a Indian Boy and i am getting married to a foreginer girl who is from Poland..And we are getting married in India So i need to know what documents she need to get married in India? Urgent

2007-05-23 02:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by lobzang phunchok 1

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2007-05-23 02:36:29 · 18 answers · asked by penutbutterfurby 2

Hi, unfortunately my wife and i are splitting up, due to her unfaithfullness. We have 4 kids and a mortgage, and we have discussed the way forward. We have agreed on every issue, and seem to have everything covered, so do we still need to involve solicitors?

2007-05-23 02:30:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband insists that even if he is lying to someone (whether it be family or friends) that I should cover up for him. I am totally against this but he feels that a wife should always be on the husband's side in these cases. He was telling some friends that he had to work a particular night and when I overheard it I said "no you don't", figuring he had his schedule mixed up. This turned into a huge fight and I was told I should always cover for him. Your opinions please...I am at my wits end.

2007-05-23 02:08:14 · 19 answers · asked by Super mom 1

The reason we are together is my baby. I just can't think of leaving her or her growing up without her dad. We have also decided to see other ppl but have not taken that step as yet. I don't know how long i will go on like this.If you are also in a similar situation, pls share/guide/suggest ways to make it work.
And pls do not suggest to go to therapy. Thats out of question. Only share if you are/or have been in the same boat. And how do you cope. What rules are in place. When do you think its right to tell your kid about it?
Pls help.

2007-05-23 01:50:50 · 10 answers · asked by saint 1

Married 15 yrs, 2 kids, lost 1 house to foreclosure, filed bk once, could lose another house, he has had approx 16 jobs in 20 yrs, something big is always gonna happen, drinks way to much & mixes it w/perscriptions, doesn't spend time with the kids unless it's something he wants to do and we have no sex life anymore. I'm tired of worrying and fed up with the constant wondering if we'll be okay. Yes, I have a job now but I was a stay at home mom for years and I have no money to try and go back to school. My parents want to buy me a house so I can start fresh with the kids. Oh and I suggested counciling and surprise he said no.

2007-05-23 01:45:26 · 14 answers · asked by snobunny1966 1

I had an affair with a coworker while I was living with my husband before we got married. Now I am married and have two children. My husband never found out about the affair. I regret what I did. I still work with the man I had the affair with. Occasionally he will bring it up like he wants to revisit. However, I tell him I am happily married. Do you think I am asking for disaster. Once a cheat always a cheat?

2007-05-23 01:17:25 · 20 answers · asked by Junebaby 3

2007-05-23 01:14:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my fiancee for 5 years, between us we have 4 young kids. 2 of them I had from another relationship and 2 are by him. Anyhow, he makes lots more money then me. I could make more, but since I am the one who has to worry about babysitters I have to work around his schedual, so I just work part time as a cna. He wants full controll of his money, wants to see receipts for all things bought and wants me to okay all purchases with him. We just got in a big fight because I bought my kids some clothes on clearance without asking, he made me take them back! He acts like we live so bad that he has to oversee every cent spent, but financially, we live okay. Our utilities are always on, we have phone, satelite, internet, pets. He acts like we barely scape by. i admit there have been times I over spent, but it was not a crisis type situation. I just dont think i am liking being treated like I am one of the kids. Is what he's doing wrong, or am I the one who's wrong?

2007-05-23 00:41:49 · 35 answers · asked by tomesphotos 3