Marriage & Divorce - 19 May 2007

2007-05-19 23:18:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-19 23:13:59 · 37 answers · asked by Coo-ee 2

I've been married for 4 years and have been together for 6 years...I love my wife but, things have gotten pretty quiet in the bedroom. She has never once come on to me or initiated sex...I know I have been satisfying her (multiple orgasms when we are together) I'm very good with foreplay and oral sex but, still she doesn't seem like she wants me. Is it wrong for me to want my wife to come on to me sometimes or initiate intimacy?

2007-05-19 23:08:12 · 15 answers · asked by aviddiver651 1

I have been married for over 5 years.

My husand does so much that irritates the **** out of me.He NEVER listens to me, He gives me so much attitude like I think a typical man does? When he gets in his moods, he treats me like ****.

I am having a debate here with my b/f?

I am telling her that most men are the same, there are wives out there who won't tolerate this type of behavior. After a while it wears down the relationship and the crazy part of it all, is my husband is sorry ALWAYS when I have had enough of his crap.

I am in my middle twenties and I just can't see myself in this vicious circle for yeas and years to come. I will eventually end up becoming this bitter old hag. I am not the type to ignore for I will drive myself crazy.

How do you tolerate your husand's worst habits? Whatever they may be?

FYI: we have no chldren together, so the everyday stress of "Parenting" currently does not exsist in our home? We have also tried counseling time and time again.

2007-05-19 18:58:13 · 32 answers · asked by Savannah35AZ 2

I already have the place and stuff picked out.
But I want sing her a song to kick the night off, any recomendations?

2007-05-19 18:04:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance keeps changing wedding plans, ie: location, time, reception, catering, now the formal attire.
What started as a small wedding with family has snowballed into a larger than planned event.
1. the location has change 4 times ...she says - price shopping.
2. The catering service has changed - better variety.
3. The time has changed to accomodate the future plans of others.
4. All this and more is so particular to her , then why when I ask her if I should wear suit or tux she says doesn't matter get a tux if you want, it will look nicer.
5. I get tux and my groomsmen follow my lead. Now she says she is changing her dress to a less formal one because two of her bridesmaids (sisters) do not like the way their gowns fit and they now want to wear a pantsuit/less formal wear. We argued now that I have tux and her side is casual after tellling me I need tux. Now she is pressed to find another dress. Am I marrying a scatterbrain? Is this normal? My opinion not matter

2007-05-19 17:49:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am soory to ask that question?But i really want to know it.
Because of kids or love or cheat or somethings???

2007-05-19 17:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by amee 2

We have been together for one and a half years..this is the first time he has ever become violent with me. We had both been drinking a considerable amount. He is completely appalled by his behavior and has been seeking therapy. He has told his family what happened and why we broke up. I still love him...and know he needs help for his anger. I am completely hurt and angry and I am not sure I could trust him enough to be with him again. I am wondering if there is any hope for him to never do this again...and for us to be healthy and happy again? I had an abortion 2 months prior to this...This was something he did not want me to do and after it was done I realized it was not what I wanted either. Since this experience we have had a lot of issues with depression and sadness. Part of me feels that this is what triggered his violence towards me.

2007-05-19 17:39:41 · 19 answers · asked by sgirl 1

my ex bf and i have separated 4 yrs. ago and his already married to a another girl, the thing is my son is abt. to go to sch. this school year. do i still have the right to ask for his financial assistance?

2007-05-19 17:37:06 · 29 answers · asked by jha 1

A few things I'm wondering:

Say two people got married in Ohio, but lived in Florida, and wanted to get a divorce....is it Florida laws that determine how your divorce goes? Does it matter where people get married anyway?

What if the couple went to another state (one they didn't live in) to get divorced? Would they now be under different laws?

Is any state known for having divorce laws that are more fair than most, or that help the women a lot in a divorce?

I'm not getting divorced (cuz I'm not married!), but I just want to get info. Thanks!

2007-05-19 17:24:01 · 5 answers · asked by Miss.Understanding 3

We had been married for 4 years. She had certain genetic malfunctions, in which the major one has been "Infertility". This part was not revealed b4 our marriage. We got to know about this after she delivered a incomleted, premature baby (later died), possibly one last time in her life. Her behaviour was most associated with Readymade anger, insulting behaviour, searching a cause to fight, contiuing aurguments, often leadeing to voilent behaviour not only on to me but my parents also. Perhaps knowing all this well before marriage itself, her parents delayed her marriage and now are threatining me time and again saying that I am being cruel to her. Her anger lasts days and weeks together. Her parents still nurture her anger. Whenver she feels angry, she does all that show off, voilence and sits at her parents house for weeks and months. In these 4 years she hardly spent 4 months in total in my house? Is this a purposeful marriage?

2007-05-19 17:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by Srinivas Rao A 1

2007-05-19 16:52:11 · 8 answers · asked by amee 2

me and her are married im 29yrs old we wanted another child , she got pregnant and then went to her mothers and had a abortion behind my back and lied and said it was a miscarriage...i can't get over it i love her but it makes me sick ...we been separated for almost a year should i just file divorce and get this over with?

2007-05-19 16:50:19 · 26 answers · asked by i_would_never2007 1

My husband to be has changed his life and has made changes in his life to better our future...meaning cutting out the alcohol and day long drinking binges @ the bar with his friends.

As a business owner with a multi million $$ company he realized how much better everything would be if he ran it sober. Doing 60 days in tent city in Phx AZ woke him up. Now he is going through these up and down spells. One minute he is my best friend, the next a total ***.

He admits he has urges and is fighting them hard. Tells me our relationship is the only white light to his battle. I am by his side but wonder how long does the dry out time take.

He's taken up running and tennis to help with the time and other hobbies are helping, but its the mood swings that are killing me...CAN ANYONE HELP WITH SOME ADVICE!

2007-05-19 16:33:32 · 9 answers · asked by cll128 1

I have really low self-esteem I just returned to work about 2 mo. ago and now since I am getting out of the house I am constantly getting hit on.I don't dress releving or anything like that.I don't know how to take a complment because I been at home for the past 4 years so I am not use to this.Any advise on how to handle this.

2007-05-19 16:07:39 · 23 answers · asked by what did you say 4

2007-05-19 16:06:25 · 16 answers · asked by doublewidemama 6

Your not exactly happy in your married because your spouse is not paying enough attention to you and puts you down. If you were a married man or married woman and the opposite sex started paying attention to you on not coming on to you sexually but just acknowledging you were alive how would you react? Would you show them attention back in the best way possible you could? I am the married female that started to show a male friend he isn't dead. Now I getting very mixed signals from him and he won't leave me alone. Do I just push away I don't want to lose him as a friend.

2007-05-19 16:00:52 · 20 answers · asked by h 4

I just dont understand why. I mean i love sex and we are both young so i dont see why he would be bored with me. It makes me frustrated because he does not make noise like he enjoys it and just not in to it . I want it to be more exciting and its like he just does it to please me

2007-05-19 15:55:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy proposed i said yes, less then 3 weeks away for the wedding. I find him with my sister!!!! I dont know wat to do!!?? Help me!!

2007-05-19 15:47:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

women in general, how does it make you feel?

2007-05-19 15:39:00 · 30 answers · asked by Sara H 1

I had a suspicision for a long while now, but have been living in denial. I confronted him many a time and was actually met with tears and shock that I would say that. I think that he thought I had hired a PI, or was about to. We had been working on or marriage.... or so I thought, when he started to revert to his old self from a few months ago. Needless to say, I was worried and the old nagging gut started to rear it's head again.

Long story short, he admitted to it today and didn't seem very remorseful. I can't have him here and have already decided to put him out as soon as he returns with our 2 kids.

My prob - I've been homemaker for the past 2+ years and off and on for the past 9 years so I have no real work experience. When we were having problems I started to look for a job and have been intermitently since.... with no luck as of yet. Where do I turn? I have little money of my own and no way to support my 2 kids. I'm terrified that I won't be able to keep my kids! HELP!

2007-05-19 15:36:04 · 23 answers · asked by Penny's from Heaven 3

2007-05-19 15:35:19 · 9 answers · asked by Kevin M 1

i have my 8 yr old son 50% of the time.When he comes over he wants my attention 100%.This makes it hard with my current wife as i have to work long hours when i don't have my son over so we have little time together.my son get upset when i spend time with my wife when hes over.He says things like "its my special time with u dad"or "do something with her when im not here" now i do spend most of my time with my son but my wife wants some attention too.i divorced when he was 1 yr old so he has no memory of having me fulltime and my wife has been in his life since he was 3 yrs old.It seems hes getting more demanding of my time as he gets older what can i do?

2007-05-19 15:34:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is my ex. we have had this problme before. we had fights and he ignroed me so i told him his dick was lil. he always wound up talking to me again and confessing his love how much he missed me. he has tried to get in my patns several times since then ( even though i havent said it in years ) i got mad four weeks ago and told him to shove his lil dick up his ***. ( it IS little too ) . so anyways, i said it to him four weeks ago he didnt write for 2 1/2 so i called 1 1/2 week ago he said he wasnt mad adn would call to hang out, but he hasnt its been 1 1/2 week. though i have a way of knowing , and he has been reading my yahoo answers * under a diff name, he not readni this * and checkin up on me that way - but he wont actually email me back or wahtever. u think he is still hot for me . will ilhear from him again, waht should i do if i want him ?

2007-05-19 15:32:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like her and stuff, she is pretty cool and has a rockin bod. just wondering.

2007-05-19 15:29:19 · 18 answers · asked by Donovan O 1

I met this guy when I was young. We dated and got married and were together for 6 years. After the drug scene with us I left him and now we are both clean and sober. We are still married but we haven't seen one another for 5 years. No kids. We still love each other. His mom doesn't agree with us wanting to get back together. What would u do? Please help.

2007-05-19 15:25:54 · 36 answers · asked by CURIOUS 2

2007-05-19 15:02:27 · 17 answers · asked by maybe this will help-Harvey Milk 5

Anyone else out there trying to not become another statistic? My husband and I have been through alot in our 12 years of marriage. He's come out of an addiction, and I am recovering from anger issues. We are going to renew our vows this summer as a way of saying we love eachother, and will be committed to eachother until the day the Lord takes us home, still. I just wanted to know how many other married couples out there are going to choose to love and stay together no matter what and beat becoming just another statistic. Anyone have a great encouraging story to share about enduring and choosing to love eachother through it all?

2007-05-19 14:57:08 · 24 answers · asked by dixi 4

The only options to answer are: Single, Married, Divorced, Widowed, and Separated. But what if I'm in a relationship, neither married nor single? Should I mark the box for Single anyways?

2007-05-19 14:53:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been getting tired of my wife lately, of 6 years, just a straight nag, much like most women ;)

Well tomorrow is her birthday and I thought it'd be a great gift to watch a movie with her. Except the movie will be me and her best friend having the wildest sex we recorded. This is her best friend of 24 years, by the way. But hey, she does it better so who cares?

Anyway.. is this a good gift or what? This is not fake either. I am seriously tired of her

2007-05-19 14:22:56 · 11 answers · asked by aa 1