Marriage & Divorce - 15 May 2007

My husband asked me to go with him to a strip club.....hummm not really sure what to think, we have been married 10 yrs so I am assuming he is trying something new.....confused !

2007-05-15 23:59:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

his son has been in state custody due to the mother (ex-wife) neglecting the boy's health care issues, abuse, drugs, etc.... (she has been playing the "good girl" "jumping through their hoops", (which is just an act) and she stands a better than average chance of getting the boy back.
My fiancee has been in emotional pain over the past 4 years for not having any time with his son, now his day in court is comming up. I really want us to seek counseling to avoid the abuse, but at the same time don't want his son to go from the "frying pan straight into the fire" . All the while, I don't know how to approach my fiancee about counseling, and I'm afraid that he won't want to go for fear of loosing his son again should state find out.

2007-05-15 23:42:05 · 21 answers · asked by vixen6029 1

i am in viskhapatnam men this work doing since to years at hydera bad hah ahaha.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

2007-05-15 23:31:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

however i will full take care of whole life, my aim to is to go abroad, i have good educaiton and good personality, i traveled already more than 10 countries

2007-05-15 22:45:28 · 13 answers · asked by musaddiqjanjua 1

I'm on an escalator and the thing broke as I was halfway up it. I've been stuck here for two days and I've been passing out due to the lack of food or water. Also, I am cold.

What do I do? (I called my brother on his cell phone and I told him to type this)

2007-05-15 22:45:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it

2007-05-15 21:34:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

...how to manage it?? what did you do in such a situation??

2007-05-15 21:27:38 · 11 answers · asked by mmarria 1

He doesn't even live close. But he manages to F up every ones life. How do I get rid of him

2007-05-15 21:20:03 · 6 answers · asked by sugarsweetsweetiepie 2

We have been together almost 3 years. We live 3 hours apart. In october he started lying about where he was and what he was doing. He wouldnt call me or take my calls for days and days at a time. Right after New Years he confessed and said he would change. Well now he will get better for a week and then fall back for a week. Last night he said he was working and this morning one of his coworkers mentioned he had a couple days off. So I know he is lying again. I have no idea why!!! He has no reason to! And when I ask him why he lies he says I don't know. I have given him soooo many chances and my last resort before ending the relationship is counceling. Is asking him to go to counceling to help him with his problems a reasonable request? I love him so much and I don't wanna give up on him. He says he 200% wants to be with me and loves me but then he does this lying BS. So if he says that and has a problem then maybe he needs help. If he refuses to go to counceling should I just end it?

2007-05-15 21:10:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife left me. She has been telling people I'm this bad guy and that I do this and that. People believe her. I even have proof that I dont do anything she says. I found out she has been seeing other people before she left. My heart is broke and well I hurt more everyday then less.I know most will say it takes time. Well I have given it time and nothing is getting better. How can I deal with a my broken heart? How can some women be so heartless?

2007-05-15 20:33:30 · 21 answers · asked by chriswh90 2

I left my husband to study overseas. We had married for 5 years then. immediately I left he got involved with an older woman and had a child with her. I forgave him and in the process got pregnant and have a second child. But he continued tocheat with this old woman. My problem is that my second child has never seen her dad,who is the cheating husband. She is now of a school going age and she wants to see the dad. My husband has apologized once again and after several years of separation he wants us to go back to re build the family. I still love him but do'nt trust him anymore. Financially I am comfortable to living by myself but not the kids.
should i go back to him or not? Please i need answers only from those who have been in this situation befofe.

2007-05-15 20:03:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

HOw come some men cheat and some don't ? Is it just the nature of themselves or is it something their partners did or both? Is it about sex or what?

Yeah, I know what some men will say, "women cheat too". Yeah, I know that. But right now, i'm asking why men cheat coz i'm curious about it. I'm a woman and I might have to do something when I get married to prevent my husband from cheating.

And if a man cheats, does it mean he doesn't love his wife?

So.......................

2007-05-15 19:45:23 · 26 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3

2007-05-15 19:07:16 · 12 answers · asked by the truth 1

2007-05-15 18:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-15 18:39:35 · 11 answers · asked by Annu 1

2007-05-15 18:36:56 · 16 answers · asked by Annu 1

I am a big bit sad and even a bigger bit confused, after thirty years read on?
Last night my best friend and the love of my life told me that she wanted to end our marriage of thirty years,, I will not go into the details suffice to say that today I feel really sad for both of us,, I'm sitting here typing this knowing that she will be home in about two hours and I'm gunna cook dinner,, I think inside my heart that my friend of all these years had finally decided that she needs something else in her life,, this leaves me confused,, just a few suggestions would be nice,, BTW I don't hate her

2007-05-15 18:34:40 · 10 answers · asked by sorneez 4

There is a lot into this ? I married a man believeing my kids would come stay with me. Well that didn't happen. I am miserable. I am in a place I Know nothing about. I want to leave be with my babies but I want to be here.The only thing that keeps me is him. The things that call me is my kids, my home place and the life I knew. I need perspective. I have nothing here but him and everything in my last home. I married him from online and feel guilty to leave him. I miss my kids and need them as well. they hate it here. What should I do????????? There is a lot more to this than meets the eye. Ask me if you are sincere. I am so confused.

2007-05-15 18:30:10 · 11 answers · asked by Kimmie 2

my husband and i seperated in march we new this as coming he new more then me I have liked this guy for about 3 weeks and he is seperated for 1 and half years my husband and i just grew apart. the guy i like caught his wife with another man( his best friend). we are keeping this on the down low we are both christian and he told me he does not want people to lable us and say we are commeting adultry. we have not and i do not want to sleep with him because yes we are both still married

IS IT WRONG TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND TO LIKE HIM HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-15 17:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by hia 1

2007-05-15 17:48:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, we all know that men expect sexual pleasure and likely children from their wives, but besides that what is the most important thing that a wife can give her husband?

2007-05-15 16:15:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anne W 3

I have met this girl 5 years ago and i have loved her ever since and i have loved her every single second of those 5 years. She is the first girl i ever saw and fell in love with and she will be the last. UNtil six months ago when i kept my distance because i wanted to concentrate on my education. ANd now a week ago i found out that she got engaged. ANd i feel really hurt and feel like i shouldnt have done that six months ago. Any advise?

2007-05-15 16:13:25 · 12 answers · asked by zizou z 1

i am 19 this last feb. i had a baby girl she is the best thing that has happend to me. she is not the issue i have become a different person before i was always happy out and about me and my boyfriend got algo.now it seems that im mad all the time. i have every thing i said i wanted for myself i dont know whats wrong with me

2007-05-15 15:52:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

in some areas, when you steal, you cut thier hand off. If they kick, cut off thier foot. Now, if a woman could legally castrate a man for infideltity, would that cause the divorce rate to drop. Think about it, if 64% of marriages split due to infideltiy and 46% of them are because the men cheated on thier wives. If there were stiffer punishments for this behavior, wouldn't the divorce rates improve?

I ignore racists comments. So save your typing for someone else.

2007-05-15 15:51:42 · 41 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6

2007-05-15 15:51:22 · 25 answers · asked by maddie 1

i have been divorced for 5 years now and now that my kids are now older i would like my maiden name back.. how much does this cost and how do i go about it?

2007-05-15 15:47:58 · 20 answers · asked by mary c 3

He doesn't think my job is hard b/c I stay home. And he doesn't think it is a job since I don't earn money!

2007-05-15 15:34:00 · 28 answers · asked by short_cake02 2

my ex and I have been broken up for about 5 months. He broke it off with me because we were having a lot of problems. we were fighting like everyday. We have known each other for 8 years. We are both 24 and we dated back when we were 17. It didn't work back then and well, it didn't work this time either, but we feel we have something so special that we can't let it go. We started talking about a month ago, on instant message and we talk just about every day now. At first when we broke up with me, the first few months, we only conversed through email. So it has been 5 months and it's astep that we are talking again like this. I want us to rush back into the relatinoship, but he wants to take it slow. He is prob smart about that. We both have stuff that we haven't resolved. Everyone I know says to not rush him or just jump rite back into the relationship again, or the same thing will happen again. He wants us to take it slow, but says there is no timeframe. That he won't say that we have

2007-05-15 15:07:11 · 31 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1

2007-05-15 15:03:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, my name's Wendy. And I basically just signed up on this thing to get a question answered of mine. Um, my boyfriend and I are thinking about getting married. I'm 17 and he's 20. Um, how old do I have to be to get married? I hear even at 18 in California you have to have parental consent? Is this true? Let me know, please, thanks.

2007-05-15 15:00:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous