Ok, we all know that men expect sexual pleasure and likely children from their wives, but besides that what is the most important thing that a wife can give her husband?
2007-05-15 16:15:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anne W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Friendship... but Lily's answer makes me want to rethink my answer... lol
2007-05-15 16:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by GARY M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You miss a point here: sex isn't enough.
i mean, if you are going to lie there while I pound away, I might as well have sex with a bagel. I want you to be a full participant in our life together, not just in the bed, but in all things that we do.
Many men view a wife as a person you can have sex with at any time, but you miss out on a lot with a callow attitude like that. I want my wife to be her own person.
She's not just my wife; she's not just her father's daughter; she's not just mommy to the kids. She is her own person who compliments me.
Anything less demeans her and diminishes me.
2007-05-15 16:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they are fair they will want to share in housework and with any children born if any. Some others will expect you to do the housework, cooking and cleaning without money to spend and not enough to eat;, and there are some that will expect you to also go to work and on top of that they expect you to do all this even if you are sick and dying and some expect you to take abuse so just be careful whom you choose.
2007-05-15 16:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My goodness there is so much. But the easiest answer is what do you want? Trust? Emotional support during rough times or just a crummy day? Appreciation? Respect? Pretty much the things that are important to you are the things that are important to him. Better yet...when you think youve found the right one....ASK
2007-05-15 16:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing you can do for your husband is listen to him vent and support him no matter what. I also cook for him and keep the house clean. He's in the Air Force and I'm a stay at home mom so I try to do everything I can to reduce the stress on him.
2007-05-15 16:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mark and Allie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to give love. A wife place is to make should that ever thing go right in the home. She should make sure that all bills or paid and that the food is cooked and that the house is clean and hole lot more. I know it seen like a lot of work but a woman has a lot of responsibly.
2007-05-15 16:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Fidelity, trust, honesty, respect and consideration....you know the same things a women expects from a man.
2007-05-15 16:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Her life!!! Doing what she's told when she's told like a kid is what most men want without question. Staying in that type of life for years will make a bitter person out of you.
2007-05-15 16:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wonder the same thing myself good question especially with the good men out there. I know they expect them to cook too.
2007-05-15 16:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by military_person 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK THIS QUESTION CAN BE ANSWERED IN SEVERAL DIFFERENT ANSWERS:
1. SUM MEN JUST WANT SEX, THEY HAVE A MACHO EGO AND WANT TO TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING, IF YOU LIKE THAT HELL JUST SEX IS OK WITH ME, BUT NOT REALLY WHO I AM...
2. SUM MEN LIKE A WOMEN WHO ACTUALLY HAVE A BRAIN, GOING TO BE ABLE TO GIVE HER INPUT AND TAKE CARE OF HOME WHEN NEEDED, NOT SO MUCH INDEPENDENT, BUT DEPENDABLE, THAT'S ME...BUT ONCE AGAIN SEX IS GOOD! LOL
3.THEN THERE ARE SUM MEN WHO JUST WANT TO LEACH OF A WOMEN...THAT'S STRAIGHT "BULL SHIZ", NEVER EVER ALLOW THAT, YOU CAN DO BAD BY YOUR SELF.
4. SO WHAT IF A MAN WANTS KIDS ITS YOUR PUZZI AND, IT HAS TO BE A 2 WAY STREET, DON'T HAVE KIDS FOR HIM HAVE KIDS CAUSE YOU WANT THEM, CAUSE YOU ARE THE ONE IN THE END STUCK WITH THEM, BE WISE.
5. LAST BUT NOT LEAST IF HE EXCEPTS YOU FOR YOU AND YOU EXCEPT HIM FOR HIM, THEN YOU ECEPT EACH OTHER FOR WHAT YOU KNOW EACH OTHER TO BE, TO DO, ECT... THERE SHOULD BE NO EXPECTATIONS IN YOUR MARRIAGE CAUSE YOU SHOULD HAVE MARRIED FOR LOVE, ONCE AGAIN LIKE MY SELF... AND WITH THAT THERE NEED NO EXPECTATION JUST COMMUNICATION AND COOPERATION, WORK TOGETHER NOT AGAINST EACH OTHER, RESPECT, AND LOVE EACH OTHER AND LIKE A PUZZLE THE PIECES SHOULD COME TOGETHER.
AT THE END OF THE DAY THE ONLY EXPECTATIONS SHOULD BE FOR HIM TO BE HIM AND FOR YOU TO BE YOU!
2007-05-15 16:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by qutie rock 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Trust, honesty, and respect. They all work together to help form a solid relationship.
2007-05-15 16:18:55 · answer #11 · answered by benji 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋