Marriage & Divorce - 14 May 2007

my husband has two of us as wivies and does not want the other woman to know about it, so he stays with her all the time negleting me and my baby. what do i do

2007-05-14 22:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by Frances 2 1

2007-05-14 21:54:49 · 20 answers · asked by nita 1

Okay, Ive tried to understand this but have not been able to cause really I should have felt something, anything really - and it felt plain, dull even....
I dont understand why I'd just feel nothing at all - not even one little spark..... Gosh, Please help...

2007-05-14 21:53:10 · 22 answers · asked by Franky 1

My husband and I just barely found out a month ago we are pregnant!!! We are so EXCITED... But we really want a boy. I keep telling myself that we have to stop doing that, cause what if it is a girl? we will be crushed... How do we get excited for a gril too?

2007-05-14 21:48:45 · 14 answers · asked by src8784 3

2007-05-14 21:30:13 · 24 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4

I recently came across incriminating text messages on my husband's phone from some woman and when I confronted him, he admitted that he made a silly mistake and only had a one night stand with her. However,from the text messages she sent she referred to the many occasions he has made her "come"; it is obvious that they have had sex on more than one occassion. My husband cannot even respect me enough to tell me the truth about this fling. He insists it was only once. I am at the end of my rope, I feel disrespected by the lies. I am owed the TRUTH. I now want to file a legal separation but his family and mine are imploring me to give him one more chance, for the sake of our two kids. Every single cell in my body is revolted! I cannot stand the fact that he has been elsewhere and expects to return to our marital bed! Please advice..I am on the brink of depression because this is the second time such inappropriateness has occurred in our 3 year marriage. He blames me for his infidelity!

2007-05-14 21:21:25 · 24 answers · asked by Samara 1

Ok 4 alittle background. We have been friends 4 almost 9 yrs but never dated. We did mess around a few diffrent times but nothing ever developed. She has only been married for a little less then a yr. It was a very quick engagment do to the fact she got pregnant. When she bacame pregnant she moved to where he lives (about 2 hours away) ever since then we have talked on the phone at least 4 times a week, we e-mail each other on the days we dont talk. So what i am needing help with is, the moral part of this. I have loved her for years, she is in a marrige she all but claims is loveless and I am in the position of her best-friend. Do I try to help her with the marrige & tear apart my own heart or should I tell her to leave him and cause her and her daughter the pain of a divorce or should I say nothing and tell her i am staying out of it (even though I am already hearing all about the bad stuff in the marrige. PLEASE HELP ME
THANK YOU VERY MUCH

2007-05-14 21:19:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Also, my husband hates the slots. Claims it is just throwing away money. I had a wonderful time.

2007-05-14 20:43:19 · 25 answers · asked by Sheila S 2

I recently saw the mobile bill details of my spouse...He has been making calls n messaging this particular female quite a lot...average msgs upto 50 per day..occasionally even above 100. in the bill details, this number is the first one n the last one he has messaged every single day since at least the past four months..not to mention the many in between. .i confronted him n he is like...nothing is going on..just friends..n what now i should ask u before messaging? the fact is when outstation, he does not ever call me or msg me. i always have to..n even then he is like i am out, in a meeting or like.... while the details show he has been without fail calling and messaging this female. never a day without the last sms at around 11 to midnight...n he always keep the mobile under his pillow in silent mode while sleeping. i am getting paranoid. do i believe him? please scrap in ur views...it would help a lot.

2007-05-14 19:43:47 · 19 answers · asked by rosey 1

My husband keeps on pledging his rings etc and when I ask him he says that he has pledged for helping his friends. I don't understand will it be true. He has drawn cash using Addon card nearly Rs.6,000/- and he says that one or two labours working in his office had asked for money. He himself earns very less salary when it is so why shud he go out of his way to help others like this. Can this be true. If he does again and again like this what can I do? I am at a loss to understand. Sometimes he borrows money from me when he runs out of pocket and I used to give him since he earns less his contribution for household expenses is also less. I always used to ask when u yourself don't earn much why shud you go out of your way to help others. I really dont' want to leave with him this has been going on for the past 3 yrs he never listens to me and when ever I ask he says lies to me. How can I opt for a divorce out of court. pls somebody suggest. No court pls.

2007-05-14 19:29:50 · 9 answers · asked by janu 1

2007-05-14 19:12:18 · 13 answers · asked by victoria 1

I was just trying to give her great customer service....but she ends up growling like an animal. Is it because she's blonde?

2007-05-14 18:10:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my wife have great sex but that's all we have in common. me and my friend have everthing in common

2007-05-14 17:37:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is 15 and lives with her Dad in another state. She has a facebook page and posts family pictures on it.

She has added me as a friend and I look at her pics daily. Recently, some family members (ex-husband's cousins and sister/ kids) came to visit. She posted pics with them and they all looked happy.

I am at peace being alone most of the time. There is no one telling me what to do and how to live my life and criticizing me 24/7 for any and all decisions that I make or do not make.

However, I wonder if I am missing out on good times within an extended family because I am divorced.

I know that when we were married I was compared to everyone and called a "zero." I also was told that I had a "cranky face."

2007-05-14 17:22:03 · 4 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

Just taking a break from the drama to have some fun. We all dream of that. I would run away to a tropical island, take my kids, ofcourse, hubby can stay here...god theres alot I would do, but I would start there. What would you do?

2007-05-14 17:21:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 45 yr this is my second marriage.I got married 7 yr back.I am highly qualified well placed professional.My wife is 43 yr, qualified , house wife also divorcee. We do not have kids.From the third day of our marriage my wife has been been very harsh to me,she has beaten me number of times with in the walls of our home, in the public places and in the running car. She has abused me in all possible filthy words. She has leveled all possible allegations against me.We live alone and no interference from any family members but she feels that I am influenced by my elder sister.I spoke to my wife's mother twice but no change in her behavior. I told my wife's brother and sister regarding this ill treatment but no help. But they are not aware that she has been beaten me number of times.My wife repeatedly tells me that if i share this problem with any body in that case she will commit suicide . I can say that her corrector is worse than the corrector of Rani Mukherjee in Black.Pl help .

2007-05-14 16:22:50 · 25 answers · asked by kumar s 1

im getting married friday i think hes gay what should i do

2007-05-14 15:42:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he doesn't. Am I wasting my time. Should I just let our relationship stay the way it is or if I want to get married and he doesn't should I just get out of the relationship?

2007-05-14 15:18:55 · 21 answers · asked by Birdlegs 5

2007-05-14 15:01:34 · 12 answers · asked by The Naughty Librarian 5

After 13 years of searching, my first love and i finally found each other. We have not communicated except through email. We are both married and realize that if we agree to meet eachother we would end up in an affair. So after 4 months of emailing we decided we should at least try and meet for lunch in July. He started to confess that he was still 110% deeply in love with me and felt bad that he felt this way, but I was his one true love. etc. etc. So I have three questions...

1. Can you hang on to someone for 13 years and still pick up where you left off when you were 15 and 17 if you were truly in love.

2. He freaked out and sent me a wonderful and thoughtful goodbye letter and says he just can't bear the pain of seeing me, Was that the truth, why would he freak out?

3. Do I persue this? Do you fight for someone you loved so deeply or do you leave your past alone?

2007-05-14 14:58:23 · 15 answers · asked by Little_Red 1

I am jealous and he said I should get over it. He said he is going to talk to who ever he wants to talk to. how does a family work this one out? I cant help but be jealous...

2007-05-14 14:57:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what the #@%$#$^# my wife just canceled our gym contract without telling me!!!!!!!and i pay the stupid bill.............and i am the one who brings in the majority of the $$$........i dont understand why she wouldnt tell me.............yes its true we dont go too often but we just got it in march!!!!!!and payed the $#$##! deposit..............why would someone do that........im so pissed!!!!!!!!maybe if she would of told me, it would be different.................tell me should i be mad?????????

2007-05-14 14:52:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-14 14:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by pim203 1

2007-05-14 14:18:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has not spoken to or seen his father in ten or more years. We got married a year ago and my husband still thought he should send his dad an invitation so he did. (his sister and his dad still talk every once in a while) Instead of coming to the wedding we got back another letter that said he was getting married as well and pretty much just said a bunch of crap as though he did nothing wrong in never seeing his son. He asked for us to send him some pictures and he included his phone number. My husband has never responded. He says if his dad wants to talk to him then he needs to call him since he's the father. I want to write his dad and tell him how horrible he has been in not contacting his son and how bad my husband feels every time the conversation comes up about his dad. Would it be ok to write his dad and not tell him? or should i write him and tell him? i've tried to ask him before if i could write him but he said i should have nothing to say to him, what do i do

2007-05-14 14:14:12 · 18 answers · asked by brit24 2

My wife will not have sex with me because she says that I do not under stand, because I still have my parents around.

2007-05-14 14:12:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-14 13:14:17 · 18 answers · asked by madeline r 1

I've been divorced for six years. My ex husband was furious that I left him. I had many items left at his place, and years ago, because he wanted to argue, I told him that I would not argue with him over anything, but if a time ever came he wanted me to come get these things, to please let me know. Sunday I found two random items on the hood of my car in a bag with a note "do not call me"...(as if I would!) A couple of years ago he had left a box at my front door, with the same note. What's odd is that he seems to be returning a few things at a time, every couple of years. I have to be honest, I'm afraid of him. He is not physically abusive, but apparently after all these years, still pretty pissed. I simply ignore him. Any ideas as to why he's doing this?

2007-05-14 12:53:23 · 14 answers · asked by Esther 7

ok this is going off of the question i wrote earlier some in there said that she can not just throw me out with out legally evecting me i need to know is this true and what would she have to do to do this and how long would it take? I am needing to know this because i have been just a stay at home mom for the past 2 months i do not have the money to leave anytime soon she said i have 2 1/2 weeks to get out but i cant find a job and save up money in that time frame. so please help me

2007-05-14 12:24:34 · 28 answers · asked by Silver 1

2007-05-14 12:21:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous