Marriage & Divorce - 14 May 2007

ok i will give you all the short version .... it will be a year that hubby and i have been seperated we are now going for a divorce ... but in the year that we were apart .. he hooked up with a girl that was a friend of both of ours ... ( he is 47 she is 33) he is now moving in with her and my son is there with them .. i know for a fact and i have seen with my own eyes that she treats her kids like crap and i do not want my son to go threw this or even be a witness to it ... please keep in mind i am in canada and they are in the usa ... my son does not want to do school here cus his friends are in the usa ( my son is 13) .. my question is should i have some sort of invesigation done on her or if anyone has any idea let me know ... thanks

2007-05-14 02:38:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-14 02:36:32 · 18 answers · asked by johnson109864 1

My husband's family got upset with him this weekend because he brought me a new car for mothers day but didn't get his ex-girlfriend, which is the mother of his other children, a gift. He said he didn't feel he should. She is the ex so why should HE have to do anything on mothers day for her besides say "Happy mothers day?"

2007-05-14 02:32:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm beginning to get bored by always doing the initiative of striking a conversation with my man. I know he's a silent type and i thought i could bear it coz even though he's not much into talking in person, he's very expressive in e-mails and texting. But now even his messages are becoming unintresting already. Its kinda generic or superficial. I think I have done my part of doing the first move always in this area of his personality. I initiate conversations as much as i can but does it have to be always me? he's becoming a 1 question 1 answer type of person. I hope i could still bear this for a long time. I've once told him about this issue but he just keeps quiet and says.."this is me...". Well being silent could be an advantage at some points but...hello! Am i talking to someone here (a husband for that matter)? Of course he talks too but i think i'm looking for a real conversation. I love him but this doesn't make me happy anymore. Can i still do somthing about it?

2007-05-14 02:30:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love being married to my wife. but our sex life has dropped off the face of the earth.. why is that.. sure ive gained a few pounds but is my wife no longer attracted to me ??

2007-05-14 02:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for almost 1 year, have 1 baby together and another one on the way and I am very much in love with him.
Despite of his several reminders I still have not updated my status with insurance, driving license, mortgage, passport etc (I am italian and got married in Italy) informed pension provider etc due to lack of time and lazyness.. I guess!!
I have at the back of my mind the say that "marriage is the death of love" and I am in no rush to prove it wrong so i just avoid facing it at all "pretending" that we are partners.

Does anybody feel the same?

2007-05-14 02:26:29 · 18 answers · asked by cant cook wont cook 1

My husband and I have been desperately trying to get things back on track and for the most part have been doing pretty well. I;m still having some trust issues with this girl sarah at his work. I now find that he seems to be doing most of the texting first and then she responds. Also, he's been helping her set up a website and i got upset because the email account she needs to set up was on our computer. I was just caught off guard and without realizing it I called my husband on his way to work to ask him about it. I didn't yell but he got pretty mad and then just said let me know when you need to get up (I work overnights) and I'll talk to you tonight. He usually calls me and so I said, I don't ever get to be upset or still struggle with this problem? and all he said was he had to go. I guess now i wonder should I really be angry with sarah or my husband b/c it seems like he is instigating any texting between them. Am I right to be mad...to ask him to stop? I feel stupid.

2007-05-14 02:21:26 · 9 answers · asked by superwmn315 2

I had an affair with a married man over a year ago while he was 1000 miles away from his family working. The affair went on for a few months, but mostly we were friends. He worked here for almost a year. I thought he cared for me, but after he told his wife and they decided to work things out he revealed that in talking to their counselor he realizes that this came from depression and confusion about his own feelings toward himself and that it could have been anybody that it wasnt about me. He told me he never really cared for me at all and he apologized. This all happened out of the blue after a few months of no contact...before that I would call him or his wife and I admit I did try to cause problems...I care for him deeply and wanted him back, well the next day his wife contacted me...I told her some very awful details of our relationship...some true, some exagerrated. I hated her. Well she called and offered her forgiveness and also apologized for anything she said about or to me..

2007-05-14 01:51:11 · 16 answers · asked by lil ol me 1

please answer for my class project...Who would you step on if you were 1000 feet tall and expalin in DETAIL how youd squash them with your giant foot??

2007-05-14 01:50:04 · 9 answers · asked by garyx22002 1

she has 3 kids and married to a man about 25 years older. i actually met her through the mother of my child. we both felt a connection when we met, and now both kinda want each other, in a sexual sense. nothing has happened between us, only chat.

2007-05-14 01:35:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-14 01:29:27 · 33 answers · asked by khalid 1

i went on my partners history on his computer i found porn which didnt bother me its the fact that some of it was gay and some was live and i think he could talk to some of the girls on there shoud i keep quiet about it or should i confront him?

2007-05-14 01:24:04 · 33 answers · asked by lauren b 1

I've been in this relationship for 3 years with a girl. We have a good relationship and all just for the past FOUR months there have been some trust issues. Four months ago she was hiding text messages, calls, and emails from me, basically I was suspicious she was cheating on me.

Well we worked everything out, and this certain guy will text her "." or "?" in the middle of the night. She will say that maybe he is drunk, or it was an accident.

So I brought it up again and she goes, "Whatever your trust issues are, I want to help you with them. If you don't want me to go somewhere, I won't. If I wanted to be with him, I would."

She says if she wanted to be with him she would.. but that doesn't mean she can't be having an affair on the side, am I right?

2007-05-14 01:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by adam f 1

My Husband had an Affair,he now lives with this Girl,problem is he has been txtn me a lot and has now asked if I phoned him the other night for any other reason than the kids,everyting he says points to getting back together,but I am still furious,have seen the mistakes we have made in our Marrage and would never make them again, do you think he wants to give it another go or is he trying to have his cake and eat it.
I kicked him out,up untill now I never gave it a thought but now am wondering if we should do you think it could ever work out?

2007-05-14 01:20:08 · 12 answers · asked by live life 4

when we talk it turns into a arguement i write but he dont read and see what im saying

2007-05-14 01:11:08 · 9 answers · asked by valerie j 1

I got married in 2004 as per the hindu tradition, in our family (though not mandatory) there is a tradition of changing bride's name. My wife's name was also changed.

Now my query is how can I get my marriage registered with the my wife's new name.

2007-05-14 01:07:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a girlfriend who is pregnant now... And I would like to be it's father... But I don't want to marry the girl nor live in with her because I don't love her 100%, not even 80%... And I don't what to do or what to say to her. Making things more complicated is that in our culture here in the Philippines, once a guy gets a girl pregnant, they have to get married because they say that it's "immoral"... And I'm basically stuck and an advice would be great help.

2007-05-14 00:40:55 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just yesterday He was on the computer listening to all of our old songs. One of the songs he dedicated to me and stopped me and said to you remember this song blah blah blah. Just wondering.

2007-05-14 00:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Jennifer G 2