Marriage & Divorce - 12 May 2007

I did it yet again, inspite of him, cautioning me, making me nderstand the pros & cons i did this mistake yet again & this is not the first time. Earlier also we almost broke off due to this, my trying to search for a male friend as soon as we have a fight. I hurt him so much that he says he has absolutely no feelings for me now, but truthfully I dint do it with any intentions of betraying him, its my habit, a filthy habit, that I am ashamed of. I dint knw that my mistake this time would cost me so dearly. I love him a lot & i dont want to lose him but I dont even have the face to ask for pardon. He loved me a lot, he cared for me & kept me like a treasure yet I hurt him. He said my habit is so damaging that it will be more painful if we get married. There's no end to my penance, i hate myself. I am dying every moment, what do I do? where do I find peace? How can I stop him from leaving me? How can I bring back all the feelings that once he had for me? I am lost...... Pls help.

2007-05-12 23:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and i seperated on somewhat bad terms but we still get together and have sex. Is this a bad thing? I feel like i shouldn't be doing this. But it also feels right, even though we will never get back together...

2007-05-12 23:46:58 · 24 answers · asked by chriswh90 2

2007-05-12 22:31:40 · 7 answers · asked by Sexy lady 2

My child is 20yrs. of age and is married and I'm not liking this guye that she is with and he hits on her and they do have a baby, and tonight I almost went to jail for defending her and her little brother and sister but the police took him instead. ai still want to be there for my child but there is a part of me that just wants to cut her off. What do I do as a parent?

2007-05-12 21:44:21 · 8 answers · asked by menadking 1

We've been married a year and a half and have a two month old son. He's done other things I objected to (got a MySpace account in secret), flirted with his ex online. He also got an email from a girl he was talking to on clubpogo- and he told her she was hot. She called him sexy.

2007-05-12 20:08:11 · 24 answers · asked by cinderella4653 2

Should the partner reveal every single detail to the other? What if the other is too sentimental and takes things only on face value? Shouldn't one read between the lines while analyzing the ground situation? Is it OK to be calculative as per the managerial theories or should one be really a "blotting paper" (one who adjusts to situations depending on one's priorities?)

2007-05-12 19:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by Nilutpal Gogoi 3

you have a weak mind?

2007-05-12 19:50:02 · 17 answers · asked by truth set free 1

2007-05-12 19:44:18 · 5 answers · asked by tengu312003 3

My best friend and her husband have been married for over 12 years so you'd think she'd know what to expect when it comes to him buying gifts for holidays. Every year around any major holiday (Mother's Day, Christmas, Valentine's Day) we all have to put up with her constant remarks/belittling about how horrible (thoughtless) he is at picking gifts for her. She goes on and on about how he can't do anything right and it makes me feel so bad for him. Tonight she basically treated him like he was a child in front of us all. It got to the point where he finally made a mean comment to her but even that didn't stop her from continuing. How do I stop her from doing this? Should I take the initiative around holidays and have him give me money to pick out a gift "from him"? She is a minister's wife so I feel she should know better than to act like this in front of people but I don't know how to gently explain this to her. HELP! I know tomorrow is going to be even worse for him so please help!

2007-05-12 19:44:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am staying alone far away from my country, and now is already five months. I am scared to do sex outside my marriege, but I find myself in a country where are many beautiful girls allways going infront of my eyes.

2007-05-12 19:24:19 · 27 answers · asked by vense 1

Your marriage had been going downhill for 2 years and you never had a good job..now i have a good job and can afford to be on my own..thats the only reason i never left...now i can...should i

2007-05-12 19:23:15 · 16 answers · asked by Liz M 2

My marriage has had some major problems--6 weeks into my marriage, my wife kicked me and bruised my upper leg, and for over a year, I did not trust her or really want to move forward with finances or family. She spent November with her family, including Thanksgiving. We got back together, and then she found some stupid websites I browsed and never followed up or made any human contact. Well, now, 6 months later, she said she does not trust me, and gets jealous and suspicious anytime I mention meeting a female of any age. She says "How do I know you won't cheat with her?" I have never cheated on her for 3 1/2 years, and she wants to start a family very soon. I feel uncomfortable about bringing a child into this relationship where my wife does not trust me, and communicates this (verbally/non-verbally) to my kid. Should we divorce? Please offfer your thoughts. Thanks.

2007-05-12 19:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by frustrated 1

My husband drives me crazy. He is on lots of medication. And he smokes "POT". When he gets up he will put both his shoes on., not tie them and walk around for awhile. I don't get it. you are too lazy to tie them. Your a baby and waiting for Mommy. Then after about 10-15 min. tie them. This is every day. Not a back problem and he has a hard time bending over. Look he isn't trying to do the cool-untied shoe look. WTF
What is going on?

2007-05-12 19:13:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we married from 2003.soon after my marriage he left me in his house for 7 months and not taking me with him to his work place by saying he had some tours and also that is thr custom to stay with parents first.i reached here alone.after that i feel he is a very shy and silent loving person.he laughs occasionally.last december i find him subcribe to diff gay sites.when i asked he told me it was just an excitement to know abt gay.i got some sexy sent sms to a male and again when i asked he told me ,that person was giving him that kind of sms so he reply back.now i am bit afraid .he nevers say me no to anythg.he has no family friends.he bnever allow me to kiss him when we make sex and also his approch is same everyday.and when i say no to sex he agree easily.He is a Phd holde and very studious.also a vice president of very renound company.
now you help me finding out is he a gay?

2007-05-12 19:05:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-12 18:42:36 · 9 answers · asked by sarojan1 1

we recently began talking again after a 4 year haitus... we both confessed we still have deep feelings for each other. he is supposedly living w/ someone else now ... and has a kid. he says he hates her and etc... and he wishes he wasnt STUCK with her finanically ... and all this. anayways i got mad and cussed him out a few weeks ago. i didnt hear from him since so i called him and he said he wasnt mad or whatever he sounded like something was bothering him. i said can u call me 2nite he said he would try but he didnt.. anwyas do u think he is over me ?
also i shoudl mention when i cussed him out i said something mean i said take your small dick and shove it up your @$$

2007-05-12 18:25:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my future mother in law is a phsyco. how can i deal with this kind of pearson is there any way i can make her realize what she is doing and how she is hurting people. 1.she hardly ever cooks
2.husband works hard very hard
3.she does not even take care of her hard working suportive husband.
4.does not know her childerens age or what grade their in "i forgot haha" thats what she says
5.curses around her kids all the time jus yelling"F&*#" all the time
6. hits her children from jus a burst of anger
7. flurts with other guys
8. when husband not around dresses with her chest sticking out.
9. does not want to come and pick her doughter up from school and just tells her to walk
10. house is a mess
11. speeds all the time and getts tickets
12. calls me insulting names behind my back and in my face
13. never apreciates anything
14. very greatty, selffish
15. wants to be the best
16.bossy
17. and much much more

she seams to have somekid of personalty disorder
13.

2007-05-12 18:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by ## 1

i know you can do this. do i need a lawyer and how much is it going to cost. if my mom is in another state does she have to be here for the court making. i dont want her to legally be my mother. im sure she doesnt want me either. if i do this do i have to put someone as my legal mother or can i jsut have my dad and thats it cause thats all i need!

2007-05-12 17:57:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been through a year of hell. I found out my now ex was having an affair, I divorced him, changed jobs, have sole custody of my son, bought and sold a house. I am tired. I have dealt with the fact that my husband of ten years left, all the adjustments of my 9 year old son, never spoke negatively of my ex in front of my son, did all the right things so my son could get through this as good as possible, now I am tired. What is next?

2007-05-12 17:56:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife left me and my son for another women, i divorced her.I got my final papers in the mail making me single again..i feel hurt..sad...
lonely once again..even though she left us,and i am trying to see other women, i still have strong feelings for her.is this normal..am i the only one that feel this way ?

2007-05-12 17:54:50 · 9 answers · asked by whtmt501 1

I have a question on child support ... if parents (that wasnt married) have 2 kids together and the mom has one of the kid and the father as the other one.. how does child support work on that? is there a website or anything i can get info on about this subject.. the reason why iam asking this is mY husband and his ex are going threw this.. she is going after him for child support for years now and we r gettin letters from them saying he needs to pay this amount... but she isnt paying nothing and never has... what can we do about this

2007-05-12 17:53:31 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Zoe'sMomma♥ 1

The visitation is court ordered...What is the age the child can make a decesion if he/she wants to keep seeing the other parent??

2007-05-12 17:50:39 · 5 answers · asked by m0mmy0f3 1

if ur wife wanted a kid between the two of you so bad that it caused fight after fight in ur relationship and then she stopped taking birth control, got pregnant, and decided she was going to have an abortion what would you think? it was like everything to her and as soon as she knew she was pregnant she immediately said "im sick and i don't want this baby. we have to much to do with our lives? Whhhaaattt? Why the 180? she had an abortion 2 days ago. I can only think of a number of options why she turned around so quickly? See if you can figure them out. Either she is not planning to stick around or she screwed around on me. Why else would a woman that argued everyday with me about having a kid of our own change so quick? seems real fishy to me. A woman who truly loves her husband and wanted to be around i'm thinking would never want to end her pregnancy especially if that's all she was complaining about for months.

2007-05-12 17:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by survivor 1

When my ex and I were together he forgot mothers day, my birthday, our aniversary,etc. Now that we are divorced - after he had an affair and left - I get a Mother's Day gift from my son (via My ex). It has a book I wanted to read and the new CD from my favorite artist. WHY?

2007-05-12 17:41:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY friend and I are both separated but both of us want our marriage to work, our spouses are not so sure that is what they want. We want to sleep together should we

2007-05-12 17:36:41 · 13 answers · asked by dj83164 1

2007-05-12 17:35:06 · 44 answers · asked by dragonwabite 1

I am hurt inside, i cry when he is not around. (I am not fat) he always try to find a reason to put me down. I dont like to say things back to him, because i dont like arguments and i have a 8 months old baby girl.

2007-05-12 17:18:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love with the most wonderful man. He is kind, considerate, caring, loving, attentive, etc. I have never loved anyone or anything more. He plans to ask me to marry him this year and I am freaking out! Is this normal?? I am 32yrs old and have never wanted to get married because I hadn't found anyone that touched my soul. This man is my soulmate. Please offer advice on how I can overcome my phobia and be the best wife possible to him. Thank you so much!

2007-05-12 17:17:28 · 11 answers · asked by SanFran 2

i have been with him for 4 years and he's been to Iraq 2 and he was still mean to me but he started hurting me and putting me down an dhe still does it and i don't know what to do i love him but i just don't wan tot be with him anymore, sometimes i do but then i dont, if i dont give him what he wants he calls me names and pushes me and hurts me, we dont have any kids thank god!!! and now he tells me that he wants to get me pregnant s o were together forever, he told me that even though he's hurt me that it doesn't matter because no one will believe me and everyone all ready knows and everyone keeps telling me not to give up, i dont know what to do, he lies so much too and gamlbes and drinks, i feel like im in hell i dont know what to do, i am so drepressed. what do i do....

2007-05-12 17:06:51 · 18 answers · asked by ARCE 1

she up and left 8 days ago and now is calling and harrasing us non-stop what are my rights as a father to protect my teenage children? if she just up and leaves the family home and all the responsibilities, can she just come back and forth as she is threatening, i am stressed to the point i am ill over this, if anyone can steer me to my next move to protect my children and our home , i would apprecite it.. Thanks!!

2007-05-12 15:57:12 · 18 answers · asked by Help! 1