Marriage & Divorce - 12 May 2007

that he had a life already. I love him but its just too much to handle. Whats bigger love or the nasty feelings a have? What do I do? HELP!!!

2007-05-12 05:10:06 · 28 answers · asked by Steph 1

When my parents married in the sixties, they had been working for years, so marrying at 22 was no big deal. I want to know why these days, all you 18,19,20 year olds are desperate to get married now, before travelling, working, and further education. What are your thoughts?

2007-05-12 05:05:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband was really good to me until last year. He once said to me, "If I wasn't married to you, what would it be like to be married to Jane." Once Jane asked me if I would stay married to my husband. When he started treating me like crap last year and I asked him what was wrong with him he said "it's over now" and then he said some excuse dealing with his work. He always defends Jane and feels sorry for her because of her crappy husband. He has been verbally yelling at me for different reasons since this. When I want to cut the ties that link us with these people he gets mad and starts yelling at me telling me he's not going to be mean. It's worse then that just to long to put in writting.

2007-05-12 04:51:37 · 11 answers · asked by teardrops 1

Is he right or wrong ,even though he didn'thave sexual intercourse with her,but was not telling you about her, Do you think that its wrong,?

2007-05-12 04:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by suzyq c 1

if the love line on the left palm of a girl ends in a "V" below the middle finger , does it mean she will marry twice?

2007-05-12 04:45:18 · 2 answers · asked by megirl 1

i've been married to her for one year and throught the marrige she has been verbually abusive to me as well as pschically abousive to me all she does is call me derogitory names and throws things at me i've never hit or touched her it got to the point i'd to leave the state to get away from her what should i'd do about the threating messages i've a lawer in this matter.

2007-05-12 04:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by hank d 2

She can be quite shirty my mrs - when she´s had the hump before she´s attacked me with a frying pan, an umbrella and a rolling pin.

I´ve never knocked her about, as I´d easily her her (I´m an amateur boxer) but I´m afraid I´ll lose my rag. Is it alright to put her over my knee and slap her ****?

2007-05-12 04:39:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ihe problem is I don't really know anybody here and don't know where to go if I leave our home.
My husband cheated and is still cheating on me with an ex-friend of mine that he idolizes.?
I confronted him about it but he denied it all. I don't really know what's he expecting from me and our marriage. my life is miserable, what should I do?I did not catch him on the fact, but all his body language, his behavior towards me is very telling. He ones told me that my friend told him that she will come over and taste when I am not around.he will come home with scratches on his back and will tell me that he did it himself....

Thanks for u guys who answered my last question

2007-05-12 04:31:54 · 7 answers · asked by cfaith 1

I JUST FOUND OUT AFTER 12 YEARS WITH MY WIFE THAT SHE'S WANTS TO BE WITH HER EX-BOYFRIEND FROM 13 YEARS AGO?SHE GAVE ME THE OLD I LOVE YOU BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU SPEECH....SHE ALSO SAYS THAT I DON'T LOVE HER THE WAY I DID WHEN WE WERE DATING TWELVE YEARS AND 4 KIDS AGO? HELLO....IT'S BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE WE DATED AND SHE CAN'T EXPECT ME TO BE LIKE THAT. CAN SHE?

2007-05-12 04:18:40 · 16 answers · asked by CD'S BASEMENT 1

have dinner ready?
dress sexy?
pour him a drink?
take off his shoes?
give him a massage?
or just leave him alone? lol!!

i have no idea!!!
any help would be much appreciated!! especially from guys (: we're both in our early 20's and i dont usually make an effort but he's been stressed out at work lately

thank u!!!!!!!!!! (:

2007-05-12 04:09:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband wants me to leave our little one bedroom apartment and move in with his mother and 2 little brothers in a two bedroom trailer.
He says that paying rent is stupid when we could live there. And he says he is more relaxed when he is at his moms..cause he doesn't hear the train and neighbors. He is acting really unhappy with everything in our lives since he suggested this. Also he tried to leave me 2 weeks ago and of course his mom was there in our apartment helping him pack.....while I was there. We got into an arguement and he started calling me a whore, etc...he was screaming this in my face so I slapped him....Anyway we have gotten past all this and he moved back in and now he is starting it up again....what should I do? I'm NOT moving in with his mama.....But how should I handle this. I'm crying right now while I'm typing because I love this man with all my heart....he is my husband.....God what should I do? thanks

2007-05-12 04:09:04 · 20 answers · asked by Just here. 4

He went & got married to a woman from Bangladesh last summer & we had a nasty break up. As months went by he would still say flirty things to me when I would see him occasionaly. I ran into him the other day & we talked for a while & he expressed that he missed me & wanted to see me again. He asked why didnt I treat him better when we were together & was I seeing some currently. I agreed that he could pick me up so we could talk more Fri. I saw him Thurs. @ the store & I was with a male friend. He was very snappy when I asked him what time was he picking me up. He was throwing things around on the shelves. I called him last night to see what was up & he was upset & hung up the phone on me! WTF? I never said we wer together. If he felt that strongly about me, why the hell did he go marry someone else. He' acting as if I betrayed him. The guy I was with was just a friend who just happened to be going in the same direction so my ex jumped to conclusions. I dont owe him any explanations...

2007-05-12 04:04:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would love for my ex to spend time with our children. I don't allow this to happen because he refuses to give me a phone number or address to reach him. I have to call his parents and have them call him and tell him to call me (blocked). I'm not comfortable with sending my children, not knowing how to contact them while they are away. should I go against my gut and send them anyway? What if something happens and I cant reach his parents that means I cant reach my children. I think its unfair to the kids as well, they cant call and say good morning daddy. I don't know what to do. Does anyone think I'm just being childish and should just let them visit? After all the kids are the ones suffering. I just think a good mom should know where her children are and how to reach them at all times. Especially by them being so young 5 and 8.Thanks in advance for your help.

2007-05-12 04:04:49 · 6 answers · asked by that girl. 1

2007-05-12 04:02:13 · 11 answers · asked by CataCata 1

How can it be that if a married woman want to abort a baby she can without the fathers consent but if a married man wants to have a vasectomy he has to take his wife along for a chat with the doc to make sure it is what they both want to do?
I find this really strange.
Only discovered this as my hubby wants to have a vasectomy and i had to go along for the consultation to make sure we both new that it was a permenent thing..
But i also have a married friend who had an abortion but never had to consult her partner to make sure it was what they both wanted to do...

2007-05-12 03:50:30 · 29 answers · asked by JustJem 6

He is a nice guy to be with. We know this relationship is not right and we need to stop seeing / calling each other. But we can't get rid of each other because there is business involoved. What should we do?

2007-05-12 03:37:15 · 20 answers · asked by Rainbow House 2

Let's put the shoe on the other foot. Someone asked if using prostitutes for sex is considered cheating. One answer was "it probably makes you a better husband". Well guys, if your wives use male prostitues, is she a better wife?

2007-05-12 03:36:04 · 24 answers · asked by paint_bear 1

Ok, Lately my husband and my brother have been drinking alot together at our house, sometimes I drink with them like maybe once a week. Other times they will drink and I do not mind -usally ,but Last night I was very up set they were going to drink and I told them to keep it down and I did not want anyone to bother me because I had to wake up at 4:15 in the morning to be at work on time and I told my husband I was locking our bedroom door so I do not want anyone to come in except him when they are done. So I was sleeping all good and about mid-night one of my cosins came in the room and woke me up she was trashed my husband had to have let her in! So to make a long story short I got my work clothes and took the car ( we only have one) and drove to my mom's house to sleep and only had 3 hours last night. I didn't yell or scream at him so my question is do you think my husband respect's my feelings? This has happend more than once- Thanks for reading :)

2007-05-12 03:28:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-12 03:19:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

They were suppose to move into another house when her husband decided he didn't want to do that. Instead he wants to get an apartment and live alone. He called today and told her that he wants to go to the storage facility and take what he wants for his apartment. My daughter feels that this is not right because he never gave her a key to the storage and she should choose what she wants. He told her since he is moving today he has to pick what he wants first. This is not fair, because the stuff was in storage so they could buy another house. What should she do? Should she call the police. It's too late to call a lawyer.

2007-05-12 03:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by shirlandjerry@yahoo.com 2

my boyfriend wants me to pay his bill he always not paying his bills on time and i am always bailing him out this time i refuse to but we live together and we have no cable because he did not pay should i pay the pill or should i suffer with out t.v

2007-05-12 03:11:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

As in, do you assume that you will make all the financial decisions?

Do you assume that she will be the one cooking and cleaning?

Just curious as to how you picture day to day life as a husband.

2007-05-12 02:23:37 · 24 answers · asked by Puresnow 6

We lived together 2 years before marriage.
I been married 10 years, we still laugh and smile everyday.
Love & respect and care for each other.

2007-05-12 01:23:49 · 27 answers · asked by Terri 2

what would you do if you were a single parent and the father of the child wouldn't even pay the child maintenance to help you? Is there a low on that earth which helps single mums!!!!!!!!!!!! because apparently I cannot do anything about him not paying the child maintenance as he claims that he is a full time student, and full time students are exempted from paying the child maintenance. He is 32 and I guess he will be studying forever......! Am really stuck and don't know what to do!

2007-05-12 01:09:50 · 21 answers · asked by Agnieszka S 1