Marriage & Divorce - 8 May 2007

2007-05-08 23:36:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-08 22:43:50 · 21 answers · asked by ruchi 2

they want us get rid of our motocycles, guns, race cars, tools, hobbies, playing sports, watching sports, working out at the gym, hopes dreams, ect

2007-05-08 22:33:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it when you get physical with someone else other than your spouse? Or once you actually develop a much deeper relationship with that person?

2007-05-08 21:36:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-08 21:32:39 · 18 answers · asked by sweet companion 1

even when they are in the wrong, my ex never stops asking for more and more things!!! why do you girls do this?

2007-05-08 21:28:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

...do you think is best for marriage?
I'm 20 years old and trust me...college takes all my time and space in my mind so I'm definately not thinking about marrying my boyfriend right now but....when do you think is the best time and age to do so??
Sometimes it crosses my mind and like every woman...I wonder how everything will happen...when...where.... :)

2007-05-08 21:26:53 · 16 answers · asked by SusiQ 5

Hi, my job demands travelling a lot. Many times my secretary travels with me and she is also married. Of late, she is trying to indulge with me...... Of course, She is a real cute girl. She promises that she will keep things secret. Should I go for that? Only during weekends, I am at home and you can imagine, what I loose in this life......

2007-05-08 21:10:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is 3 years my senior, she had menopause and she does not want to have sex anymore due to the pain.
1)Have seen doctor and taken medicine but still refuse to engage.
2)Went to romantic tour to try to improve the situation but does not work.

3)300% sure she is not having an affair or any other man in her life except me.

I still have needs and it looks like it is the end of sex btw wife and husband but family and etc is still intact.

Question:
1)If I can find a woman who is willing partner after understanding my position, do you think I should consider with this woman just for sex (don't ask me to go to prostitute it is a "no").

2)If yes to question 1, where the hell do I find such a woman?

Please advice with some compassion and don't be nasty.
Thanks..for your advice.

2007-05-08 20:15:58 · 19 answers · asked by Freakout 4

he is 26 and she is 26 they have know each since kids they went there own way he got married and now divorced andshe was enganged nd left she left her old boyfriend ans now is living with him in a small trailer.he is out of work right now but promiseds me he will be working a goood job,she was a bad drug additt and got clean but she did not care how she looked had makeup on she was skinny now she is with this guy she has put 20 lbs on her she looks beautiful radient they say they are meant to be but none of our fammily will go to the weeding he is a (bad boy) the kind the ladies like but he swaers and i do know he would never hurt her he dont even drink but whatdo i do my family says we are better that they are and she can do better but she loves him help mehe promises he will have a job before that are marroed she woeks hard evey day

2007-05-08 20:15:13 · 7 answers · asked by Warm_Hearted 2

ok heres the story. i';ve been married for a year to a great man.im finally getting an education to make something out of myself. my husband wants to move 1000 miles away where i couldnt go to school if i wanted to. i really want to go to college, but i wan tmy husband tooo. any advice??

2007-05-08 19:50:25 · 11 answers · asked by happy1 1

Coz i am feeling now after 8 months of marriage life...
Now i am feeling that the choice i picked WHO is my hubby is absoultly the wrong one!! Why am i so stupid or was i blind then? What Should i do?

2007-05-08 19:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by sUnseT 3

When i was cleaning the house eg. bathroom
I looked my bf's draw for a condom that i knew there.
But it was gone...............
So i txt him & asked him where did it go.
his reply ............ dont worry i used it on myself
it kind of upset me , but i know guys do it the thing is
i now asked him y he did it n do i not satisfy him enuf
he yells and says i dont have to talk to you bout this
wat wat wat help wat does it mw mean or just any help to wat i have said plzzz

2007-05-08 19:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by sarah f 1

I dont want to get too into it but the situation is that I was feeling like crap because how a person makes me feel. The person came over and started holding me. I was sooo pist at this person. Im somewhat confused now. Should I just let what made me ball in the first place Go? What would you do?

2007-05-08 19:29:04 · 10 answers · asked by jason b 1

I never cried as much as I do now before I got married and the worse part is even when I do cry it is ignored by my own husband.People that love you would be concerned with whats wrong, but not him.He doesnt even ask"whats wrong", he literally ignores me.I have spoken to him about our communication problems for the past 6 months now and nothing has really changed.I try to hold a conversation with him sometimes and its like hes not there.It seems as though things go wrong a day or so after we have sex.Its like a cycle, when he hasn't had any we start getting close and have fun together which leads into making love a few days later but after that it seems like he barely wants to have anything to do with me.How can you be with someone whom you feel loves you only sometimes?How can your spouse ignore you when you are hurt?I have no children. I believe we married too soon,within 6 mos.I dont wnt to give up a marriage so easy but I dnt wnt to hve gray hairs at 23 either.Shld I call it quits?

2007-05-08 19:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by vanillacream753 3

I love my husband sooo much and i want everything in this world with him and want to know that he would NEVER cheat on me.. I have a good friend that he finds VERY attractive ...do u think its wrong to get her to Try to make him do something..I need to know if he will? and if i can trust him?? is my idea wise or dumb..be honest...

2007-05-08 19:01:22 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me from the start well i am Danielle and i got married to my first husband when i was 15 and i was 5 months pregnant . he was very abusive toward me emotial and physical he was controlling ...well sorry to tell you this but i am jumping on how i met my current husband . i went to clubs and ran into my husband so then we rushed into a relationship within 3 weeks i started living with him and i was working so he got attach to my daughter so i contiued to stay with him then i got pregnant and then when i lost the baby due to a lot of stress .we got married i was 18 .he has been spanking my child ever since she was 2 and i don't like how he does it he will treat her like crap and expects me to forgive him and he does the same to me ..puts me down calls me names and he use to be physical but not anymore i see he trying to change but i am not happy but i love him . i want to leave but i don't know if this will be better for my kids should i stay or shold i go ... please help me !!!

2007-05-08 18:29:27 · 19 answers · asked by Danielle 1

Ok, so i have been divorced for a month now and me and my ex have kids. My ex cheated so it was time to go. we still talk all the time and we even talk about later in life remarrying because we still do love each other and we both just need time to grow up. but we want to make a family for our children. Me and him are perfect except for what he did, but we're working on that. Well, problem is, i have started to talk to one of his acquaintances and we established that we are 2 adults and we were going to be "partners" and that was it. well we haven't had sex yet and we r starting to like each other. well lately all my ex has been saying is how much he wants us to be back together and doesn't want us having any secrets going back into our relationship which i don't know when we are getting back into it. Could be six months from now. should i not see the friend or go back to my ex who cheated? but at the same time i don't want to put my life on hold for my ex when he could do it again

2007-05-08 18:27:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it insulting that Yahoo Q&A puts Marriage&Divorce questions together in the same group of questions?

It would almost as offensive if that catorigized Births&Funerals together.

Am I wrong?

2007-05-08 18:07:40 · 12 answers · asked by alberthastings3 4

what do men wish women would do.. do more of.. not do, etc.

2007-05-08 18:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by Liz 1

i met the father of my kid 6 yrs ago. after a year we moved to the same house. we have a 4-year old kid now. we have ups and downs but we manage to get through with it. We are happy together. He loves me so much and plans to marry me when he comes home from abroad. However, i am not very much sure of my feelings now. I love him but my feelings for him is not strong as before. I cannot say "I do" yet. I've had this feeling since last year although there is no third party involved. Now I am falling in love with another man although I do not know if this new guy shares the same feelings with me. I met him last March and we've been friends since then. I do not know what to do. I do not know if I have a future with this guy and even if I do I am worried about my kid and his father who loves me so much. I hate this feeling i have. what will you do if you were in my shoes? please help!

2007-05-08 17:53:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did anyone see Oprah today? Would you put yourself in harms way to help a friend or loved one that you knew was being abused? I know without my family I could not have made it out of my abusive relationship.

2007-05-08 17:10:11 · 2 answers · asked by renee125 2

I can't go into much more detail. The person making this decision is the most beautiful and incredible woman in the universe. She has to choose one. In doing so, she will very deeply hurt the other. She couldn't stand to hurt an ant. It's killing her, and I want to be there for her as best I can. Please - what can I do other than hug her when I see her tomorrow? What can I do to ease her pain?

I love her.

2007-05-08 16:52:28 · 23 answers · asked by Gunning4Jesus 3

everynite he says he is going to cook but then he passes out and i have to or not eat whats the deal in addition i went out and bout a grill he put it together tonight said he would grill and guess what passed out??

2007-05-08 16:48:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

to ur truly love (doesnt matter if ur together or not, if ur cool or not, ih u hate each other or not). if u only had one chance, cause that person is leaving 4ever. (trip, death, what ever)

2007-05-08 16:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by Dra. Mejía 4

2007-05-08 16:33:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

The love of my life, my husband of 8 years, needs to loose weight. Not only is he stunning and attractive when he is skinny but he is having serious health issues related to his weight.

He has done it before. Twice at Jenny Craig. He looses weight so fast with Jenny Craig and he loves the food.

His only problem is taking the time to go to the center and have the meeting and get the food.

How do I tell him that I think it is time to go back. He has gained back everything he has already lost and more. I don't know if there is a way to do this without hurting his feelings.

PS-I keep myself fit and thin and healthy for him.

2007-05-08 16:07:45 · 19 answers · asked by Triplescoop 2

I have homework to "keep telling myself I don't have to be abused anymore". Then I have to try to figure out my life and current situation with my abusive boyfriend of 7 years.
How do I get the strenght to leave him after all the abuse, I need some advice to get the gumption to leave. I don't have it in me right now. It's very difficult and the situation is an endless cycle. Yes we have a son and he's coming with me. But I need the strenght to go. To stop making excuses and to forget about the hope of saving this doomed relationship. After 7 years, it's not worth wasting anymore time. I've wasted too long and I don't want this for my life or for my son. Please give me any helpful advice, it would be very much appericated. Thanks

2007-05-08 15:50:39 · 31 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5

We've been married almost 9 months and he is verbally and mentally abusive to me along with controlling everything. It' "Know your role and shut up." What gives?

2007-05-08 15:49:36 · 12 answers · asked by brittany 1

2007-05-08 15:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous