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Marriage & Divorce - 7 May 2007

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she left to go to another state with her kids, and family came down later to stay with her, but they did finds jobs. she had to paid all the bills in the house and they decided to come back and left alone with bills. she did not have a job for awhile to paid the bills. about two weeks ago she and I didn't speak. now after two week she text me for money. and now she call me to see if I at home where I suppose to be, I call her asked why you dont't answer her phone, she said she sleep at 11pm, then i call at 8:30pm next night still no answer, but she call me at 8:30 am to tell she just got my message. i told her i call back later after church, i call no answer, then i refused to answer her call twice, she asked me why i did not answer her calls. i told her i fell asleep. and i have to go to work now, during the week she doesnt call me only on the weekend. what to do?

2007-05-07 23:56:40 · 3 answers · asked by blkngd 1

2007-05-07 23:40:26 · 16 answers · asked by stephen a 1

I was running my own business, building our dream home and I gave her all the time she needed to start her own business even helped her with marketing, business planning, etc. Not only this, for the previous 3 years I was providing her a new car, phone, computer, paying all expenses (including 3 holidays) and giving her money to spend on clothes, jewellery every month. It seemed the more I gave the more she wanted. We serarated because I was sick of her promising she would change and then asking for more. Recently she seems to have realised how much I was doing for our family and has turned up at my new home a few times in tears, saying how sorry she was. I have the kids 3 days a week and pay maintenace on time every week and just want to get on with my life and help my boys grow into strong men. I want more kids and want to find someone else that does too but am worried that someone will take advantage again. Is this natural and what do I do to make sure it does not happen again?

2007-05-07 23:35:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-07 23:29:40 · 32 answers · asked by spring 3

ONE A PERSONAL LEVEL

Why do you think i became a RECEPTIONIST ?
Is it because you wanted and believed i am to be a receptionist?
Is it that reason that i am unhappy is because i don't get the support i need to go somewhere and be what makes me happy and why?
What do you think?
How would you help me?
Would you like my ideas or not? If not, why be cruel to me when helping me?
Please reply......................................................................................

2007-05-07 22:57:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 45 yr this is my second marriage.I got married 7 yr back.I am highly qualified well placed professional.My wife is 43 yr, qualified , house wife also divorcee. We do not have kids.From the third day of our marriage my wife has been been very harsh to me,she has beaten me number of times with in the walls of our home, in the public places and in the running car. She has abused me in all possible filthy words. She has leveled all possible allegations against me.We live alone and no interference from any family members but she feels that I am influenced by my elder sister.I spoke to my wife's mother twice but no change in her behavior. I told my wife's brother and sister regarding this ill treatment but no help. But they are not aware that she has been beaten me number of times.My wife repeatedly tells me that if i share this problem with any body in that case she will commit suicide . I can say that her corrector is worse than the corrector of Rani Mukherjee in Black.Pl help .

2007-05-07 22:16:00 · 30 answers · asked by kumar s 1

We been together for 5 years,
and his family invited him only to his sisters anniversary party.
They did not invite me.

Husband still went to party.
i was lil upset as he still went.
was i right to be upset? or am just over reacting

2007-05-07 22:14:21 · 23 answers · asked by Rosy 4

please help me how to maximize my time, or how to spend my time with out any regret,they say life is to short, so i want to spend it with out any regret at the end.I don't want to regress when i go old.

2007-05-07 21:48:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says im too controlling.. but in my eyes i just want to spend more time with him and he calls me his tail sometimes i go with him to his families houses. but i feel that were common law so there my family and i have a right to be there anyhow.he excpects me to sit in the house while hes gone all day like im a chia pet. and it hurts. then even at night he takes off too .. i ask him to play cards or go to a movie or even watch a movie and its like begging him .. and we use to do those things all the time know we hardly do.. and when we do i beg him too.

2007-05-07 21:40:42 · 23 answers · asked by Rachelle L 1

I am 45 yr this is my second marriage.I got married 7 yr back.I am highly qualified well placed professional.My wife is 43 yr, qualified , house wife also divorcee. We do not have kids.From the third day of our marriage my wife has been been very harsh to me,she has beaten me number of times with in the walls of our home, in the public places and in the running car. She has abused me in all possible filthy words. She has leveled all possible allegations against me.We live alone and no interference from any family members but she feels that I am influenced by my elder sister.I spoke to my wife's mother twice but no change in her behavior. I told my wife's brother and sister regarding this ill treatment but no help. But they are not aware that she has been beaten me number of times.My wife repeatedly tells me that if i share this problem with any body in that case she will commit suicide . I can say that her corrector is worse than the corrector of Rani Mukherjee in Black.Pl help .

2007-05-07 21:36:45 · 20 answers · asked by kumar s 1

I'm a student of law,I'm not Indian & I cant have your books because I live in another country.Now I'm searching for divorce in India,I'm in trouble for the source of it,do me a favour and answer my question in detail.Thanks for your kindness.

2007-05-07 21:28:42 · 4 answers · asked by maryam a 1

I have been married for half a year. My wife is a wonderful person and I adore her. She is physically very beautiful as well and so far everything is great.
The only thing that bothers me is that I simply don't like her clothing style. It's not that she doesn't care about how she looks, she does. We just have different opinions about it. Unfortunately, it makes her less attractive sexually for me, and she has, of course, noticed it, and it must have hurt.
I feel pretty bad about it. It seems right that I should accept her style as a part of her personality and not let stupid things like clothes affect it. It's just that I can't control it. I feel a lot of guilt about it.
She might even be willing to change her style for me, but it feels very wrong to my mind, as if I'm trying to change her. I really don't want to control her in any way.
So far, I did the typical thing: kept clear of the subject. What should I do?

2007-05-07 21:09:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he's using it for networking.. business personels on that site. Is that true?

2007-05-07 20:53:12 · 28 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

or does it not matter as their existence no longer makes a difference?

2007-05-07 20:50:08 · 18 answers · asked by sm 3

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i have my daughter living in my house, she's 42 and her husband is my my ex (yes, im gay)... he sometimes sleeps in my bed when im not there. what should i do?

2007-05-07 20:21:19 · 7 answers · asked by baydo 1

The court gave wife temporary custody of our then10 mo. old daughter, even though she was in drug rehab at the time. Our little girl's sitter is my wife's mother. This woman lost custody of my wife when she was 11. SHE HAD HER RAPED! Can anyone please tell me how I might obtain any documentation of this. This happened in Louisiana 27 years ago. My attorney has managed to get wife's psychiatric records which describe this event along with others which led to Child Protection Services' intervention. My state's CPS tells me that they can't get these records. Please,can anyone help? Wife has never allowed her to keep her 14 & 16 yr. old girls from a pevious marriage. Also, her mother has been married 8 times. Her husband thinks he is #3. Any ideas on how to trace her marriages? If I can prove these marriages in court, I can impeach her on this. Thank you.

2007-05-07 19:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by bob s 2

A couple of months ago, the court in Summit county Ohio sent my husband and I a questionaire to fill out so that his ex is charged with contempt of court for non payment of child support (she owes over 3000 dollars and hasn't paid in a year). How long does it take for it to get filed and go to court? Are there any other remedies? Any answers appreciated, but people who know Ohio would really help...

2007-05-07 18:01:58 · 10 answers · asked by Kathleen W 1

I'm facing a dilema right now. The question -> Should I ask my girlfriend to become my wife even if right now I'm not finacially stable and I can't afford a nice engagement ring at the momet? We love eachother very much and we know that we're meant to be. There is only the object of money that has put this situation in a bind. What should I do?

2007-05-07 17:55:53 · 13 answers · asked by Guy 1

K i wrote a question but i am going to reword it . thinking of (My husband and I have been married for three years and have three daughters under the age of three. We are having trouble in our marriage and we seem not to work things out. He doesn't trust me and no i havent cheated.I want him home more and help me around the house, but I know he has a job to do. These things are nearly simple, but our big problem is we are so far in debt and he can lose his job because of it. I am a full time student and am using my gi bill for this so no money coming out for that. we do have a single income coming in but i have a homebase bus. that i do make some good money however we have child support to pay and i like that quilty in my husband for taking care of his other kids but its hard. I love my husband and I know my girls need their father.I tried asking about counsiling and he said no. what do i do

2007-05-07 17:48:36 · 10 answers · asked by sweetteepi2282 2

I love my wife, but we are having strong arguments lately and she already cross the line breaking one computer, my cell phone, hiting our dog to hurt me, calling my family horrible names and what is worst: she has called the police on me and I didint touch her !! just to bother me ... I went to a phsycologist, therapist, EVERYTHING !! I am not an angel and I act aggresively when I loose it but NEVER violence !!! she has throw things to me, even sissors that almost cut me or who knows ... what can I do? she wont leave me and to be honest I am willing to fight for this relationship ... but calling me names and all this violence is killing me inside. Any advice?

2007-05-07 17:36:30 · 16 answers · asked by Bono 2

What is the best length of time to ask your girlfreind to marry you? i have been dating this girl for two months but have known her and been freinds with her my whole life? how long should i wait to pop the question and yes we"ve both been married already to other people?

2007-05-07 17:33:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

she was just using me! I think she married me just to get the green card and lately has been asking me to help her get her parents and brothers and sister to move to the US from Taiwan! IT cost like freakin a few thousands dollars just to get the paper work and legality to get just one. She wants me to help them get the residency ASAP. I also noticed lately that wehn I refused, she push me out and make me sleep in the SOFA! She even threaten to divorce me if I dont help her! Now Im trap cos if I divorce her, I would lose part of my assets and yet she still retain her green card. Please help me what to do. Im so mad!

2007-05-07 17:23:51 · 18 answers · asked by Confused 1

who comes home from work and relaxes. Okay, I allowed it. now after 22 years I'm tired. How do I approach the situation? He has to be taught..empathic, sympathetic.... *sighs* how can I teach without feeling frustrated?!!?

2007-05-07 17:18:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-07 17:16:27 · 3 answers · asked by Ebony S 1

2007-05-07 17:12:05 · 2 answers · asked by jhud_19531 1

When a relationship is in trouble, what gives you ladies the right to go out and find someone who will make you feel good about yourselves? Why cant you be responsible adults and tell your spouse what is bothering you and put forth the effort to fix your relationship instead of taking the easy way out and banging the first swinging dick who makes you feel special? People fall in love by chance, stay together with work and fall out of love by choice. That was sent to me and it is true. You cant do that to someone! It isn't right! Why would you not work on your relationship? Does the feelings of someone else mean that little to you that you can plunge the dagger and not care about the bloodshed?

2007-05-07 17:02:13 · 43 answers · asked by da_catcar 1

My divorce from a nine year marriage (14 year relationship) is almost finale. It was an abusive marriage and ended very badly. He is moving away and will probably never see our two small children again. He does pay his child support so I guess he thinks that is enough. The thing is even with every awful thing that happened and went on , I am still having a hard time moving on. I know I can’t go back because of the violence and I love my children and myself to much to live that way. I just feel so empty right now. I miss having someone to cook for , do laundry for and go out with. I guess I just miss being a wife to someone. I do not want to jump into a relationship because I want to work on me. I want to know who I am and become stronger on my feet. Build my self esteem back up. It is all the memories that I can not stop thinking about. Certain songs, places and people. We were high school sweet hearts and he has been my one and only guy I have ever been with intimately. I want to hate him so much and I should after what he did to me. I am just having a hard time with moving on. He is a very successful business man and I am afraid I will never meet someone like that again. But then I know that money is not happiness. When I left him I left everything , the house, the new care , all my possessions. I never cared about any of that stuff. He just makes me feel inadequate to him and I feel like I need to prove to him that I am a better person than him. Even though I KNOW that I am better. Because I love people with my heart not just because I have something to gain from them. It makes me sick to think of him making love to someone else. Why can’t I just move on!! I know what the right thing is to do but my heart won’t let me let go. What can I do? I am in counseling already.

2007-05-07 16:59:58 · 14 answers · asked by renee125 2

If your future spouse confesses to being with many others, and commiting terrible things that go against your beliefs:and are still in love w/ her can you judge especially if you gave your sacred virginity to some one who was not what they said they were? Is It fair? What should I do?

2007-05-07 16:56:23 · 4 answers · asked by diab 1

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