Marriage & Divorce - 7 May 2007

2007-05-07 09:03:09 · 23 answers · asked by ?~GotLove~? 5

i read somewhere that men (and women) look up to, admire, find it contagious and want to be around people who are happy and confident. I am not self confident and i know my husband finds it unattractive b/c i am kinda jealous. He gets nervous when a pretty woman passes by b/c he thinks I'm going to say "I saw you looking at her" or something like that. I already know I'm wrong for giving in to my insecurities and I often imagine myself stopping cold turkey and him being amazed at my change and finding a new found attraction to me in my new state of confidence. But how do i go about being that way? I wish i could be the type of woman to which my husband can say "she enjoys her life and no matter that we're broke with 2 young kids who drive us crazy, i lost my job but darnit, she's a happy camper!"

2007-05-07 09:01:43 · 11 answers · asked by Angie 1

HELP

2007-05-07 09:01:32 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend, despite EVERYONE'S advice NOT to sleep with him, slept with a married man on a business trip two months ago. I am married and feel terrible for the wife. Do I hold any responsibility for telling his wife?

I think it may be important for the wife to be tested, my friend has unfortunately been around the block more than a few times so to speak.

I was not involved in the infidelity and yet I feel massively guilty that I have not yet done anything about it. I feel horribly for the wife in this situation. Would I be justified in telling the wife? Is it my responsibility or should I just let it go?

Thanks in advance!

2007-05-07 08:56:50 · 57 answers · asked by jenn_smithson 6

my husband is in the miltary and deployed to iraq

2007-05-07 08:55:43 · 5 answers · asked by jennifer c 1

So I am having this bachelorette party and I mean it's like my last time to have a chance with another HOT man..That's what these before marriage party's are about right? My fiance will never know and my friends won't say anything right? My fiance is probably going to do it so I can to right? Look I love my future hubby but I figure with all the stories and us NOT avioding such celebration as in naked humans of the oppisite sex.. jiggling and rubbing against my MAN then use it to my advantage..Is this wrong to think? I mean he won't know and it's my last time..heehee...

2007-05-07 08:49:33 · 23 answers · asked by JAYDEN 2

I'm curious because I have heard different opinions from different men about what they think about when they watch porn. If you are watching porn while having sex with your wife/girlfriend, what are you thinking about?
Please be honest. I am seriously curious.

2007-05-07 08:47:47 · 10 answers · asked by ♥IndomลbleƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 6

And why would your wife marrying another woman defeat the purpose of it?

I think this would be ideal! Just think, you and the wife get to go dating for a third partner in the marriage.

I would tell the wife to make sure she dates at least 100 chicks and to have some one night stands too.

The possibilties are endless.

2007-05-07 08:37:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked earlier on the topic of gay marriage and one of the responses made me think....why don't they just ban marriage?

All the people I know:

My parents, in laws, siblings, friends, co-workers......all have issues with marriage involving:

Cheating
Dissagreements on petty things
Religion
Child rearing
URGE to BREED
Etc.

Now think of the troubles that would be eliminated if there was no such thing as marriage. I think the world would be a better place.

2007-05-07 08:34:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my wife for 3 years, I'm 25 and she's 26. I have spoke to her about trying to stop going clubing with her friends but she says no. She goes clubing like ones a month or twice months. For me I don't think the wife should go clubing with out the husband...AND>>>>We do go out together clubing sometime but still wants to do it with her girlsfriends too.

2007-05-07 08:33:18 · 94 answers · asked by Bucanero 1

I say 70%.

2007-05-07 08:19:37 · 12 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3

2007-05-07 08:16:05 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am caucasian and just adore latino men,, they are hot...romantic,,,and i could care less if they speak english..ha ha.. and they are extra horny,,, ha ha... any girls feel the same way..

2007-05-07 08:13:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've lied about orgasms the last 5 years now Im getting tired of not getting any thing out of sex and tired of lieing should I tell him or never say a word.right now his sex life is perfact but I get way left out......

2007-05-07 07:50:38 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

tomarrow I will be the instructor of a free discusion class.Our topic is "women's rights".Since I am a boy,I may be unable to talk about it in details.please help me out with your ideas.

2007-05-07 07:44:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes married has kids and is a coworker i know bad combination. I also know that I can never be with him and nothing has happened between us but I have fallen for him something awful. any suggestions on how to fix this?

2007-05-07 07:39:05 · 71 answers · asked by eagle_angel_07 1

Ok.. so here's the thing, my husband & I have been tghthr 4 seven yrs now, and he cheated on me years ago, supposedly a 1 nght stand. We wrked through it, but I never really got completely over it. I've always been watchin my back, cheking on him, b/c i feel i dont trust him. Well he's a good husband, provides for our 2 kids, wrks, but has a little drinking prob. Every now and then he goes out drinking & turns off his cell phone, then wont tell me who he's been w/ or where he was at. This past wkend wuz really bad b/c i had no car, money & the kids were hungry, he sd he wuz on his way home, then didn't show up til really late. I went thru his phone & found a pic, of a guy gettin a lapdance @the strip club. I can't tell if it's him or not, but i asked him about it and he sd he had never seen the pic before.I dont know what to do!! Should i trust him, but how can i, if he doesnt give me any answers? I dont have anywhere to go....

2007-05-07 07:18:07 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

hmm after realizing that I am ready to move on, I made a list of things I want form the next guy - but do u think I am going overboard:
I said, I want someone who is a good kisser, someone I can connect with, who can buy me flowers and take me out, surprise me and do the little things that make me feel special, and someone who when faced with 2 options on who to believe - will believe me over the next person... he should like to have fun, yet give me my own space...

Is this list too much, are my requirements too high??

2007-05-07 07:16:19 · 41 answers · asked by Franky 1

we have talked to alot of people ...my ex has not called his daughter or even called me to verify if he will pick her up this summer,he just got married 3 days ago.and my children are not thrilled about it...he is suppose to get her in the summer but never has before for 6 years now,the police said they will not force her to go if she chooses not too.he was told to call by april 15th to get her in june he said he does not have too.in the mean time her doctor now has her on immunotherapy through a specialist...her dad has no docotor are anything set up for her to keep her therapy going,she has severe allergies to outside...the doctor here has a note for her daddy to let him know she is in this program and has to have 8 shots a month.i dont know what to do...but he has not even contacted us since january and the only time he called he was in debt over $18.000 and wanted to use our daughter for his income tax to get more back to pay off his debt which he could not do,i have custody of h

2007-05-07 07:13:53 · 13 answers · asked by TAM 2

Or this is what a recent billboard states put up in the Chicagos Gold Coast by a law firm that specializes in divorce cases -- what do you guys think of this? Here is the article in case no one has seen it...

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,270058,00.html

or this site has a picture of it..

http://proecclesia.blogspot.com/2007/05/lifes-short-get-divorce-law-firm-ad.html

I personally have mixed feelings as I feel while a great piece of advertising it may be making a mockery of how serious divorce really is -- I come from a divorced home but I believe very much in the sanctity of marriage and what it means to break it.

2007-05-07 07:05:06 · 7 answers · asked by Okaydokay21 4

I would love to meet up and have dinner with a male friend of mine, who I have always said is "just a friend." I can't decide if meeting him would a good idea or not...or whether or not to tell my husband that the "friend" and I are talking again...

2007-05-07 07:02:49 · 20 answers · asked by quilt-babe 3

It was my choice to save myself for the man I marry and I don't regret that, I know I'm doing the right thing. But I am quite scared about the pain and I would want to avoid it as much as I could. Is there any possiblity? Is it going to hurt much?

2007-05-07 06:51:37 · 33 answers · asked by dana 2

I ended a 20 year relationship to be with someone who professed such love for me. As soon as I ended this relationship they lost interest in about a month. We had been seeing each other, cause I thought my current long term relationship was over. She also was living with someone else. I just don't understand when we were sneaking around must of been more exciting for her, than to really settle down. I haven't spoken to her since, and was very fortuanate to get back into my past relationship. I will never stray again. I just wonder whats up with that kinda thinking, and yes I know it takes two to tangle. I just wonder if this person is mental, or potentially dangerous, like anti-social. And possibly enjoys breaking up marriages, cost people much unneeded expense, and heartache. I really learned my lesson, kinda like fatal attraction.

2007-05-07 06:44:16 · 15 answers · asked by thejanitorsez 1

Can showing someone you love them and only them by showing all love and affection including all attention in full affect then totally leaving them alone as in cutting all love affection attention for the reason to reason there reasons and sift out what they want and need be a good way of persuasion or just a way of proving chemistry between two IF THEY MEET AGAIN..?

2007-05-07 06:44:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I could make it work in this section, too, i suppose. My husband had an affair and his whore invited him to her online photo gallery that I was able to get into, and lets just say I have posted some interesting comments and I hope and pray she gets them. Anyway, married and divorced people take pictures, too, dont they? So, onto my ?.....

If your 'friend' invites you to share pics with them and you post a comment, does your 'friend' have to log into the Kodak Gallery account to read the comment, or does the Kodak website send her an email letting you know what the comment is or does Kodak send your 'friend' an alert email, like letting you know a 'friend' has posted a new comment to your pics? How does that work? Will the email she gets just say something like: "You have a new comment posted, log into the gallery to read it...or will Kodak actually send her an email telling her what the comment is?

2007-05-07 06:40:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

The older(10yrs) of the two was born to me (meaning that i'm not the sperm doner but i'm the only father she's ever known). The youngest(4yrs) is our child togerther. I've not pushed the issue but with the child that's younger and not in regular school she's refusing to let her visit. I love both my kids and don't won't them involved in a ugly custody battle. What should I do?

2007-05-07 06:34:30 · 8 answers · asked by misterlvj 1

here's a situation i never thought i would find myself in. my wife recently told me she would like to leave me. we have been together for 7 years and married for 4. she enjoys going to strip clubs with her girlfriends (seriously for her birthday recently she had her party there.)

i am very committed to her, i have provided her with a vehicle, a house, basically anything she needs (within reason - i won't buy diamonds just on a whim). i am there for her emotionally and to help her in any way she needs.

now having said that - i am not the only guy i know in the 35-40 age frame experiencing similar circumstances. i know of 7 other guys (at least) experiencing similar life changes.

i wonder if growing in the 80s we actually listened to our mothers, sisters etc and realized that women need attention and care. maybe this is a crazy conclusion, but when i hear women saying where are the men seeking commitment - i am wondering if this is what they want...

2007-05-07 06:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by william o 1

We have been together almost 4 years and living together almost 1. Things have been a little rocky at times since living with each other, but I think it is us just getting used to living with each other. He feels we fight too much (like once a month). We were about to break up when he decided instead of breaking up, I move out for 3-6 months and we work on our selves and our relationship. In 3-6 months we reassess and decide whether we are going to break up for good, or get married. I don't think things are half as bad as he does and really would like to get married and start a family together. He just thinks things should be effortless and we should never argue. I tell him-such relationships do not exist. thingsw really have gotten better since we decided I will move out 3 weeks ago. Things have done a 180. I have actually started to look forward to being on my own again, and am getting excited. I am scared I may like it too much, like I did before I moved in can this work

2007-05-07 06:32:04 · 11 answers · asked by Jaime S 2

Im doing a paper for my english class and i need some quick ideas. What do women really want?? and not just from a guy, in general or from life. . .

2007-05-07 06:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by MIX208 2

Me and my best friend have been close for 3 years. He's the one i can talk to about everything and i'm the only girl that can "open him up" (pretty lucky to have that considering the fact he's the "shy boy" private-person type). He's liked me all this time and just recently i started to develop feelings for him. We care for each other deeply but decided that if the right time came, it would just happen - no rush. Recently, we just lost someone we knew - he was very close to him. I know i'm not being a pushover and i don't wanna annoy him so i would (now and then) call and txt to see how he's doing.

It's been a week since we last "talked" - it was only for 2 minutes and he said he was gonna call but never did. He's the shy guy type and i know he's waiting for me to call him but it's hard for me to because i'm not the agressive type - i don't wanna bug BUT i do want to be a good friend. how can i be there for him if i'm having issues myself? Why doesn't he call me? Should i cal him?

2007-05-07 06:21:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous