So I am having this bachelorette party and I mean it's like my last time to have a chance with another HOT man..That's what these before marriage party's are about right? My fiance will never know and my friends won't say anything right? My fiance is probably going to do it so I can to right? Look I love my future hubby but I figure with all the stories and us NOT avioding such celebration as in naked humans of the oppisite sex.. jiggling and rubbing against my MAN then use it to my advantage..Is this wrong to think? I mean he won't know and it's my last time..heehee...
2007-05-07 08:49:33 · 23 answers · asked by JAYDEN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How can you love your husband if you do such a thing? That means that your husband isn't enough for you? And you think your fiance will do the same? How then could either of you trust the other when it comes to being faithful?
I love my wife with all of my heart. I would never cheat on her. I hide my eyes when a woman dressed in too little is jogging by and I change the channel when a similar woman is on TV. Because my wife means so much to me and I don't want to think of anyone in that way except for her.
Marriage is sacred. You'll be going into marriage by doing something that's the antipathy of love! Love means sacrifice and laying down everything for the other person. That's the kind of love that lasts.
Do you know what I did for my bachelor party? I ate wings, went bowling and played basketball. It was a whole lot of fun. I didn't need (or want) some other girl to help me have a good time.
In my wife, I have everything I need in a woman - physically, emotionally, intellectually and in all ways. If you feel the same way about your man, then why would you do something of temporal fun that shows a lack of love? If you don't feel the same way...then perhaps you should rethink your relationship with your fiance.
2007-05-07 09:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by TWWK 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW I have been married for 6 months and when I had my bachelorette party all I could think about was my husband. I didnt have stripper but I had men waiters and I wanted my husband not them. If you as me all you should ever thing about is your man, not another man. Its ok to say someone else is cute but you should always think your man is the best looking. My now husband and I have been together for 5 years and I love him more and more everyday. I dont think you are ready to get married.
2007-05-07 09:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by vinessasmommy 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is if you and him are dumb enough to put your relationship at risk then don't marry. People like you are the ones that end up divorcing over cheating you shouldn't get married of you think like that do you even know what a huge step marriage is wow i guess your love for him is not as deep as you say.
2007-05-07 09:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by cutebunny1122 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be a really good way to start your marriage!!!! heehee....
I guess if you KNOW your man will be doing it too - then go for it! I mean...it is all about being happy, right? Getting yours before it is "too late" - living for the moment.
ARE YOU A COMPLETE IDIOT?????
Good luck in your marriage - I suggest you start saving for the divorce lawyer now, that sh!t can get expensive!!!!
2007-05-07 09:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's no excuse. If all you care about is how this is going to be your "last chance" then maybe you're not ready for the marriage. Three can keep a secret if two are dead. So don't do it. It will surface later and you can risk the relationship.
2007-05-07 08:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by newy0rkbabygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're despicable and are clearly WAY to young and immature to get married. If you're so shallow as to think you need to hurry up and get your last good screw in before you get married...you may actually be shallow enough to think he won't find out. AND...what if he truly loves you and is going to be faithful to you and you give him some nasty disease or get knocked up by some guy you don't remember cause you felt the need to be a little wh()re the night before your wedding. Disgusting.
2007-05-07 09:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are at all interested in providing another man other then the man you plan to marry your ******** - you are either okay being a swinger & therefor better make damn sure your future hubby is too - OR - you are too immature to get married!
2007-05-07 08:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by martiek7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bachelorete party is to go out and have a good time with your close friends not to have a fling. And if you did'nt do it while he was a boyfriend,then why do you think it is ok to do it right before you get married, to me you will always do it everytime you go out with friends, and if that was me i would tell you " I DON'T instead of I DO "
2007-05-07 09:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by crosshair8u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to cheat on the man you claim to love enough to spend the rest of your life with?
If you want to sleep with someone else, and want him to do the same, tell him that.
But expect him to object, and possibly call off the wedding.
This would be a good thing, since you clearly are NOT ready to marry.
Especially when you assume he will cheat on you.
2007-05-07 13:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready to get married.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You do not deserve a good man. DON'T GET MARRIED.
You are still in the lust for men mode, don't ruin his life. This is not a way to start a marriage. You are in love with the idea of marriage, but not the hard work and committment it takes.
Keep partying and don't get married
2007-05-07 08:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋