Marriage & Divorce - 3 May 2007

He walked out on 3/3/07 and moved in with another woman. I do not want the home we shared together, but he does. He claims he will make the payments until he can refinance in his own name (joint mortgage account). If for, some reason he can not make the payments can I get him removed from the home? We are in agreement on everything and are trying to file the Divorce without lawyers, but with the uncertainty of the home I wanted to make sure what would happen.

2007-05-03 23:53:38 · 7 answers · asked by Hope7582 1

i can go to bed all sexy and he will just keep playing his ps2 and the times we do have sex after he's done he'll just turn around and go to bed! i even tell him that i need to be pleased and he will play the part but he is not even trining to please me it gets to the point were i just get up mad and walk out and sleep in the other room! if he was trining then wouldent he go talk to me about it instead of just going to sleep?

2007-05-03 23:44:42 · 24 answers · asked by skylaa 1

everyday after that, sometimes 30 times a day for hours at a time. I never checked the cell phone bills i trusted him.i didn't start suspecting anything until almost 10 mths later.i investigated and found out on my own.i cant get a real answer from him for why he did. so i just keep going over it in my head.asking why.he want tell the truth.he obviously enjoyed her conversations, as far as sex he says it was just the excitement of it being new yeah right, it must have been better than with me. he had a faithful wife i thought we were on top of the world. i think he was falling in love this woman. he was willing to jeopardize everything. he had sex with her 1 mth after meeting her and this contiuned i don't know exactly how many times. i don't understand. i would have done anything for him.i thought our sex was great, never told no. how could he live with himself or face me knowing what he was doing.he says he liked the control she would drop her plans to see him. wow he had a wife home

2007-05-03 23:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-03 23:12:17 · 16 answers · asked by lucelle 1

How amay of you have taken nude or seminude snaps of your spouse & kept it in safe?

2007-05-03 23:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Rockey 1

my husband and i have just split we both agreed we fight too much infront of the children and cant get on and he ended it which i am happy with, but he then changed his mind and started getting nasty to the point the police had to be called by my dad coz he could hear him on the phone anyway he calmed down now and he wants to take the kids to yarmouth for the school holidays to spend some time with them b4 he leaves, so he suggested i go to see my mum in spain while he away which i have booked the tickets but this was all arranged b4 it all kicked off, but i am a bit worried he can run with my children and if he does can i get him for kidnapping them? i cant say no to him taking them coz they his kids too and it would only cause more trouble. help me.

2007-05-03 22:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by foxy 1

Is such a marriage an old custom or is it a practice that should be encouraged for a harmonious society? Justify your stance.

2007-05-03 22:09:28 · 7 answers · asked by Dennis Y 1

what happened to ...to love and to obey till death do us part.
why cant women just allow a man make all the decison
who brought this Idea that a man and a woman are in parnership

2007-05-03 21:46:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel that I have a higher sexual drive than my husband and that I am always the one asking him for sex. When I propose the idea, he always shuts it down. We use to be at "it" every other day before we got married and it was great fun and I miss that but now it's not the case. Don't misunderstand me- we don't have a fixed routine as to when and where we should "do it" but even when it happens spontaneously, he claims to not be in the mood. How do I get him to change his mind and "throw caution to the wind" again?

2007-05-03 21:41:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-03 20:52:04 · 7 answers · asked by cheery 1

2007-05-03 20:28:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am naveen from india, my wife want to rejoin again in to my life after one year, she went away from home twice leaving me alone with child, she tryed to divorce me and now she chatting with me and telling that she will meet me and again we will be rejoined, what should i do now. i am intrested to take her, because of my child feature and nothing else, i always belive her but she only do like this. please suggest me.

2007-05-03 20:08:00 · 9 answers · asked by Naveen_oucity 2

my wife of 7 years has a serious anger problem. she's always bitter. she has kids from a previous marriage as do i. i take care of all her kids and mine as well. but she's always pissed off. i've never cheated on her, and i try to give her all that she desires including moral support and affection. i've been nothing but good to her, but she always finds a reason to be angry. one thing in her defense, we usually have very good sex. but she never stays happy for long. we travel extensively (always planned by her and financed by me). the last straw came when i was planning a trip to see a male relative of mine who's like a brother to me. he lives in another state. this would've been the first time i ever travelled w/out her. well, long story short, the night before my flight she packed all my stuff and put it on the curb. i took my stuff and went home ( we both own homes). i went on my trip and had a great time. didn't even miss her. should i return or stay out?

2007-05-03 20:03:08 · 24 answers · asked by silvestre c 2

I've been married to my husband for 2.5 years, he has been back from Iraq for almost eight months and we are so miserable. Before we got married he had a drug problem which he never told me about, while he was in Iraq he had an "internet affair" with an ex (exchanging nude pics, talking dirty, etc.) he thinks i need to get over both but i'm still really angry. Also we never do anything together, he is very disrespectful, and we have very little in common. He is going home for a vacation without me, and he will be around his ex, needless to say i'm really paranoid about it. Tonight i told him not to come home once he is there. I have been really unhappy in this relationship for a very long time and nothing is making it better. We went to counseling but the counselor and him ganged up on me and it didnt go anywhere. I have been considering suicide a lot lately, not just because of my marriage but life in general, i dont have the energy for it anymore and i want out. any advice?

2007-05-03 18:28:45 · 19 answers · asked by ginnyp82 2

love in family is more better than other

2007-05-03 17:53:32 · 5 answers · asked by angelina 1

2007-05-03 17:49:53 · 33 answers · asked by LINESH PATEL 2

I have been married for over a year now. I started to be sexually active since 18 years old and had high sex drive since. I had several sex partners before my marriage.
Problem is I think my sex drive is still high, but not towards my husband.
Although he have to goods and stamina, but he does not really give me pleasure. Sometimes it's painful and after each session, I'm usually sore and slightly torn below as his penis is thick and long. He does a lot of foreplay but unfortunately it does not really arouse me. I only give in because it's a husband's right to demand sex. I can't achieve orgasm even with Oral. I hate to advise him much because I'm afraid it'll hurt his ego that his skills is poor. And I avoid telling him of my past experiences. His foreplay is unskilled and instead of making me feel aroused at my sensitive "areas" It tickles and soon after, it becomes numb. I tried subtle hints not to concentrate in one area too long but he does not get the hint. What can I do?

2007-05-03 17:41:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is not advisable, but why should both go on being unhappy when there's a chance they could do something about it?

2007-05-03 17:10:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a newly wed of 4 months though my husband and I have been together for nearly 5 years....in that 5 years 80% of the time we go out it is typically me, my husband and his best friend...it used to never really bother me, but it seems that now that we are married my husband wants to spend even more time with him. I work 1st shift he works 3rd..with his best friend...he comes over to our house in the am and they watch movies and when the weekend comes, plans have already been made to go out..all three of us! They have even talked about buying a duplex. I love my husband and I like his friend, but when ever I say something to my hub about his bud or me being a 3rd wheel he always makes me feel guilty by saying..."he doesn't have any family" "I'm his only real good friend" He doesn't have a girl friend" this guy has not had a gf in the 5 years that I have been with my hub..not even been on a date!! I dont think I would be this angry if he had a gf that I could hang with. HELP ME!!

2007-05-03 16:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Dedoe 1

I'm in love with a man from 1/2 way across the country and I don't know what to do.
He could give me a nice life, minus my kids for the most time.
He is everything I have ever wanted.
My soul mate.
DO i run, and break some hearts, or stay, and keep all around me happy, and me not happy.
I want to be free to fly to him.
I want to see what life would be like with him.
What do you thinK?

2007-05-03 16:55:10 · 14 answers · asked by itmdjp 1

Here is the story, the husband is out of town for 3 weeks at a time (sometimes more), when he comes home it is only Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. He knows that you have needs, and wants you to be happy, so he tells you that as long as he (the hubby) comes first, and that it is just sex (with the other guy), go ahead and have fun the husband will not get mad, and the husband is not having sex with another woman. Would you have sex with another man? By the way this is the husband asking.

2007-05-03 16:48:32 · 39 answers · asked by stress 1

I get paid by weekly, my wife works for tips( SO SHE HAS CASH DAILY), we make a good living together. I hand her my whole check , she buys me cigs, cologne , fills my car with gas, pays the bills, get the kids what they need,everything I need, but I cannot get her to understand how it feels to walk around without even 5 bucks in your pocket, any advice? And don't get me wrong I appreciate everything she does.

2007-05-03 16:47:13 · 15 answers · asked by no cigarette money 1

My husband works 20 hrs a week and doesn't help pay any bills. He uses his money on basically whatever he wants. I've yelled and screamed and cried to him about how unfair this is. I've never had to worry about bills before and now I'm just at a loss. We've only been married for 2 months and I'm about ready to throw him out. I love him very much and am IN love with him. I truly care about him and know that he really doesn't have any where to go and with the job he has he doesn't have many options. He's been really distant lately and mean at times too. He's really changed and I'm not sure that I want this anymore. Please someone tell me, what would YOU do?

2007-05-03 16:41:44 · 21 answers · asked by pcchocoholic 3

he accually tells me the truth (or at least i think he is) but in a very sarcastic way so that i can never tell when hes lying. like i would ask him "are you cheating on me right now?" he would say yes! with at least 20 women. and i can never tell if hes lying or not even when hes telling the truth. i told him that i was onto him about that but that just makes him do it more. i dont understand how someone can love another person and intentualy confuse them like this

2007-05-03 16:38:51 · 14 answers · asked by ~testube Jebus~ 4

IF YOU HAD A MAN THAT RESPECTS YOU AND LOVES YOU THE WAY YOU ARE. AND TELLS YOU EVERYDAY HE LOVES YOU. WOULD YOU UP AND LEAVE HIM BECAUSE HE IS TOO NICE OR WOULD YOU STICK BY HIS SIDE NO MATTER WHAT ?

2007-05-03 16:32:55 · 13 answers · asked by david_willams2000 1

3rd DUI plus other stuff, so he will be gone, and even more gone, since I just filed for divorce. She is mad enough now, as it is. I told her at first he was on a business trip. Now what? He was fired too. Just keeps getting better. Now we have two houses in foreclosure. YIKES.

2007-05-03 15:49:38 · 19 answers · asked by Stella 2

my wife begged me to have a baby with her after we got married. i told her i wasn't ready. she took matters into her own hands (stopped taking her birth control). now she's pregnant. she should be happy. she's miserable and wants an abortion. After all that bugging me to have a kid and all the fights over it! Now she wants to get rid of it! I'm thinking she freaking cheated on me and ill know once it's born. why else would a married women not want a child with her husband after bitching to him about it forever???

2007-05-03 15:39:05 · 13 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1

2007-05-03 15:35:26 · 5 answers · asked by b.RATKE 1

WELL ITS LIKE 1 TIME I CALLED HE FROM WORK AND ALL I WAS HEARING WAS {GIRLS} RIGHT,SO I HUNG UP THE PHONE.LIKE HES DOING ****.

2007-05-03 15:28:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-03 15:26:46 · 6 answers · asked by tazman266 1