Marriage & Divorce - 29 April 2007

2007-04-29 23:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love her very much,but i'm getting tired of always having to make the first move.We've been married 8 years now,I don't think it's because she'to shy.Any suggestions?

2007-04-29 23:41:02 · 19 answers · asked by 8seconds 2

I like this woman at work and she is married. What should i do??

2007-04-29 23:35:15 · 12 answers · asked by Wayne 3

He was my world.

2007-04-29 23:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by Kendra H 2

My ex got his own bussiness but hi is saying hi is not geting any $.

2007-04-29 23:12:26 · 8 answers · asked by jofenixone 1

My ex got his own bussiness but hi is saying hi is not geting any $.

2007-04-29 23:11:50 · 4 answers · asked by jofenixone 1

His phone, laptop now have passwords, he is abusive ,verbally and some times phisically and very demanding no thank you no please, as if he just hates me. He never used to be like this

2007-04-29 23:06:14 · 14 answers · asked by Crocky 1

2007-04-29 21:35:50 · 18 answers · asked by MEENAKSHI KALA 1

I LOVE A GIR L WHO IS MY CUSINE. NOW SHE GOT MERRIED. WHE REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER FROM MORE THAN 6 YEARS NOW. THERE IS NO SEXUAL ATTRACTION IN US WHE JUST LOVE EACH OTHE FROM SOUL. AFTER HER MERRIED I DONT WANT TO DISTURB HER MERRIED LIFE BECAUSE SHE NOT MINE ANY MORE BUT WE LOVE EACH OTHER ENDLESSLY STILL . I KNOW THAT WE WELL NEVER MEET AGAIN . WHT SHULD I DO . PLZ HELP ME

2007-04-29 21:32:01 · 13 answers · asked by yourloving18 1

i've been going regularly to a night club alone, due to my husbands' encouragement, he's a lot older, works long hours, and wants me to have a life. there is this chap who's similar age, who works there, we became friends, he's a widower, he's fallen in love with me, gave me a red rose, written poetry. he knows i'm married, respects that, and is happy being friends, on his night off, which is once a month, i spent the evenings with him at the club, chatting, dancing and cuddling, he's tactile like me, whereas my husband isn't, i've tried talking to my husband that i need to feel more wanted. i know he loves me, as he shows it and tells me, but he's not a huggy type, and i've always been insecure and need more hugs, he's happy having little or none, i know it's a problem i have to deal with, as my husband says he is what he is, he's not the easiest person to discuss things with, and takes it as an attack on him, however nicely its said.

2007-04-29 21:15:48 · 9 answers · asked by chakra girl 7

Thanks all. If it was just fun and sex why would he want to spend his life with me? He could just go out with me and have some fun without even committing. By the way I never talk about marriage or something like that with him and even avoid such talks. But he would always talk like he would wish to have kids with me and travel places etc. He says he will never find a girl like me, funny, smart, sexy and beautiful. I love him but never show enough to him.
We both had partners before of course. He said he was loyal to his previous gf.
I had men committed to me as well. But didn't want as it seemed to be early or I wasn't sure. I consider about it this serious now, because I love him, and i reached age 29, where I realised I should marry someone I love.

2007-04-29 21:12:19 · 14 answers · asked by coco_80 1

My husband and I were having an argument about his married brother. I have never cursed at his brother or any of his family member ( I might have called his brother irresponsable, impolite but I never said things like he is a basta** etc). My family, on the other hand always shows love and respect to my husband. So, while we were having this fight about his brother being irresponsible, out of the blue, my husband called my sister a bitc*. When all my sister has been is respectful towards him. I thought he said that to make me mad but it was completely uncalled for since I never cursed his brother even though his brother is sometimes disrespectful towards me. This fight happened two days ago and we are fine now but the problem is that whenever I remember that my husband called my sister a bitc*, I feel a little angry. Is it ok for me to feel a little angry at this even though the fight is over now but I never cursed at his family member ever during a fight with him???

2007-04-29 21:08:16 · 19 answers · asked by cutey 1

She has undergone IVF,failed completely,boy was borned in 8th month has died.Doctors has said that she is not fit for giving birth again,if she goes for another time she will die.
.She dn't even respect my family members,she is behaving like a monster,so i call her father send her father home.Please suggest me.I dn't want to divorse her,but want to go for 2nd marraige.Please suggest me with great soultion to my problem.

2007-04-29 20:43:35 · 26 answers · asked by Srinivas Rao A 1

2007-04-29 20:40:12 · 15 answers · asked by happinezz 2

im 31yrs of age.my husband cheated on me to a 20yr.old,single,virgin b****!...my husband is good looking,he's 2 yrs older than me,but he look young in his age.we're in the process of fixing our marriage.my husband admitted he fell in love to that girl..,but he cant accept to suffer our marriage just because of her.,i know he's physically attracted & she's younger than me.,my husband is the first guy in her life,,,i know eventhough my husband is with me,i can feel he miss her..& i know in times we're making luv..he thinks her.,,its very hurting!!!i tried to be good in bed.,but its not enough,i can feel it.pls help me,,i'm not beautiful,i feel dump,insecure!!!help me to regain the love & affection of my husband.

2007-04-29 20:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by shannel d 1

Thanks all. The problem is how would his and my parents react and most important what will happen in time? I never got married with the reason I never believed men could be loyal to women. Or in other words I will be so hurt if someone I gave my heart deceives me (never experienced it and try to keep myself away from such things). I love him, but I don't believe there is a forever love. What happens when he is bored with me or vice versa? I am really confused.

2007-04-29 20:10:24 · 16 answers · asked by coco_80 1

As many have seen my questions before; my marriage hasn't been the best. I have been maried for 8 yrs now with 3 little ones and one on the way in 2 weeks. We wanted to have children however, I didn't think I would be doing this on my own. Since the past 2 years, we sort of live seperate lives and I am to the point I can't really stand to touch him.
To make it shorter, I want to leave but we have mainly been together because of financial trouble. We both don't make much together as it is and I am terrrified that I will fail alone. I have tried and failed once before. I have just graduated as a Medical Assistant and want to further my ed as a RN or Speech Pathologist as soon as I am able to after the baby. However, I want to get out of this marriage soon. Does anyone have any advice? And please be nice, remember I'm preggers and very emotional. Thank You!

2007-04-29 20:07:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

The mother of my two children is involved with someone else and is planning on moving to another state within the next few weeks. I see an invitation to death standing in front of me...please help me!!!

2007-04-29 20:06:14 · 10 answers · asked by briansmithem 1

i am from mumbai , my marriage date is 11/03/2007

2007-04-29 19:42:32 · 7 answers · asked by vksmht 1

2007-04-29 19:40:45 · 13 answers · asked by Shandlan 4

okay my husband is all way looking at porn and that's fine but lately we have not been having sex the time was in march.he looks at it them does not want to have sex with me he says that i do not turn him on so i went out and bought some sexy clothes and underwear, i took dirty pic's and have tried seducing him but still nothing i have been told that i am good looking and hot some even say sexy, but still nothing will work for my husband, he has lied to me before about some stuff, talking with girls, etc.. and i do not know what to do, could he be cheating?is he just not happy with the way i lokk? he wants me to get breast implants and i said i would but should i i'm a large c cup and i work out all the time so i'm in shape, why does he not want to have sex with me?what am i doing wrong, how can i make him see the porn is a problem now?i have tried to talk to him but he says i'm over reacting, and it's not true, he will not see my side, so i need advise, i need to make him see it is a.

2007-04-29 19:19:55 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs. CuTT 3

i am working away from home now and my last communication w/ my husband was a day b4 i left.but b4 this, there are already alot of problems between us( specifically financial) were 7 yaers now but he was never a good provider and supportive to our kid in all aspect., but i try to deal with it and do things on it for us to be a whole family but he' s not doing his part w/c i think is unfair.b4 i leave i ask hium to see and visit the kids once in a while( i leave them to my parents ) but still he didn't do anything even going to school to check them and all...now we don't have anycommunication. ( am 2 years away from home now) i will b home in a couple of months and i am planning to get separated from him totally, the fact that he's not doing his job as a father/ husband so i yhink its no use to have him....need ur advice. am turning 27 and so is he

2007-04-29 19:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by twinx 1

It will take some time, but eventually we will be debt free. Unfortunately, my husband is one of those people who sees something and has to have it there and then. I've been really trying to get through to him, but nothing seems to be working.

I've tried the scare tactic (by showing him how far in debt we really are), but he instead goes out and spends even more money (like he's in denial...oh dear). I've tried reverse psych by pretending its not that bad, but that doesn't work either.

I've tried making him responsible by getting him to look after bills, but he'll skip payments so that he can buy what he wants instead. I've tried taking control of all the money and giving him an "allowance", but he then borrows money off friends, so we end up having to pay them back!

ARRGGGH! If anyone has any advice or has been in a similar situation your thoughts would be appreciated!

2007-04-29 19:19:00 · 6 answers · asked by Moneta 4

Now this is totally anonymous so tell the truth....reason I ask is because it seems like all guys cheat. Not only in my life but my friends and co workers tell me about their problems....are there any good guys left?

If you did cheat and still loved the girl you were in a relationship with, what made you cheat? Did you regret it? Would you do it again if you knew you would not get caught?

2007-04-29 18:47:15 · 23 answers · asked by Angel girl 4

Ok, to start, my husband and I have dated for 4 years, been married for one. We are VERY happy together and love each other very much. He is older then I am, buy 13 years. We both are family oriented people and we want a baby so bad. We've been trying since we got married and got pregnant twice actually. Unfortunately both pregnancies ended in miscarriage. Since then we have both been check out & my OB gave me a hormone pill to kind of "help things along." I started taking them last month, with no luck. May 16 is my 21st birthday and my family and hubby all want to take me out to celebrate. Drinking, ect. But if I do that, then we will have to take a month of from trying, since I would be drinking. So i'm torn on what to do. Of corse a baby is more important than drinking, but everyone is like its your 21st, you should take a break and have fun! I don't want to wait to have a baby for a few reasons. My hubbys age is one, plus I want this so bad. Any opinons/advice would be great!

2007-04-29 18:39:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married recently under special marriage act in maharashtra and got it nullified after 4 days . Now, I've a doubt about the validity of the whole process . How can a couple nullify there marriage without giving notice for some time period ? Now, we want to live together but dont know how to proceed , can we cancel our marriage cancellation (or is it divorce?) or do we need to again give the notice for 30 days and remarry with each other ?

- Thanks ,
Veena .

2007-04-29 18:15:55 · 5 answers · asked by qajiny 1

2007-04-29 18:06:51 · 11 answers · asked by katherine h 1

i am married for past 12 years..i was too young and innocent at the time of marriage.I am shy kid , brought up at remote places.After mariage, he had a relationship with maid , when asked...said that it was a mistake...later on had many affairs when he was out of country....now got a message which says that he already married some other girl and has a kid....which he is denying......plzzzzz help...what to do....????

2007-04-29 17:59:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will it affect our next generation ?
I am jain, i love one girl from our caste ,her mothers family surname and my mothers family surname is same?
now i was was not knowng her untill i met her , she is not related to me , yet everyone is sayng it will be like brother sister marriage! also people talk about genetic problems due to blood relation . we dont dnt know in which generation we were related ! so how can we be blood relatives? please help me out

2007-04-29 17:39:10 · 9 answers · asked by joey 1

Hey ya'll! I really need some help with this! My 5th anniversary is in December and my husband dosen't take me on dates or do anything special. He has no imagination and I am tired of being the wife, mother, manager and student. He dosen't cook, hates to clean but is improving in that area. What can I do?

2007-04-29 17:25:33 · 16 answers · asked by mrskj007 2