Now this is totally anonymous so tell the truth....reason I ask is because it seems like all guys cheat. Not only in my life but my friends and co workers tell me about their problems....are there any good guys left?
If you did cheat and still loved the girl you were in a relationship with, what made you cheat? Did you regret it? Would you do it again if you knew you would not get caught?
2007-04-29 18:47:15 · 23 answers · asked by Angel girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It amazes me that ALL of these guys answering, at least all most all say they have been faithful always...YES I am aware women cheat also, it is no big secret but it is just funny to see how everyone is soooo faithful all the sudden. Where were all these faithful guys when I was dating? Hmmm just curious....However yahoo is nationwide so it really does not say a whole lot because these men are prob few and far between if they are being truthful.
If you guys are telling the truth...I think it is great and gives me a little, just a little hope in running into one of you one day.
2007-05-01 16:02:33 · update #1
I've cheated on every girlfriend I've been with (four total), except for my current girlfriend.
I don't think all guys cheat but I believe that a vast majority do, at least once in their life.
I did love one of the girlfriend's I cheated on and sincerely regretted doing what I did. To this day, I continually ask myself why did I cheat on my girlfriends in the past. I know in high school it was probably because I lacked maturity and also because I thought it was cool to cheat. I wanted to get props (respect) from my boys (I know that sounds very stupid, but its the truth) The girl that I loved and cheated on, happened in college. I have rationalized that the reason I cheated on her was because I was drunk. However, I know when I think about it, that I could have stopped myself. As for whether I would do it again, I hate to say it, but I probably would. Temptation is just a mother ******!
Ironically, I've been with my current girlfriend for over three years (by far my longest relationship) and I haven't ever cheated on her. I constantly ask myself why is it different this time? I think its because this girl is different. She really makes me feel loved. I don't have to question whether she cares about me because I already know. Finally, the biggest thing is probably the intimacy. This girl satisfies all of my sexual yearnings and has kept me satisfied every single day. I know that might seem shallow but I honestly believe that great sex is a major part of a successful relationship. In my case it has kept me from straying.
2007-04-29 18:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see this is a myth that people have come up with against all guys, i have been with my wife for 10 years, im 26 and have never cheated, never had sex with another female and wouldnt, i have had tons of chances but its not worth it, i love my wife very much, and our two little girls, she treats me right and i try to do the same, most guys cheat because ladies choose the wrong guy, most ladies/girls/woman go for the good looking or popular or the guy that stands out but never notice the guy thats always waiting, thats the guy that will always love you, thats the guy that will give you everything to make you happy.
2007-04-29 18:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by havenx_23 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated, but have been cheated on. There is no easy answer to why I don't with the exception that I value honesty above all else. If I did cheat, I would never forgive myself. Greater still is that I couldn't hurt anyone even if I was mad at them. If this were the case then I would end the relationship. No sense in pouring salt in the wound and sacrificing my dignity.
2007-04-29 18:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by bobble242 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated when I was in a relationship,Hun. My ex-wife saw no problem with having a boyfriend on the side,however,when I was still driving an 18 wheeler.
I know it seems like all males cheat....but it ain't so.
From my side of the aisle,it seems like all females have boyfriends or have no interest in a true,fulfilling,Godly relationship..but I know that's just an illusion.
So..Let not your heart be troubled...there are still some "good ones" out there..........somewhere......
2007-04-29 19:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question.. I just got broken up w/ after 3 yrs of living together recently because she thought I was cheating. I never did and come to find out it was her cheating, not me. So there are definately better guys around!!
2007-04-29 19:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by groceboy420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but ALL MEN DON"T CHEAT, I have been i three long term relations and never cheated. I was cheated on twice so if you want to go that route , 2/3 off all woman are cheaters.
2007-04-30 06:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated, but i know some people who have. A lot of the time it's just a test to themselves to see if the girl their with is right. if that makes sense.
and your friends and co-workers problem is...
They have bad guys.
2007-04-29 18:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by tsailor40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are relationships where I haven't cheat and have. I'm not proud that I done what I've don but things happen sometimes not like you want them. And females cheat too ya'll just better with it.
2007-04-29 19:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Young Vito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 1955, 25% of women and 50% of men cheated..
In 2005, 75% of women and 50% of men cheated..
Birth control & feminism have freed the inner woman...
Not all men cheat..
I have never cheated..
Beneath my character & integrity...
2007-04-29 19:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. But as soon as i was cheated on i havent since. sad but true. Its easier to go ahead and cheat then to be faithful only to find out she cheated.
2007-04-29 18:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋