Marriage & Divorce - 25 April 2007

it was because he felt like she would do anything he wanted sexually, he could just read people.yeah right, obv she did.he has always been one to talk dirty during sex about me being with another woman or having sex with another man he watches,found out he jerked off while i was at work the other day. come to find out these are things he really wants is he oversexed, sex addict or what?

2007-04-25 23:36:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I handle this if I find out he really has been lying? What if this IS the truth, but it is the only truth among many lies? This is just the only potential lie I can verify.

2007-04-25 23:23:06 · 12 answers · asked by dana 2

I think my wife is smoking hot, but she thinks she's fat. Other people try to tell her she's not, but she doesn't listen. Anyway, we're going on vacation to the beach this summer, and I would love for her to wear the bikini she wore on our honeymoon, but she doesn't think she'd look good in it. Any suggestions on how to convince her?

2007-04-25 22:29:29 · 16 answers · asked by 123321abc 1

we had an arranged marriage , evrything is good.. we are friends..but thats..the point..iv felt as friend and not lovers .
been married since long 7 years ... is there anything i can do?

2007-04-25 21:58:58 · 3 answers · asked by barley 2

2007-04-25 21:14:26 · 22 answers · asked by stand o u t 1

Iam married for 3 yrs .After one year of my marriage I started going for a job.My husband was not having any savings infact not even a bank A/c.Before marriage when I asked him he told that he is having some savings. But after marriage only I came to know the above fact. Then I adjusted I started going for a job and I started doing a little of savings. Ofcourse he has got bit of property . He was getting less salary then. He withdrew money from my a/c using my ATM card once without my knowledge . I shouted at him for doing it without my knowledge after that again he did the same thing he withdrew nearly Rs.10,000/- from my A/c. In the year 2005 he lost his job and he pledged my jewels and his jewels without my knowledge and at last I cam to know and I made an issue and atlast I only repaid the debt of Rs.30,000/- some how. After that I got him a job and he started going after that again he withdrew money from my A/c and cooly told that he has not done it .

2007-04-25 20:39:40 · 39 answers · asked by janu 1

the number is 04842456847.Am tulsi.I am leaving this city next month.I dont think I'll get this net service if I go out.Please i want to get the address quickly.please can anyone help me??
I cant go to the telephone exchange also.If I lose this opportunity for finding address I'll lose the person itself.

2007-04-25 19:01:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have been in a serious relationship with a man and one of his female friends put you down and was very defensive towards you, but now your man won't tell her she was in the wrong. What would you do?

2007-04-25 18:52:57 · 14 answers · asked by Nikki 4

I know this is a mature topic but I was wondering, when does the amount of porn you watch cross the line from ok to obsessive and too much. I find myself coming across some, (nothing gross or weird or anything) every once in a while (once or twice a week). I could even cut this number down, if I wasnt forced to be on my computer like all day typing my final papers this week and studying my notes on my computer. But what do you guys think?

2007-04-25 18:23:49 · 8 answers · asked by sec543 1

2007-04-25 17:59:16 · 32 answers · asked by niha68 1

Hi all, I need your advice what I should do: move on or continue?

I fell in love with a married woman who has a very unhappy marriage. Her husband disrepects her and treats like a free servant. Here are some examples: her husband force her to be the only one in family responsible for cooking everyday, but himself never cooks. Her husband force her to admit faults which is not hers. Her hsband told her to find way enjoying herself becasue he can't spend time with her. Her husband asks her to take care of herself because he is busy. Her husband ask her to abort their child 3 times because he think they don't have enough money(in fact they have more 2 million chinese yuan in bank account).

She is unhappy, and she fell in love with me. However, she felt guilty to leave her husband, not wanting to hurt him. So she decided to end our relationship even if she loves me. What should I do? continue to keep contacting her or should I move on my life? I know she still loves me. Please help!

2007-04-25 17:02:34 · 48 answers · asked by need_advice 2

I was in a relationship for 15 yrs (common-law) had 2 children by him we bought a home togerther. Now we are seperated I. I just want to know what can I do to keep him away and to stay with the house? Does anyone know rather if I would stay with our home? I just want to stay in our home cause he makes alot of money on a weekly basises and I dont make much at my job versus him and I'm also going to school as well. Anyone know of any websites of family law and sooo forth..

2007-04-25 16:27:22 · 7 answers · asked by liontiver1992 2

i returned home in 2001 to our 35y/o family 2flat. my mom is sickly but very strong willed. i am the most dependable child of her 3 children and i am the youngest. im a single young mom of a 17 and 8 year old. my fiancee will be returning home from the service in 4 months and soon will get married. my mom has refinanced our home a couple times and she is almost max out of her equity.last yr she found herself regrettfully getting into a adjustable rate and now trying to get out of it. im new to this mortgage game(she is very secretive)and im now in my thirties playing catch up. i pay rent and i provide other resources of money to help her get by but she still wants more money. she doesnt want to rent my apartment for fear of unreliable tenant, she doesnt want me to live with her,she feels i am not tidy enough..i want to move my kids out this neighborhood. but i dont want to leave my mom alone.i tried to get her to sell .i still have to have ask to wash clothes and use the garage!!!

2007-04-25 15:45:25 · 9 answers · asked by JAYE 1

These past two days I have been extremely hormonal and irrational. My boyfriend understands that I get like this before and during the first couple days of my period. Tonight I must have sounded like a lunatic. I snapped at him over stupid things and when our conversation was over I felt really really bad. I decided to say, "Look...Just bear with me for the next two days. I'm sorry. I just listened to myself and I sound ridiculous.." I just had a miscarriage a month ago so my body is still balancing out my hormones, which makes it even worse. Anyway, do you think I should carry on tomorrow as if I'm fine? Should I throw in another apology or would that seem like I'm dwelling on it and still being irrational? See...I told you I'm emtional....

2007-04-25 15:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont care if we watch it together. Otherwise im not for it. I dont watch it. Its might just be my pregnancy hormones. But he mixed his own video too.

2007-04-25 15:31:59 · 40 answers · asked by ~desi~ 2

I really like this guy from India, and we want to be together here is the USA forever. How can he get permission or whatever to come to the USA to stay forever? What does he need to do and how much will it cost? Can anyone help me?

2007-04-25 15:28:53 · 5 answers · asked by TTC#2 4

we have to kidds.he spend every dalloer he has, and dosent care of bring anything home

2007-04-25 15:11:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

she talks bad about me to everyone, doesn't respect me, doesn't remember the mean things she's said to me. tells me things like she's horny but doesn't want to have sex with me. I tell her if it's so bad why doesn't she just get the hell out but she's still here!!!! why won't she pull the trigger and leave me?
does she secretly want to be with me. If so she has an odd way of showing it. nothing i do helps with her. if i'm nice, she's a *****. if i'm cold to her, she's a *****. why would she stay? would you women want to stay if you treated your husband like this? it's like she's purposely trying to destroy the marriage but then won't freaking leave. leaving for me isn't a possibility. it's my house and i have two kids from a previous marriage.by the way she also suffers from mild depression and apparently according to her i'm the cause.

2007-04-25 15:05:05 · 39 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1

Have you ever noticed that most relationships (friends / lovers or Mairrages) all seem to have a natural expiry date, you know when the milk goes from sweet, to slighly off to BAD?

2007-04-25 15:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by Hootie J 5

Why is it that men who are married, watch porn when their wifes leave the home and do you know what, by themselves? They're married!!!! why do they feel like they need to look at other women when they have one at home. Isn't easier to tell their wives what they want and let the wife do it for them....
why do they even get married if they're going to be doing that.
WHY????? It's not true they do it out of boredom because they quickly run to the internet as soon as the wife leaves.

2007-04-25 13:59:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have this problem from the very first day of our marriage. He gets very upset when I call him for any good reason. He thinks I am checking on him. We had a big fight and we are not talking. What can I do?

2007-04-25 13:49:08 · 62 answers · asked by Tamchi 2

My husband was diagnosed with a brain tumor over two years ago. He has since been under surgery and treatment. He is a very fortunate survivor. Yet, he is very degrading and negligent in meeting my need. However, he always has been. He continues to use his brain tumor as his crutch in why he is not respectful and unwilling to fulfill my needs. I have been nothing less than supportive throughout this ordeal. Is it fair for me to go without a loving relationship because of his misfortunate ordeal?

2007-04-25 13:42:12 · 29 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 3

seems like they love to control everything. what do they want though? do they really want to control or do they want a man to stand up to them? they don't seem happy with either and when I stand up to my wife she usually throws a temper tantrum and threatens this and that. sometimes she follows through. so what do you controlling women want?

2007-04-25 13:39:42 · 19 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1

my husbund cheated on me before with a woman.i forgive him cause i was pregnant.now he invited her to our son's birthday cause her husband is the boss of my husband.he also invited them to dinner in easter and they invited us to lunch next day i told him before i don't like to be with them but he insists.and now as i'm so happy of my baby's first birthday he told me he will invite them i also told him plz don't but he insists what can i do? i'm really thinking of divorce they became part of our family by force.also she is so rude and she trys to make me nervous.plzzzzzzzzz help

2007-04-25 13:39:33 · 23 answers · asked by lola 3

im so in love with this girl i would do anything for her...but it just seems to be she's playing with my emotions...or thats just how i feel..but then there's times i dont know what to think...and i know that she has a girlfriend but she says she doesnt love her and that im the one she wants to be with...but every time i turn around she's either on the phone with this girl or all up in her face...and i feel like a dumb *** for staying...but im in love with her....please help...do i jus leave...and not give her a chance to leave this girl alone for good...or should i just pack up and not say anything to her ever again?i need help

2007-04-25 13:27:17 · 1 answers · asked by chew 2

2007-04-25 12:50:34 · 39 answers · asked by Ken J 2

Okay so I have been married for 4 years & we have been together for 8 years all together. I have never really been the working type & he knew that, well after we moved away from our hometown I got a job and kept it for a little over 2 yrs which was a first. Well 2 years ago we had a baby together, then I kept on working till up to 8 months ago. He told me I could stay home just as long as I keep his house clean and take care of our daughter which is understandable. Well I take care of our daughter & I clean the house up. I don't keep it spotless or anything but I try to keep it looking at least half way nice. Well now he is telling me that I'm not doing worth a damn at cleaning his house & all that stuff. So now for the last 3 days he has been ignoring me unless it's about his work or our daughter and today I asked him to show me some love and he said I didn't deserve it. I asked him if he still loved me & he said I'm just a stay at home mom for his daughter. What can I do to fix this?

2007-04-25 12:39:38 · 33 answers · asked by T 6

My wife and I have been married for five years. After a couple years worth of ups and downs and an inability to communicate effectively through what I think are some pretty normal marital problems, my wife decided a couple of months ago that she wanted a divorce. The decision came on the heels of a seemingly insignificant argument. We have gone to counseling only a couple of times and we have briefly lived separately which really amounted to me being home all the time, but sleeping somewhere else; not a whole lot changed – this is the extent of our therapy. My wife is adamant that she wants this divorce and will seek no further therapy, advice, or anything that would suggest the contrary; she also refuses a stricter trial separation to really test the waters. We have a 3 year old son and I’m trying to avoid this from happening but believe its now out of my hands. I’ve tried to amicably hash out a separation agreement and she is trying to secure a refinance on our house but I think she’s sort of dragging her feet. She got really upset the other night when we were talking about how we would divide our belongings. Oddly, if the subject doesn’t come up, watching us you would never know we were seriously contemplating divorce. Except for there being no outward affection everything is normal and we get along fine. I’m really concerned about how well she has thought this through and if her feelings could change once the ink dries, which I think, is likely to happen. She recently turned 33 and I believe she is having a premature mini mid-life crisis which plays some role in this decision. She’s at the point where she does not want the daily responsibilities of being a wife, mother, etc. She would rather be shopping, dinning, or partying to the sun comes up with friends.

I’ve been an outstanding husband and father and have really gone through a lot of grief standing idly by, taking care of my son, while she’s pursuing what makes her happy (above), but feel in my heart that if she thought this through she would see it’s not our only alternative, with help we could overcome this. Unfortunately I have not been able to rule out an emotional (maybe more) attachment elsewhere, can’t be sure. Talking to her has gotten me nowhere; she’s very proud (especially with me) and half the time she says A but really means B. She has expressed concerns to her friends that have gotten back to me and although it made me feel better knowing she still had some feelings, these concerns weren’t show stoppers. What would be the best course of action right now? Should I kill her with kindness and love and see if I can’t clear up some of her confusion in a good way? Should I make it easy for her to proceed with a divorce? Should I sit tight and I wait it out? Is she confused as to what she really wants or am I kidding myself? Anyone out there who regretted their decision to divorce? Do any women even identify? I need some advice!

2007-04-25 12:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by Ryan 1

2007-04-25 12:16:18 · 15 answers · asked by MEME 1

i just got married in january, to man that i have known for 8 months before, but love him very much, hes a good man to me and loves me too. we got married and spent a our honeymoon together in egypt, i came back to the US and hes still there working out some things before he makes his move with me here. since ive been back ive been talkin to my ex boyfriend, we were together for 4 years and i was madly in love with him, hes so different than my husband, and he loves me more than ever now, we had broken up because he didnt want to commit. but now regrets it. we were just friends and talkin off and on, and then last night we me up for some coffee in the evening and ended up having sex in the back of my car. i feel horrible and i havent told my husband ofcourse, my ex is now more attached to me, and i want him too but i cant have him, hes tryin to convince me of leaving my husband, but i cant do that to him either. please help i want to save my marriage what should i do?!

2007-04-25 12:13:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous