Marriage & Divorce - 25 April 2007

2007-04-25 06:36:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been feeling lonely for a couple of months. I have alot of drama in my life. I want to sit down and talk to my husband he just put things under the carpet. I tried from making myself sexy then feeling unsexy because it don't go as plan. I'm not in love with him anymore. what should i do?

2007-04-25 06:35:41 · 15 answers · asked by kimi21 1

I have a friend who is a married woman and has lots of guy friends (who are single). Her husband throws a fit if she goes to dinner alone with a guy friend. He thinks it's ok for them to have lunch together but not dinner. That seems old fashioned to me. What do you all think?

2007-04-25 06:34:20 · 25 answers · asked by bluvw 3

I have been seeing a man who lives 90 min. away for 4 mos. - we see each other on wknds sometimes. There is no commitment or I love you's or anything like that.but we have been friends for years.

I got asked out by a man close to where I live and felt weird about going since I was really unsure about the status of our relationship so I just told him that I was feeling weird about turning this other guy down since I doubted he was doing the same. He ended up coming and spending the weekend (just the 2 of us for the first time).

On the last day, he randomly said he didn't hook up with any women, then asked who asked me out, I told him and he sort of grudginly said I could go....at which point I told him I wasn't asking for his permission, I just wanted to be honest. So it ended there and everything was fine.

Then on the way home I told him I had asked him because I knew we were just friends w/ ben. so to speak and he seemed offended by this. What in the name of God is going on?

2007-04-25 06:28:05 · 12 answers · asked by Clarissa 4

She always calls me snake. When I ask her why she calls me that, she just grins.

2007-04-25 06:22:59 · 21 answers · asked by sxycpl4ya 1

sometimes i think i don't want to get married.
#1 because i don't want to get a divorce
#2 i appreciate being independent

2007-04-25 06:16:58 · 12 answers · asked by absolutbianca 3

He has a good job and makes a very good living- he says that the only reason he's living with her is because the house is now in his name and he needs to "protect his investment". I think that's bullsh-- because he lived with her BEFORE the house was in his name.
Personality wise, he's very cocky and arrogant. Say's he's got a fantastic life- and from many perspectives I guess he does. He has someone to cook for him, etc. He says he needs to care for her.....And yet I find him strangely attractive. Advice?

2007-04-25 06:10:48 · 3 answers · asked by Sara B. 3

she is 20/21 and mine is 28...

2007-04-25 06:01:35 · 46 answers · asked by Faiz K 1

Don't they get urges ?

2007-04-25 06:00:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-25 05:58:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well we all know its adultery in the eyes of the law, but is it cheating?

2007-04-25 05:32:56 · 43 answers · asked by Toogsie 4

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=dd7_1175522169

2007-04-25 05:29:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to ask at this time because he doesn't so much like to talk about his problems.

2007-04-25 05:10:06 · 8 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1

2007-04-25 05:09:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is 5 ft 4" Petite with a hottest curves on a body. I married her and now she weighs 200 lbs and looks like Godzilla.

2007-04-25 05:07:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-25 05:05:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes you fall inlove with someone buy they come with kids.what if they don,t like you,then what can one do?

2007-04-25 04:54:33 · 28 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3

I am completely in love with (and in lust with) a guy at my workplace. He is married and I have it on reliable info that his marriage is not on solid ground. I dont want to throw myself at him like a floozy but I want to make it clear that I am very available to him. I need to get his attention before he gets divorced and someone else beats me to the goodies. I am ready to dump my current boyfriend in a heartbeat for this guy if he will only make his move. I know he watches me and likes what he sees, but he is very proper at work and just wont make the move.
How do I get him to make his move? I can feel the sexual tension between us and I know he wants to.

2007-04-25 04:38:05 · 2 answers · asked by misty_ghostdancer_1 1

My wonderful byf is very dedicated to my children & someday we plan marriage. He contributes to the household though he does not live there yet, he eats and sleeps there 75% of the time. Soon my daughter is to attend a 10 day conference in DC (she's 17) & I thought it would be neat to drive down & all of us stay for a weekend. I looked into it & the cost is more then expected & I have the $, but also other things planned with it. I have never asked him for $, he's always just paid or insisted I take it & he's always giving the kids $1 or 2 when they come to me for it. We have discussed finances & he's not rich either - we are both just kind average & we budget. We've also talked about living together and shared finances and we've agreed on what to do there, but the trip was a great idea until I realized how much it would cost & he didn't say anything except "your right, what about...this & that". Would it be wrong to say - would you help pay for the trip so that we could go?

2007-04-25 04:26:16 · 14 answers · asked by martiek7 3

My husband always blames me for making him do what I want to do but it is other way round. It always looks so because I blabber alot and he is quiet even during an argument

2007-04-25 03:40:41 · 16 answers · asked by Isita Koradia 1

he dont call during the week- go to ne dr. appointments or surgery that he has had- dont go to t ball and dont help with ne supporting that he may need - he has already signed the divorce papers and aint even showing up for court because of a warrent

2007-04-25 03:33:05 · 7 answers · asked by spoyledmama 2

As ever it is most informative to find out how real people have solved real situations. So...

I have kids, he has kids; he is the solitary type so not much family involvment is necessary. With me, Im a mom I love and want to interact with my kids. That's not great with him since it takes time from us. What to do. Plus, I can't get over the belief that I have, now that we are married it should be our family, our kids. I would like that, he would not.

Financially, he has 3 times as much money as I. But from the beginning I believe that my money should be his and his mine...isn't that the way it was when we were first married? He feels his money is his, and mine is mine and we should split things. If we were to go combined income he would want to control my spending "you don't need this, too much $ for that." Not a good feeling for a responsible adult.

No question we love each other, I want to know how to feel together when so much seperates us. A mans feelings needed.

2007-04-25 03:32:56 · 4 answers · asked by redford 2

they take very good care of themselves. In the swing lifestyle, there are many women in their 40's that look 30, are very nice, no std's and are usually mid to upper middle class. Many of us men are the same, usually handsome and fit with great careers.

So why do you all slam on swingers so badly when in fact you know nothing about us?

America's divorce rate 50%

Swinger's divorce rate 18%

So, I think swingers have the rest of the population beat in most areas. I think you are all a bunch brainwashed paranoid holy rollers that do not know how to enjoy life.

2007-04-25 03:30:14 · 21 answers · asked by sxycpl4ya 1

I dont know whats wrong with me, I can't stand him in the mornings and when he's at work, and for the first 30 minutes when he gets home, but around supper im fine, but then before bed I dont want to be around him its really weird. We've been married for 3 years now. Have 3 beautiful kids. I love him very much and I don't know what to do.

2007-04-25 03:30:01 · 17 answers · asked by ~Nicole~ 1

2007-04-25 03:28:03 · 35 answers · asked by gene_harden2000 3

i wanna know if this thing is true, i once saw in the page sweden.se that even though there are a lot of myths around swedish persons, it is becoming more acceptable for a married woman to have an "emotional affair" (?) with another man besides her husband as long as she doesn´t have sex with the other guy. Is this true? i mean i´m just curious about it.

2007-04-25 03:24:27 · 7 answers · asked by Max Emmanuel D 3

my husband is always saying to respect him and saying i dnt respect him. what does he mean by respect

2007-04-25 03:23:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

"you are so naive?" i felt insulted when people said that?what makes a person not naive?

2007-04-25 03:20:18 · 7 answers · asked by truth set free 1

he asked if i could keep an eye out on his wife let's just say we have humping like wild dogs since he left , I'M I WRONG? SHE DID COME ON TO ME AFTER ALL ! SHOULD I TELL MY BUDDY HIS WIFE'S A WHORE?

2007-04-25 03:15:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and his two (single) friends are going to florida this weekend for a big birthday bash of one of their friends. I know they'll drink like slobs and there will be drugs and women everywhere. And he asked me if it was okay for him to go, and I said yes, but I really don't want him to go. I mean he's 40 for God sakes, he should have had all this out of his system by now. I really don't want him to go but if I tell him that I'm sure he'll be 1. disappointed and 2. I'll look like an old hag. Damn, I know I'm being silly but I don't want him to go! Tell me something that will make me feel better about this!

2007-04-25 02:59:15 · 25 answers · asked by Nikki B 1