Marriage & Divorce - 25 April 2007

My husband is very edgy with my daughters, 13 & 16. They can ask something as simple as, "when will dinner be ready", and he jumps down their throat, "It'll be ready when it's ready!" He's this way with me too, but I'm used to men being tacky that way. I don't take up for the girls, but he expects me to get onto them, even if I don't agree with him. There are a lot of times, when no one is being hormonal, that they all get along. The last short trip we took was very pleasant even though he expected to be miserable. He always seems to expects the worst. We will have been married one year June 3rd. The second week of June, we're scheduled to go to Branson, which is where we honeymooned, to his condo for a week. He's decided that he's not going, but insists that I have to take the girls because we promised them. I feel that seperate vacations mean the beginning of the end of the marriage. I would feel guilty to go without him. I'm also scared to travel alone. What should I do?

2007-04-25 02:55:45 · 11 answers · asked by Angel L 3

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2007-04-25 02:53:52 · 10 answers · asked by Forest Breeze 2

My Step mom and i got into a big fight about 2 months ago now she will not let my dad be apart of my life he has not called me in 2 months.I miss my dad so much and i dont know what to do. I know he has to respect his wife but i am his daughter and i need him in my life. My dad and i were very close before he married my step mom and very slowly we have moved apart. I feel like i dont even know him anymore. I am a single mom and my daughters father is not involved at all and i cant beleive my father is doing the same thing to us.....it brakes my heart!!! any suggestions?

2007-04-25 02:45:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-04-25 02:44:30 · 12 answers · asked by Forest Breeze 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He is the person I have always seen myself with. He is kind to my family, wants to come to my familyevents like younger siblings soccer games etc, is there for me if I need to talk. He always pays and is a true gentleman. We have had our ups and downs, but there is only one "problem" we have. About a year into our dating, I caught him looking at porn. We talked about it and he said he wouldnt look cause it made me feel upset. About 6 months after that, I found out again he was looking and he said he didnt really think I was serious when I said it last time. A month ago, I caught him looking again. He swore he would stop on his life and his family's life and our relationship. I found out this past week he had ordered a porn package deal online. I dont even care so much about the porn anymore, but his constant lies when I ask if hes looking or whatever. He has lied to my face about this, can I ever trust him?

2007-04-25 02:39:47 · 8 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2

women; so what can i do? i ve kids with him but we live diffrerent countries

2007-04-25 02:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by agatha stevens 1

This is a question for currently married or divorced women. I appreciate your responses. Here is the situation: You have 2 men in your life. One is the guy who you are not sure if he can commit to marriage, but you LOVE him so much, you know he is your best friend and maybe soul mate, but sometimes you have doubts if he can commit. But the love and passion is there and you have known him 5 years. He probably will give you stability, but you have doubts. The second is a guy that you dont' have passionate feelings for, or romantic love, but you know he will give you stability in your life and you more or less like him. You have known him for 8 months. Not love, but you get stability with him.

Your heart tells you the guy you really love, your head maybe the guy who will give you stability. Which guy would you choose to marry?

2007-04-25 02:27:59 · 16 answers · asked by robert7 1

She is turning into her mother and I can not take it anymore. I work 40 a week drill once a month and when I fell like having some time to my self away from her and the kids I get the third degree. she thinks for some dumb reason that I go to strip clubs look for some on the side do not pay any attention to her. Mind you that she is a stay home mom we share the house cleaning jobs kids and everything in a relationship. I let he have hertime and space. She has few and I mean very few friends and she gets mad when I fell like seeing mine or talk to the guys about fishing. what the hell is her problem? I need to be me and that aint happening.

2007-04-25 02:25:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am supposed to be getting married at the End of July. This is a second marriage. I already have two children. I just found out that I am pregnant a couple of weeks. THat means I will be almost 4 months along by the time of the wedding. I am very slim girl, but in late thirties. I don't know if I will be showing yet or not. Should we just elope now and have a party after the baby is born, or would you go ahead with the wedding and hope that I am not showing. We wanted to include the girls, 6 and 8 in our ceremony to make them feel included in the wedding etc. I don't know what to do!!

2007-04-25 02:18:28 · 11 answers · asked by 22marie22 1

Allow me to elaborate. Having been in 3 past abusive relationships (both mentally and physically) myself, I am no stranger to what and how women feel when they are being abused. But what is the issue with getting away? Why can't these women leave these men? Because they "love" their men? No one that beats you loves you. Now, I am not speaking to those women that like to be beaten (and there are some out there), only the ones that don't and are, or were, being beaten.

Do these women actually feel that they can change their men? Do they really think that these men love them? I understand that beating is a disease, and there are classes for such. What I don't understand is how these women are afraid to leave and be on their own.

I spent 2 years in Boston, MA and while up there, EVERY woman I knew (and I am not exagerating) was being beaten by her significant other. What is the deal? Can someone out there give me some answers?

2007-04-25 02:07:11 · 18 answers · asked by swilson_lewis 3

Poll - What is the right thing to do in this situation ?
Husband and I have physical custody of stepdaugher, age 9, because her Mother has been deemed insane by the courts. The Mother exhibits her illness with behavior that is violent, aggressive, abusive with language (to all in her path, not just us), unemployable, paranoid, and in the past, she has been physically violent to others. Several of her own family members have permanent restraining orders against her.
Husband insists that we have a first communion party at a local restaurant for Stepdaughter after the service and that Bio-Mother is to be in attendance with us, and Husband and my extended families. At some point in time over the years, she has cussed out every one of them individually or screamed obscenties or worse to them. I have serious doubts any of my family will attend if she is there. should I participate in this?

2007-04-25 01:53:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I got into a heated conversation yesterday because he feels that its ok to talk to his family and his coworkers about what takes place in our marriage. I feel that "What goes on at home, stays at home." What is your take on this situation?

2007-04-25 01:46:44 · 21 answers · asked by Mom of Three 5

She has made it a point to make a bad situation worse. It has been a long road to recovery with my hubby, but things have been great! He has truley repented for his mistake a always took full responsibility (although the other woman told me she was very persistent with him until he gave in...he was working hundreds of miles from all family and friends for months...and she workd with the same company) and has told me how stupid and selfish he was. He apologizes all of the time and really makes it a point to show me a lot of love and patienc in my healing process. The problem is the other woman finds a way to contact me every few months to rehash everything and to tell me how much he loved her and how miserable he is with me. She said he told her we had grown apart and was only here for our son who is 10. I gave him every oppurtunity to leave with ample visitation, but he wanted to fix things and go to counseling. She said he was not attracted to me and did not want to have sex ...

2007-04-25 01:42:03 · 20 answers · asked by Nothing but the truth...!! 3

I find it really hurtful. So then, I withhold affection because I know he'll always expect it to turn to something else. Even if he does give me a cuddle at night, his hands can't just be round my waist. I've talked to him time and time again, but he never changes. He just stops the affection.

2007-04-25 00:59:11 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

What was it? How did he react?

2007-04-25 00:21:40 · 27 answers · asked by km t 2

someone who loved may somehow not able to marry but after sometime they want to spend life together but the girl is married now so can that girl ask her husband that she is not able to adjust and want to take divorce with the mutual consent as that guy still love her and she also loves him.

2007-04-25 00:06:36 · 30 answers · asked by raj 1