Marriage & Divorce - 28 April 2007

Im sick of my husband he controls everything i do. every bit of money i have he takes if i spend money he has a go. i cant talk to him coz he dont listen, he is a very angry person and thinks its all in my head but even my daughter has noticed and doesnt agree with it but we dont no what to do. it just seems i cant do anything without him having a go at me.i am disabled and if i want to go out i put fuel in friends cars so i can go out and my husband doesnt even like that. what should i do?

2007-04-28 23:41:54 · 34 answers · asked by Vicky C 2

help i dont knwo what to do? i love him so much and i cant see myself with out him please help me

2007-04-28 23:16:04 · 21 answers · asked by suepooh23 3

she spends 5 nights a week with him is it over even though she says the one time they ufck it was a mistake

2007-04-28 23:12:54 · 18 answers · asked by Waldo Y 1

2007-04-28 23:11:49 · 23 answers · asked by sulagatirani 1

They hug and kiss in front of me and tell each other how much they love one another. When I complain about the time they spend with each other, and the amount of money she lavishes on him she says I do the same thing, which is probably right. I CANT WAIT FOR THIS SON OF OURS TO GO OFF TO COLLEGE.

2007-04-28 22:39:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anthony F 6

my bf and I have an over 2 years relationship, I love him very much... we have been apart in 2 countries for over 1.5 years...we talk on the phone everyday. He asked me to marry him, but as my family go against it, we didnt get married. Last Decemeber, I thought I probabely wouldnt get the chance to be with him, so I married to someone else, someone I dont love... then I found out my bf is all I want, so I divorced my husband, I paid lots of money to the university and applied for studying in his country, actually I dont need to study for myself, all I did it was for getting back together. My bf is very happy, he thought Im serious about him and we could finally get back together, but he didnt know I married for 5 months...although my exhusband and I didnt even live together, bcos he is in another country 2, he only came back 2 weeks to marry me... In another 2 months time, I would be able to see my bf again, I know he has a lot of hopes about us, but will he be able to forgive me?

2007-04-28 22:39:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf of 2 and a half yrs left me, for the 5th time, every time we get into a fight, he leaves and says he wants nothing to do with me ever again. how many couples out there break up everytime things get heated. The last time we fought, he moved in with his step brother, he said that it was over and our relationship would not work, one week later, he was at my window telling me how much he loved me and wanted to move back in with me, so we got back together, and we got into another fight, and he left me again. how can he say he loves me if he can just leave me like this and leave me broken hearted every time. I truley want things to work for us, but our past is very tarnished now. I am very distraught, i try to think positive and think my life will be better off without him, but it hurts so bad, i cant eat, sleep, or socialize because i am so sad, to the point were it feels like i have a cramp in my heart. I still love him, can you let go of someone you love, how do you do it?

2007-04-28 22:23:19 · 11 answers · asked by jen w 5

We are 21,same class been together for 3 years.She was possessive I left everything for her,but one friend she went away.
Now, she says I had choice I chose her so don’t come back.Her friends don’t let me talk to her say Ive hurt her to much..
I fought with everyone for her. And now she’s with everyone I fought. And says she did’t say to fight for her.Not a single person in class talks to me now. She keeps on flirtin with everyone I hated.And says she is selfish now nd just wants to be happy.
The last thing I heard from her was. I cant com back I hate all dse times n I cant forget anytihng, I might b selfishing but you had authority and you used it and not I have it .“I really do respct what you feel but I also feel something n let me b m , please move on please I wish things were simpler , u said u can do that , just think m dead n live day way you always wanted other firneds and move on
I really don’t know what to do, Im suicidle right now ...She's all I had..one more year

2007-04-28 22:22:06 · 4 answers · asked by degothicangel 1

My Wife Found Emails I sent to a Woman I Worked with 2 Years Ago.?
Of course they were sent about 6 weeks ago. We have had some problems over the last year and were split up. Upon finding out I was facing what felt like an almost certain divorce I began corresponding with this woman. After I had told her I was working things out with my wife and moving accross the country I received another email from her with a half naked photo. I really don't know why but I didn't immediately remind her of my happy marriage. I was still upset with my wife for our earlier separation and I think I did this to intentionally hurt her. I'm so sorry for what I did and I wish we could work things out but I'm afraid I may have completely screwed everything up. I had stopped emailing the other woman 6 weeks ago but my wife found messages in the sent file. What's funny is I showed her how I found out she was emailing her ex-boyfriend just 5 years earlier and then she used it against me. She's a prtty smrt grl

2007-04-28 21:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by James LA 1

I have been widowed three years in May, next month. I have a five year-old daughter, who is the light of my life, by my husband. I have been in the family almost 15 years. When I get around his famly they either put each other down or me and my daughter down. I feel bad. I have tried to express my feellings and they either laugh about it and/or ignore it. It affects my daughter, also. I don't want to keep her away from them but I don't want negative influences in our lives. We have enough hurt. She reminds them and my of her father so much. They don't call and check on her like they should; I am not happy with my sister-in-law because she thinks so much of herself and her daughter, too. But, Her daughter pays more attention to her cousin; they are like sisters in a way and I am glad. I am not happy with the fact they want me to give up my time and make room for them most of the time when we get together and they get angry with me. I am making most of the decisions my best.

2007-04-28 21:17:21 · 10 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3

People ask me I'm depressed, but I tell them I don't know. I've been through a lot but I don't think I have depression. That's why I want to know how it feels.

2007-04-28 20:21:13 · 14 answers · asked by tyler joy k 1

2007-04-28 20:18:45 · 19 answers · asked by SREEJITH P R 1

When I first started dating her, in high school, I learned that she had a very troubled home. I learned that she was emotionally abused and it was very difficult for her to open up to me and trust me with her love. Eventually this happened. I always treated her like a princess and loved her with all my heart. We had two boys and as they grew and our involvement in their lives became very consuming we stopped spending time together as husband and wife and were always mom and dad. Problem is that I started always thinking of myself and not helping out enough. I stopped treating her special and she started feeling like nothing she did was good enough. She felt like she wasn't good enough. She fell out of love with me. It was already too late for me to change when I learned of this. I have changed but she no longer loves me. How do I move on? I still love and want only her. I can't seem to let go. She will be moving out soon and then the divorce will take place.

2007-04-28 20:15:24 · 27 answers · asked by Jim S 1

so heres the problem ....
i split up with my x botfriend over a year ago, we have a beautiful 5 year old daughter. Now he is asking me to get back with him and i'm un sure of what to do. i do love him but i'm not convinced that he's changed. Part of the resson we split is that he was a regular peter pan(refusing to grow up and act responsible). what would you do?
is it best to let sleeping dogs lie? or should i give him another chance.

2007-04-28 20:13:03 · 11 answers · asked by battysuzzie 3

By that, I guess I mean...are you so attracted to your wife you sometimes can't believe you're with her? How did you meet?

2007-04-28 19:55:54 · 7 answers · asked by idog 2

My husband recently went to an event called Flirt After Work, but he lied about it. Now I do not believe anything he says. Flirt After Work is actually for singles looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right. He and three of his friends went. I found out because he came home drunk with a lame excuse about hanging out with the guys at the barber shop. I kept thinking about it and thinking about it. I finally realized that the night in question was a Thursday Night and my husband had gotten a haircut the day before. He was in a good mood that next day and while driving around town, I just asked him. He paused and then said yes. I did not argue with him about it, I decided to let it go for the moment. I just think he is a liar and all the loving things he tells me are lies. I do not think a happily married man would be at an event like this. I am an attractive female (so I have been told). Other men notice me all the time, but I do not put myself in compromising situations where I may be tempted.

2007-04-28 19:50:33 · 17 answers · asked by Twilight 1

He always accuses me of going and doing bad things when all i do is stay at home with our kids and he is the one that stays out with his buddies.

2007-04-28 19:31:28 · 12 answers · asked by AMY 1

I am considering getting married but I am not completly sure why! I have a daughter who is 4 months old and I just might be pregnant now and I was thinking marriage may just be what we need. I feel like we are already living together and raising our child so what's the point? I guess I want to know what are the benefits legally? With kids and what ever else...

2007-04-28 19:28:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-28 18:46:19 · 15 answers · asked by ranger 1

I know about the bumps in the road but if you are generally happy in the marriage, what is your most effective secret to sustainability?

2007-04-28 18:25:33 · 28 answers · asked by Tracy L 2

I have been married for almost one year...I am in full time college, and my husband is in the military active duty. So, we have a little money, but not ALOT! Anyways, I really want to make some memories with him before we start a family. Do you have any ideas on what we could do that would be memorable, fun, and not TOO expensive?

2007-04-28 18:12:45 · 6 answers · asked by mr.t'smom 2

My husband and I have been married for two years. We met while pursuing higher ed. Currently I am working on my BA and working as a kindergarten aide. My husband has dropped out of school because he doesn't know what he wants for a career. He is working at a dead end job earning minimum wage. I am happy with what he earns now because it pays the bills. However I am soon approaching my 27th birthday and I would love to have children before I turn thirty but financially that would be impossible if my husband continues to work at his current job. I have tried talking to him about this and he closes up and tells me he doesn't know what he wants to do with his life. I am very frustrated because I want to move on to another chapter of our lives. I am seriously comtemplating divorce. Is this a good enough reason?

2007-04-28 17:55:30 · 30 answers · asked by Mandie S. 1

my mom kick him out and i dont know who i should be more mad at...him for not fighting to stay or my mom for kicking him out. help!

2007-04-28 17:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by showstoppr 1

My Husband has been Cheating on me with Sex Workers for 6 Months and Then He Had an Affair with one of them for 4 Months,He Wants me to Forgive Him and move on,We had Decided to Seperate but at the Last Minute he Broke Down and said He couldn"t stand being on his own and not seeing me and the Kids,So he is still here,How do I make Him Realise how much He has really hurt me and What He did was the Worst Betrayal of all,He has been with Sex Workers 1-2 Times a week and Then Go Behind my back and Have an affair with one of them,I would Like to Know What other people Think as to me this is not the way for a Married Man to act and why doesn"t He understand I can't Forgive Him and I Never Will,I Said to Him when I think of all the Things He done to me I Feel ill,All He says to me is I made a Mistake and I wont do it again,How can I be Sure as He enjoyed it once and I am sure He will go Back given the Chance,Thanks for Your Comments.

2007-04-28 17:29:30 · 30 answers · asked by Spud 2

Your ex suddly shrank down to the size of a bug right before your eyes. What would be your ultimate revenge?

Please take question as just fun.

2007-04-28 17:29:29 · 8 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3

...and if so, is he really happily married?

2007-04-28 17:28:11 · 25 answers · asked by Sally Sunshine 2

I don't want to promote steroetpypes, but I'd like to know a little background on Asian men. What are they like? What do they like and dislike? What are their expectations of their female counterpart?

2007-04-28 17:08:15 · 11 answers · asked by oh really 3

I would be applying for permanent disability, and I'm wondering if I would still be responsible for paying child support out of my monthly SSI amount or if that would be paid directly to my ex-wife above and beyond anything paid to me.

2007-04-28 17:06:27 · 4 answers · asked by inactive account 4

i believe i may have fathered a son twenty years ago... it was a brief relationship and she would never tell me if he was my child.. have resently found the mother again and would like to know the answer one way or the other.. i would like to know what legal obigations in the state of maine that may come with this after twenty years... i'm aware that it may not be in his best interest for me to come into his life, but would like peace of mind knowing for sure or should i just let "sleeping dogs lye"

2007-04-28 17:02:00 · 1 answers · asked by Doug H 2

It has been like seven years since I have seen my mother because I have been living with my father. She gave up her custody on me. I was living with her and her new boyfriend before she did and they had a kid. Sometimes when I think about I don't know if should be sad or mad.

2007-04-28 16:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous