she spends 5 nights a week with him is it over even though she says the one time they ufck it was a mistake
2007-04-28 23:12:54 · 18 answers · asked by Waldo Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She spends 5 nights a week with him? And you believe her that they've done it only once? Can I sell you the Eiffel Tower? But seriously, I'd find a good time to sit her down and ask her what her plans are for both of you and if HE will always figure in her plans. If she says yes, dump her. Remember what Lady Diana said? (There were 3 of us in this marriage and it was getting a little crowded) In the meantime, ensure you don't make any babies. They'll only complicate matters should you two really divorce. Poor you.
2007-04-28 23:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What?!!!! That's freaking (pardon the language) wrong! Sex, especially with someone you know, has some emotional string attached to it.. It doesn't matter if it's a mistake! The thing is .. Burglary is a mistake! Forgery is a mistake! Actions that we did should NOT be excused by saying it's a mistake.... If this woman really wants you, well then, trying at least to leave that guy even if he is her friend, (to show his concern for you) would be one sign of her true love... Fellow, she's wrong... Talk to her about what I just said...
2007-04-29 06:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Chris Lagmay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so if she really loved you would she be running to her Ex? the answer is no. Ive been in your shoes before. Get out before its too late. You may love her and it may be hard to ended it but I think she is just hidding from something and she is more and likely feeling very powerful because she is controling you and doing as she wants. Take back your power and and get the heck out. Youll feel better in the long run.
Good luck and best wish to ya.
2007-04-29 07:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by coolgirlannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm, a mistake, next time, she'll say it was a mistake that took place over and over....if she is spending that much time with him, buddy its over for you.. sorry to say that.
Funny feeling but i bet, her ex, has someone in his life. If so, he is getting the best of both worlds.
He must have a sliver tongue, and knows how to use it.
Good luck, and open up your eyes.
2007-04-29 11:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by meatball288001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife spends 5 nights a week with her ex and you believe her when she says its over or its nothing... you must really love her cause she is blowin big smoke...
2007-04-29 06:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by angiee631 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes its over.if they ufcked once they are still doing it.she is useing for something.get her out of your life!
2007-04-29 08:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's pretty wrong
in a marriage, the spouse comes FIRST.
five nights is really excessive, and sleeping with the ex is already a huge red flag.
talk to her seriously. this is a make it or break it time.
good luck
2007-04-29 06:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by ChloeDee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time she comes home have her bags waiting for her at the door, she'll get the message. I did this once, it works, I wasn't going to take "second hand"
2007-04-29 06:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not a good sign. TIme to sit down and have a heart to heart with her. Let her know your feelings and find out where hers are.
2007-04-29 06:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok and why are you still with her?? they F once and it was a mistake... lol come one.. what did she trip and fell and landed on his dick... i mean come on... plus 5 nights a week.. i can see hanging out with him MAYBE once a week.. but not 5 days.. think about it
2007-04-29 07:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by tonguering180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋