Marriage & Divorce - 28 April 2007

When you were little did you decide inside that one day you would like to get married? If you did what age were you? Did you already picture the type of man or women you would like to marry? And anything else you would like to add perhaps you knew at a certain age that you did not want to get married.

2007-04-28 16:41:19 · 14 answers · asked by ME 4

My fiancee and I we wonder for our wedding night.

2007-04-28 16:39:45 · 18 answers · asked by Van 1

My husband of 2 1/2 years left me bcause he said that I cheated on him because I carpooled to a training site with a male co-worker, Besides all of this he has been verbally abusive during our entire marriage. He always would threatend to leave an I would always cry and beg him to stay. Not this time I was glad his butt left because I am tired of the abuse. I do love him a lot and want our marriage to work out but he need to change his ways for the kids and me. He only took a few of his things so I packed the rest of his stuff and put it by the door. It is hard being strong but I have to do this for me and my kids. Do you think I am doing the right thing?

2007-04-28 16:06:59 · 12 answers · asked by shelly 1

on priorities? Morals? Values? Anything? Everything?
What do you and your spouse agree on?

2007-04-28 15:57:58 · 15 answers · asked by :) 4

I have had the worst time with them over the past year. My husband just told me that the real reason why they didn't come around for Thanksgiving was because my husband was working and so they would rather just not come around thats fine, but what about our kids. My family lives out of state and so I spent thanksgiving alone with the kids. They also did not spend Christmas with us either because we went to see my mom on Christmas Eve and so that really tissed her off. She did even send the kids any presents and trust they could have. She complans because I never call her I barely call anybody anymore. She never calls me and when I do call her she finds a reason to get off the phone. Doesn't the phone work both ways. I just don't now what to do about this anymore please helpNo,she was not like this before we got married. This all started when we bought our home and I got a job. I dont think that she thinks a woman should work.

2007-04-28 15:41:00 · 12 answers · asked by what did you say 4

just curious if you want to share how you met your wife/husband......when did you know he/she was the one???? where did you get engaged??? I think it's something fun to talk about..........

2007-04-28 15:34:44 · 19 answers · asked by nemofish 4

2007-04-28 15:33:08 · 13 answers · asked by womnut a 1

My husband and I are separated right now. We talk but don't live together. It has only been three weeks. We both really want to have sex. Would this just complicate things? I am thinking it would but I am really horny.

2007-04-28 15:21:49 · 38 answers · asked by Am 2

Your at a night club with you two best friends, for a long over due girls night out. Your having fun dancing and sipping drinks but out of no where your ex shows up. He's obviously drunk, and getting kinda hostle. This is where the question gets fun. Out of your purse you pull out a remote control with the ability to shrink the dirt ball down to the size of a bug. Would you use it? How would you act out your ultimate revenge?

I'm just looking for a funny, creative answer. Please have fun with this, and let your imagination soar.

2007-04-28 15:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3

His perfect life is me leaving him alone for a week straight while he plays world of warcraft & online poker. Of course he would still expect me to have intercourse with him, which, yes makes me very upset that he would still expect that. He hasn't taken me out to dinner since December '06, and we've been married since october '06. It's almost MAY. We are newlyweds and I know that it's not supposed to be like this. He's logged an average of 5 hrs per day every day for the last two years,, on world of warcraft alone. I had no idea his internet use was this excessive before we married. Believe me...I am more than frustrated. I've begun witholding sex completely and I've left once. He begged me to come back under all these conditions I did. Within two days of me being back the treatment is the same. That along with sleep deprivation & name calling. We are in couseling & I am literally booking airfare to a foreign country. I have NO IDEA what to do & I am totally fed up..HELP

2007-04-28 15:19:33 · 42 answers · asked by anonymous M 1

I have been with my fiance for about 6 years now and have been engaged for 1 1/2 years. I am currently in the AF Reserve and i am traveling a lot. I've been deployed for 6 months now and have only seen her once in the passed 6 months. When I am done with this deployment I am probably going to be going on another long term deployment and i am really doubting wheter or not I want to continue my relationship with my fiance. Being alone in a different place is really hard sometimes and I can't always fly her out to be with me. I don't want to keep her hanging while I am away all the time because i'm not sure how long I am going to be away from home.
We love eachother very much but i think it's totally unfair to both of us to keep eachother waiting. I am also meeting women in the places I am in, not for sex, but just talking and getting to know them and I'm finding myself doubting wether or not i am making the right choice by staying with my fiance.

2007-04-28 15:10:02 · 20 answers · asked by blkdrgn96 1

I have found myself single after over 30 years. How do you meet people when you've been out of circulation for so long?

2007-04-28 14:56:36 · 16 answers · asked by queenbee 1

2007-04-28 14:50:50 · 21 answers · asked by Hunter T 1

the wife and children are baptist the husband is a witness they have been married for over 20 years she dies and the childrend want her to have a baptist funeral but out of respect there willing to accept someone speaking from the hall as long as a prayer may be said by her reverend the father said he has to ask for permission the children are very up set there concern is the bother from the hall does not know there mother and has only seen her when he came to the house to see there father for she would go to the other room and stay until he left they feel they have given a lot by not asking for a church what can be done

2007-04-28 14:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by meme 1

If they are both sincere, intelligent, faithful, they both have good work and dont have bad habits, and they like each other, can they make a happy family after getting married? What will happen if one of them doesnt feel very strong about the other, but still can appreciate him?

2007-04-28 14:43:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My finance said he wanted kids someday when we first met, but he is 40 and I am 32 and within two years I will want them. he feels he is getting older and doesn't want to be an old dad but he may change his mind. Do I marry him on the hope that he may change his mind? Any advice from someone who has dealt with this would be helpful....

2007-04-28 14:42:51 · 22 answers · asked by recruiterjodi 1

can it affect me in any way, say in our sexuall life?

2007-04-28 14:39:25 · 16 answers · asked by loveit 2

2007-04-28 14:35:01 · 20 answers · asked by JoeFriday 1

Please be serious with this , How do you "Go Down", For Men: Like how do you start ?For Women: How do you like it done? or what else can you do while your down there?

2007-04-28 14:27:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-28 14:23:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just left my husband. I had only known him for 4 months before we were married, shortly after our marriage we started having major problems. I tried everything before leaving him and felt that we would be better off with out each other. It's only been a week since I moved out, he was aware ahead of time that I was leaving. Now I feel major regrets, whe I am alone in my new place I worry about him, and question whether I made the right decision. Is this normal? Will these feelings subside?

2007-04-28 14:21:31 · 15 answers · asked by MsTrust 2

Where did you find your husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend and how long did it take you to find him/her? Also are you truly in love and how long have you been together?

2007-04-28 14:13:27 · 16 answers · asked by KerryAnn 4

2007-04-28 14:10:47 · 10 answers · asked by Hunter T 1

After getting married, I found out that my husband had phone sex with several women b4 our wedding, that was when I was working in another city, he flirted on the internet and asked for their telephone number to have phone sex... now we have been married for a couple of months, I find that leaves a shadow and it affects my feeling for him, and it also affects our sex life... Im not interested in having sex with him... I dont know whether its bcos he is not really good in bed in the first place or is bcos his past behavior affecting my feeling...
I havent talked to him about that, what should I do now? Is it a big deal?

2007-04-28 13:59:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been friends since Jr.High. He's 40 (like me), divorced and a great person. He used to be a nice dude, we could hang out and talk, have a few beers...thing is he met a woman a year ago. He said she was the one, he even had plans to marry her. It all pointed at them being a match in heaven. Well, 2 months ago he moved to another state, started dressing like he was 25 again, started drinking after 2 years of abstinence and it turns out now he's not the guy i knew. Problem here is, he met another woman, and now claims to be madly in love with her.
Has my friend lost his mind or could it be going through his middle age "period"? What the hell is wrong with him?
He changed completely, turned into a rude, loud a$$ hole. He even gave his mom the boot after she took him in for 2 years.
All he thinks about now is partying and drinking. And i worry because i see him on the road to self-destruction and he has been my buddy for over 30 years.
And no, he won't accept something is wrong.

2007-04-28 13:56:20 · 14 answers · asked by hicknproud 1

2007-04-28 13:20:32 · 9 answers · asked by natalia p 1

I have been married for a year, and I don't have any kids, but I am thinking about leaving my husband. We are going through a really difficult time right now, and I have lost affection for him. I feel like I don't even love him anymore. I have recently begun talking to a dear friend who lives about 800 miles away, and I have fallen in love with him. I feel like we are Soul Mates, which is a feeling I have never had before. Now, all I can do is think of divorcing my husband, because I realize how much better he deserves. I have not cheated on him, because I have love and respect for my husband, but I feel like I am no longing in love with him. This other man loves me, too. I feel like he loves me even more than my husband does. I want to leave my husband, but I am not sure of where to go. I spend all of my time thinking about this other man, and that makes me feel horrible. Some friends tell me that I need to get away from the situation and go visit my parents. What should I do???

2007-04-28 12:25:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today is my fraternitys formal and my fiance has known about it for the past three months. She went to visit her family this morning and turns out her sister is sick so she cant take her younger sister to the Gwen Stephani concert. She told me she might not go with me now to formal because since her sister is sick she is getting a guilt trip about "picking a boy over a sister" is that all I am? A boy? I thought I was her fiance!

2007-04-28 12:17:29 · 23 answers · asked by DJ C 4

2007-04-28 12:13:15 · 14 answers · asked by BOB J 1

My wife wanted us to separate and to keep the house and buy me out which we did. Since then she has fallen on hard times and most likely has lost her job. She is in severe depression and will probably lose the house we once owned together. I now own my own house and filed for divorce yesterday and trying to move on with my life. Our separation agreement was very specific on what she got and what I got, there were no kids involved so custody is not a problem. My question is this. Can the court change anything in the separation agreement since she may have lost her job and is emotionally unstable?? I am also worried about her not signing the divorce papers.

2007-04-28 11:14:05 · 3 answers · asked by hokiedokie24 2