My husband and I are separated right now. We talk but don't live together. It has only been three weeks. We both really want to have sex. Would this just complicate things? I am thinking it would but I am really horny.
2007-04-28 15:21:49 · 38 answers · asked by Am 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we separated because we fight all the freaking time. we are both sick of it. we get on each others nerves sometimes. we thought space would be good and give us time to think. but i got needs and so does he. maybe i will seduce him.
2007-04-28 15:26:27 · update #1
yes it would confuse things a lot. it would stop u from sorting out how u really feel and possibly stop u from moving on and finding the right person. you will be giving each other mixed messages which will solve nothing. keep ur legs together for the time being. find out what u want.
2007-04-28 15:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would having sex with your husband complicate anything? If anything, it should bring you closer together.
Or, are you determined to get divorced?
Why are you living separately? Since when does that not end in divorce? I'd say file the papers now so you can both get on with life. Be horny and don't have sex.
Next time you have sex it should be with someone else, and your divorce should be finalized.
Everyone gets horny. Just feel it and don't act on it.
2007-04-28 15:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're separated but you want to have sex with each other? Why are you separated? Did you spoil a good relationship by getting married? You shouldn't even be asking this question. What the two of you do is strictly up to you and no bodies business but yours. Go for it or get you some toys.
2007-04-28 15:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ladybug II 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.... I'm probably not the right person to ask, but since you're asking world wide I'll answer anyways...... If you guys are separated for a reason that's because you guys can't stand each other, then it's best that you guys don't have sex. You guys might want to rethink the divorced thing if you're divorced for a dumb reason.
But overall, I guess it wouldn't complicate things, unless one of you are seeing someone else.
2007-04-28 15:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by LEAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you answered your own question...But want others input.(Well if you think it will complicate then Whatever You do Don't Do It. You must have separated for a very good Reason.Do you want that back.)
There is always other means of pleasure.
You know what your going to do anyway.
I hope You make the right decision.
Good Luck.
2007-04-28 15:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tony R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's what you both need. Just get together and have a bunch of sex. Maybe everything else after that will fall back in to place and then you two can live together again.
This might help you two reconnect and you might find the reason again in why you married him in the first place.
2007-04-28 15:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm in your boat too. my husband and i have been separated about a month although due to cheating. we still talk and see each other and hopefully god will bring us back together one day but sex will complicate things alot. soon after i found out we did have sex because we do love each other and desire each other but i didn't feel fulfilled inside after i still felt alone. and now from that night i think i could be prenant so defitly complicates things. be strong.
2007-04-28 15:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by lily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, it is the best sex you will ever have, the consequences however may not be worth it. By consequences I mean it does not help the situation you are trying to fix. If you are trying to work on a marriage to make it last you may want to focus on that.
If you can't hold out make sure he knows it is just sex and you still have a lot to work on.
2007-04-28 15:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Italia 28 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure you want to be together the sex will just complicate things. I am the first to admit that sex with the ex is always good reliable sex but if your still not sure you should wait.
2007-04-28 16:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by G Money 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes because it is not going to change anything. My college psychology professor who went through a divorce (adultry) told us that was not a good idea as it only made matters worse, much worse. Every case is different and cutting the cord in your case is never easy. Are you sure you are both ready for this?
2007-04-28 15:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋