Do you and your spouse agree?

Question

on priorities? Morals? Values? Anything? Everything?
What do you and your spouse agree on?

Answer 1

Pretty much everything. Have been married almost 18 years. We made sure prior to marriage we were in agreement on religion - so morals and values fell into that, plus on family - that we wanted one, how we would raise children. Finances - what is important, how we handle accounts, budgeting, etc.

Answer 2

Until my four children were coming on 12 years old, we agreed on almost everything. The things we didn't agree on, we talked about, didn't argue, but one of us took the responsibility and life went on. When my oldest ( a daughter) became 13 and 14 yrs old we began having conflict. Then the next turned that age and the other got older. Each had there own set of demands and problems. Never the same. It wasn't like when they were little and a rule was made for the oldest and that became the standard. Each child brought his own set of demands and it became more and more difficult. I had 4 teenagers and 4 parents die in 11 years. I am now divorced and I can't help feeling that had something to do with it after 28 years of marriage.

Answer 3

We agree about somethings and disagree about others..

Our Morals are compatable as are our values.. Sometimes we disagree about priorities..

We try to accept each other for who we are in the moment even if we don't agree at that moment.. Sometimes that works well and sometimes it doesn't... But through it all we each know the other loves us with all thier heart..

Answer 4

We agree on the important stuff, priorities, morals, values, etc, but you dont have to agree on every little thing. On those things you just have to agree to disagree.

Answer 5

We agree on priorities, morals and values, but don't agree on much else.

Answer 6

My husband and I have pretty much the same views on everything. We agree on how money should be handled and saved. We agree on not having any more children. We agree on how to discipline our child and raise her. We agree on eachothers parents( how we feel about them). We agree that there is no one on earth as important as the other (aside from our child) We agree that communication is the most important thing to make sure that we agree. :)

Answer 7

well that is a very broad question but me and my man don't agree alot of the time but we do on stuff that matters like priorities we both think that life we live with each other is worth hanging on to and the lives around us such as my son

Answer 8

OK you know more than your letting on here or else you would not have married him. Alot of this you learn by living with him--does he talk and walk the walk? or is it all talk. This stuff is evidenced by his christian walk, surely you took notice. By how considerate he is to you and family. Are you happy? I don't operate like my husband who lives in denial and doesn't really get involved with anyones stuff but mine, even kids he stays neutral. Drives me bananas, but he is a good man. Some stuff you find out as you go. Please don't belabor a guy for his family upbring witch heck is ingrained in us, and our personality foybils! He floats my boat, and attends to me so if he can get that right, I guess hes only a man! ha

Answer 9

we disagree on everything except our morals and values, but I think the fact that besides these important things, the fact that we are not similar keeps us loving each other, and we never bore one another.

Answer 10

We agree on compromise, which encompasses all of the above. We do share separate opinions, but compromise for the good of the relationship on everything, hey it works.