Marriage & Divorce - 28 April 2007

They work together and she was afraid but at the same time did'nt want to hurt his feelings.She let him finish got up came home showered and never spoke about it until now 30 years later and cryed like it just happened. She even work there for some time then found another job. Someone help explain this to me

2007-04-28 10:22:21 · 6 answers · asked by michael g 1

2007-04-28 10:18:37 · 2 answers · asked by Randy 1

I really need some advice on what could be a crucial decision. I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs... Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.

My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently, although when I ask their names, she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them." I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the street.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth. Last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.
I decided I was going to hide behind my boat, which was parked on the driveway, next to the garage where I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my boat, that I noticed that the lower unit on my outboard seemed to be leaking a little oil. Is this something I can fix myself?

2007-04-28 10:16:38 · 18 answers · asked by quicksilverpro06 1

I've been seeing this guy we had a conversation where it appeared that he was a bit upset because I thought the relationship was a friends-with-benefits type and he may have considered it more (but he never told me...well, maybe with his actions but I didn't pick up on them.) I was definitely doing a little CYA with my emotions because I was afraid to get rejected....

Anyway, I got asked out on a date by another guy and talked to him about it and he grudgingly told me I could go (lol) with the other guy......everything was fine and then we didn't talk for about 4 days. I realized I really had no interest in the other guy but felt silly putting my life on hold if there is no future with him. I finally txt him and said "I miss you" and he responded like everything was fine but never said it back.

So I am wondering if a guy who had an ego blow like I unintentionally gave him would pull in the reigns, so to speak.....because he has told me he missed me before, but it seems like it's a struggle for him to verbalize. And I think he is scared about having feelings but I am not sure....I catch him looking at me like he wants to say something and then he doesn't. You'd think we were friggin' teenagers, huh? Sorry to sounds pathetic - lol.

Did I mention I think I am in love with him?

2007-04-28 09:55:38 · 13 answers · asked by Clarissa 4

2007-04-28 09:40:13 · 3 answers · asked by bessieprc 1

ok my quistion is what can we do with the laws on child protective servises in indiana iv tryed to get help throught hem with my kids and thier dad doing drugs and iv got no reponce and something has to be done before something happens to my kids!

2007-04-28 09:29:19 · 2 answers · asked by MICHELLE D 1

ok my girl friend finished with me in dec 06 we where together for 2 years she always threatened me with a split a few times. Before we met I was a single guy confident but not jerk. Had my own business and spoke my mind. Within those two years I lost my business due spending to much time with her. not her fault mine but you cant have the best of both worlds. She stopped me from speaking my mind and when I did she made it sound if it was stupid girls are like that. so finally she threatened me with a split and I said "What you have turned me in to I would rather that" a month went by and we talked about getting back together but never did down to stubbiness. I think back and think at the beginning we where both so different and miss the person we where and not the people we became but the gutting feeling inside is missing her the way she was and we where. but then you think to end of the relationship and think I’m so happy to be out it. Im confident again and have a business again but

2007-04-28 09:17:50 · 6 answers · asked by MrMago 2

2007-04-28 09:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by shel321 2

I mean, they're doing the same thing....

2007-04-28 08:50:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my husband a lot.he is my life.he loves me too.we have something in common which is really bad for both of us.and that is stuborness and anger.and that clashes.today for some petty reason we were arguing in the parking area of a super market and anger lead to a slap onto my face.he slapped me damn hard in front of everyone present there.he did not even bother about my self respect neither his.i am very sad about it.i cried the whole time.i dont know how to go about with it now..i wanna hurt him so badly so he cud feel the pain.i dont know how i can do that.i dunno how i shud react to him the next time he tries talking to me.i want him to be hurted as welll.i have decided not talking to him for about some days..am i right..gimme soem suggestions how to hurt him


i know he will apologise me since he loves me ...he doea that everytime...but want i want is i dont want him to continue this further now....if i dont control him now he will be doing somethin

2007-04-28 08:45:41 · 35 answers · asked by nazy 2

neither one of us wants to get married again and we both have kids.. We have been talking of trying to live together over the summer when he doesn't work, professor.
We care about each other but I am scared of getting hurt again. My family lives far away and I have no friends in town I am living in. Am here cause of my ex.
My boyfriend willing to move here for me. What should I be doing/looking into.

2007-04-28 08:42:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-28 08:35:37 · 2 answers · asked by ©smegma 1

if you get threat and obscene words on net is possible to know the person and his location from his id? can i complain on net or inform the police?

2007-04-28 07:47:33 · 1 answers · asked by sergoshiyan101 1

My hubby and I have been together since 10th grade in highschool and we are always together. Now his job is taking him away from me. He will be gone Mon thru Fri and home on weekends but OH MY GOD Im alrady scrying and I cant stop. He is in my heart-my blood- I breathe for him and him alone and now Ill be without him 5 days a week every week for the next 4 months. I feel like Im dying inside. Pacing the floors-crying-talking to myself! GOD what do I do???? Im sooo lost wihout him. Ive never felt so much pain in all my life

2007-04-28 07:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I despise my ex husband with every single bone in my body. I regret ever saying yes to him, to ever even knowing him and for letting him destroy my life. The only thing I will ever thank him for is my 3 wonderful children, whom, though i was on 'the pill' when I fell for them, I had something that was actually mine to love. They keep me sane. He lied to me, he deceived me, he threatened my ex bf just so he could have me and by that he took away the only person I will ever love. He destroyed me and all my confidence.

2007-04-28 07:39:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most of the ratings show that.

2007-04-28 07:28:26 · 16 answers · asked by Finfinne 1

out of town to NY, FL and back to new york again and blows money and when i ask for some he tells me he dont have any .becuase he has alot of money from the house being sold. He ask me to get a rental house in my name and has left me once again to pay all the bills and i can not afford it. the rent is 1200 dollars on top of my car payment and my car insurance plus any other bills i can not afford to live like this becuase soon i will be off of work to have my child. he broke a wall in my house he also broke the door knob off my rental car that i have to return in a few days i dont have any extra money to pay for the hole nor the knob to get fix and on top of all this he beats me up i had money saved up for my child but i had to pay 2300 dollars for the rental and 1300 dollars on th living room set whcih he told me he would pay me back and has not i can not get out of the lease what can i do ?

2007-04-28 07:25:46 · 21 answers · asked by kay 1

i am 25 he 50 i am in love with him we live together i want to marry him i asked him he said hes not ready he says he loves me am i doing something wrong

2007-04-28 07:08:40 · 10 answers · asked by tlc 2

Is it neccessary in today's life?

2007-04-28 06:43:50 · 15 answers · asked by Finfinne 1

i was reading through another members answers that he had given, saying men dont stray if woman give them sex and respect to there man? Why? What about being 50/50 in a relationship, i am in a relationship where i have to keep my man happy constanly as i was a doormat when we first got together. I am tired of it now, its like my feelings dont matter why is this?

2007-04-28 06:29:39 · 28 answers · asked by LAURA C 1

2007-04-28 06:15:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

should I be worried? we have been married for nearly nine years and recently he has wanted to have anal sex, he has always loved my bum but this concerns me, cause it's not natural. I should add that he once had sex with a bloke many moons ago (about 25 yrs ago) when he was on drugs and stuff.

2007-04-28 06:11:31 · 41 answers · asked by michelle w 3

after giving your wife a hard spanking, how long should you wait to have sex with her? or should in emediatly follow the spanking.

2007-04-28 05:58:14 · 17 answers · asked by Jerry J 1

2007-04-28 05:57:19 · 6 answers · asked by Ben F 1

See I have severe social anxiety & don't go out at all (except for Dr.s appointments and any other really important apptmts.) becuz of it. He does all the grocery shopping on his own. He's the only one that works outside of the home. I work part time for an at home call center. So anyway, I've had my anxiety for years. When we first met I didn't have any anxiety issues at all. In fact, I was really outgoing. We went out together to eat, shopping, etc. you know things normal couples do, altho we weren't actually a couple then. We were just friends. It was when we ran into each other 4 years later, that he asked me to be his girlfriend. At this time I already had my severe anxiety. He understood but it's been 6 years since we got together & I still have severe anxiety. He's the only one that goes out so it would be really easy for him to cheat on me. I've seen doctor's about my anxiety but nothing's helped. We just had a baby (our 1st in Feb) but I'm still afraid I'm gonna lose him.

2007-04-28 05:44:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are remarried or found love after heartache how did you learn to trust again ?

2007-04-28 05:41:58 · 12 answers · asked by wiser 1 3

We separated almost 3 years ago (because of my infedility). We tried counseling a few times unsuccessfully. I have pleaded for forgiveness, have not seen or gone out w/anyone since, have withstood alot of verbal abuse from him because i felt i deserved it and am trying to make good over something that i did that was bad. He comes over to my house to see the kids, we have dinner together about 1x /week with the kids but he said we never have fun together to build on romantic feelings again. So now i'm trying to go to that next step, but he keeps saying no no no; yet i know, when i back down, he will say i didn't try hard enough. Any serious responses out there will be appreciated.

2007-04-28 05:24:27 · 14 answers · asked by pinebarrons1 2

2007-04-28 05:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by wishfulthinking 2

Like an expensive, undependable, over engineered sports car? Do you have to do all the work for almost no benefit, and then put up with constant whining and nagging?
Consider it for a moment...are they REALLY worth it?

2007-04-28 05:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by Paul 3

I was watching tv and some guy on the news said that he opposed gay marriage because it would lead to polygamy which is having more than one wife. My question is, so what? Who cares if it does lead to polygamy? How would polygamy negatively affect America? I know many of you will probably give religious reasons for opposing it. I'm an athiest so those reasons are crap to me.

2007-04-28 04:59:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous