ok my girl friend finished with me in dec 06 we where together for 2 years she always threatened me with a split a few times. Before we met I was a single guy confident but not jerk. Had my own business and spoke my mind. Within those two years I lost my business due spending to much time with her. not her fault mine but you cant have the best of both worlds. She stopped me from speaking my mind and when I did she made it sound if it was stupid girls are like that. so finally she threatened me with a split and I said "What you have turned me in to I would rather that" a month went by and we talked about getting back together but never did down to stubbiness. I think back and think at the beginning we where both so different and miss the person we where and not the people we became but the gutting feeling inside is missing her the way she was and we where. but then you think to end of the relationship and think I’m so happy to be out it. Im confident again and have a business again but
2007-04-28 09:17:50 · 6 answers · asked by MrMago 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as much as you hate them you cant stop thinking about them. Im not inlove with her and would not get back with her. but I wake up evey morning thinking of her. what’s the deal im new to this what advice can you give me. not liking this uncontrol of myself. Ive met a lovely girl and want to cut my x out of my life but shes on my mind alot but more I hate her but cant get past this bad feeling. is this normal I feel im not inlove with her and do not like her as a person but why is she on my mind all the time. thanks in advanced
2007-04-28 09:18:27 · update #1
do not take her back no way no how. She is
bad news, when a person would not give one a chance to express his/or her opinion,or feeling it means that person is some one who wants to control everything, you know control freak and if she does not get what ever she wants then you will be called all sorts of names. she is selfish and also bully.
You do not need to hang around with people like her. in any relationship each partner has to have equal opportunity's in the relationship. yes they will be arguments, disagreement's, but at the same time both partners will learn from each other.
to try to understand, and trust, and love one another. Love should not bring pain, it should bring joy and happiness, and yes once a while arguments. LOOSE HER
one more thing no one has the right to change any body each of us have to accept each other as who we are. trying to get better is good but not to change for any one.
2007-04-28 09:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by not fair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just dealing with the normal issues after a breakup.....you had a history, so she will always be a part of your PAST.....the hard part is to learn to keep her THERE...IN THE PAST......
move on, find a nicer new girl who will really appreciate you .....THAT will make you forget faster than anything else.....
then focus on the business she ruined.....! dont take all the blame on yourself......she sounds selfish and controlling.....be GLAD it is over! LEARN a lesson from it...and it will all be ok soon.
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2016-12-29 13:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to think about this, and what it did to you in the first place. you need to tell this girl that you really want this to work, and the only way that will happen is that she is on your side. females like to lay down the law once they are in a relationship, but its up to you to stand up and fight your corner. if she really likes you then she will back down, if not then she is the wrong girl for you. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-04-28 09:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Robfev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still dealing with the aftermath of the relationship with her. Dude, you lost a business, she wanted to change you, etc. Live and learn.
2007-04-28 09:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are memories. Good or bad they'll always be there. The trick is to remember they're just memories and move on.
2007-04-28 09:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋