Marriage & Divorce - 1 May 2007

to those who already separate...why still i m always meeting the wrong guy?and the same attitude end up with us?they said we can mee the right guy after the wrong ones..are you saying that after your separation...you can actually love someone else?sometimes i wonder how people can divert their feelings for someone else...what if the other person happen to be the same type...does that mean this is our fate...?which makes us only to prefer single again

2007-05-01 23:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by truth set free 1

you fail in your marriage,and you felt hopeless as your friends have a happy family as not you...your friends would ask why ?and they dont seem understand....do you feel ashame of yourself as you cant make a good family...compared to your friends?like maybe a loser...and sometimes you think why dont i be like them?what can we do?also your friends and other people would talk behind your back saying "look at her she cant manage .....her life"what a pity women"

2007-05-01 23:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by truth set free 1

The man who I like has got no money, property or high social status, and may lose his job after marriage... ...However, he is a very kind, caring young man.

He proposed recently.. Should I marry him?

2007-05-01 23:21:25 · 30 answers · asked by xiao x 1

2007-05-01 23:13:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We been together for 16yrs and seperated for a year. My ex sometimes makes me feel guilty about our problems and tells me that i need to get help. She is the one living with a loser ex boyfriend that has a part time job and can't pay there bills. She was even jealous of my girlfriend and told me what am i'm doing you have 2 daughters (they live with me). So I broke it off with her because I thought she wanted to work things out but now it seems that my ex only comes around when she needs money or something. I can't understand why she would choose to still be so shelfish and stubborn and not try to work thing out. So how can I show her you need to make up your mind because I need closure and to move on. I don't want to be the bad guy and my kids are hurting for her. I feel bad because i'm the one that kick her out. I got tired of the bs and cheating. I still love her and want her back. I look into my daughters eyes and all I see is my ex. I know my ex is hurting also what do I do.

2007-05-01 23:12:34 · 5 answers · asked by jadden 1

My husband has lied to me on many occassions he drinks with his mates and denies it also he will make excuses that he is working late and will infact go out with his mates, how do i deal with this situation?

2007-05-01 23:07:48 · 13 answers · asked by syk786 1

But it's less common than marriages.

2007-05-01 22:55:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

before we got married we used to have sex all the time but since we got married he always finds an excuse not to do it. he's always out and comes home late at night. i suspect he does this to avoid having sex. whenever i would try to initiate sex he would always have some excuse. but he would always talk about how he wants to have sex with me, for example when i'm at work he would say that he'd like to do it tonight, how he'll do it, etc, etc. but when it's the time to do it he would have an excuse. it's really confusing me, i would like to think that i'm not unattractive. i believe that he loves me and i know for sure that he's not cheating on me. maybe you guys can help me shed some light on this.

2007-05-01 22:24:20 · 27 answers · asked by chicky 2

2007-05-01 21:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by 121aloraphotos 6

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now and everything is almost perfect. I really think he is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with but, I am really insecure and jealous of his ex, they were together for 2 years and broke up a few months before he and I got together. He says he doesn't talk to her anymore or have any feelings for her but he still stays in contact with her family which I can understand because of how long they were together for. Also,once when we were messing around he accidentlly said I love you (his ex's name) he appolligized and felt terrible for it and has never said it again but it still bothers me a lot. I dont know what to do and I dont want to lose him please help!

2007-05-01 21:13:51 · 5 answers · asked by Krystal 1

2007-05-01 21:06:45 · 18 answers · asked by Nora C 4

I am living in Germany and my hearing is in Florida. My ex-wife and I have come to an agreement and she has said that all I need to do is write a letter saying that I do not need representation. Please give me some advice on wording and any other thoughts you have. Thank you

2007-05-01 21:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lewis 1

Im 22 in a great relationship for 2 years. Whats a good age to be married?

2007-05-01 21:01:14 · 11 answers · asked by Jill A 1

we laugh and have lots of hugs and kisses and sex. could this be the REAL thing???? He says he feels the same way.

2007-05-01 20:32:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for 30 years and divorced.The ex left me for someone she met online.. I have met a Catholic lady who I am very fond of. She wants me to get an annulment to continue dating as the church dosen't reconize a civil divorce and still cosiders me married . I am a born again Christian and attend a non demoninational church.

2007-05-01 19:30:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

girls--whats your first impression of a guy you see driving a porsche--say hes about 28 years old???

2007-05-01 19:08:59 · 10 answers · asked by tony g 1

My daughter is 16 1/2 and works do I still need to pay child support or can I get it reduced? I live in CA. She also want to live with me (dad) can I stop paying child support when she moves in?

2007-05-01 18:59:19 · 23 answers · asked by Dave 1

I've always been a romantic at heart and have believed in the concept of true romantic love. The older I get the more cynical I become. Most of the guys I work with would cheat on their wives if they thought they could get away with it. I've heard more than one of them say "If I won the Lottery I'd leave my wife") I sure would like to hear from anyone out there who has been (or is) in a happy monogamous relationship. Just starting to wonder if it's just something that exists in movies and books...

2007-05-01 18:42:37 · 15 answers · asked by tursiops_c 1

why? hes the one who wanted this child, he cheated on me about 6 months ago and now lives with his gf shes 12 yrs older that me and 10 yrs older than him trust me shes no prize fat,old and ugly i dont understand why he chooses her over me and our kids we also have a 2 yr old litle girl. i just found out yesterday by his mom that he has no intention on showing up for my delivery this thurs. which hurts me because its not our sons fault we didnt work our issues out. and i also feel upset about the fact that he was there for our daughter. all the way he WAS a good father now he sees her maybe about 1 a month for like 20 min. thats a choice he makes because if it were up to me he would see her more she loves and misses him very much, i can tell he misses her too, he cries when he leaves. i just dont understand why he listens to his gf? she doesnt want him to see our daughter he dosent and now he wont even come to the hospital i dont know what to think or how to feel? any1 experience this?

2007-05-01 18:35:17 · 17 answers · asked by nahdya21 2

You cannot do something without the conscious choice to do it. Is it that they are cowards who like to release themselves from guilt?

2007-05-01 18:07:07 · 21 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5

It's been over a month since he showered...He's like pig pen.

2007-05-01 18:02:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my soon to be exhusband had our 2 month old daughter at his place last night since we are going threw a divorce due to him cheating and lying.he was in great spirits when he left but as soon as he found out i was at a bar with a friend, he flipped out and wanted me to go home ASAP so he could drop her off. 30 min. later i got home and he was mad when i got there handed her to me said good bye and drove off in a hurry.
NOW, today he is saying if i want he will take her tomorrow night so i can go back out again!
one minute he is mad i have a life and the next he says to go out! is he playing mind games?

2007-05-01 17:38:26 · 13 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

meeting someone NEW to date after your seperated?
Is it really refreshing right back into the dating scene or is it scary?
Is it exciting and fun?
and how many people have you dated if you got seperated or divorced?
Do you feel relieved, or do you still miss your spouse/ex spouse?

2007-05-01 16:47:38 · 2 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4

my mother in law really pissed me off by giving me the silent treatment after my wife told her about one of our fights. after that i told her i'm not going to the beach with her whole family this summer and staying with her parents because she disrespected me in front of my wife and my wife didn't do crap. she doesn't care. it's like her parents are more important. i feel not married and i told her i'm done with her parents until she respects me and that means not going to the beach with her and her parents. am i being too much of a egomaniac? it will harm my marriage but i think she'll respect me more if i stand my ground. what do you think ladies? she won't talk to her mom which concerns me. it's like well my paretns are more imortant than you.

2007-05-01 16:25:00 · 17 answers · asked by survivor 1

2007-05-01 16:02:48 · 33 answers · asked by Terry 1

2007-05-01 15:59:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother-n-law does not accept me. I get that! But after 16 years of marraige and five kids she would get the idea that I am here to stay! Her parents adore me her neighbors love me her family respects me. Her son is a butt, but I stay. I draw the line at her trying to "control" my kids. Is this wrong?

2007-05-01 15:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it really cheating? What if you just wanted to taste and now that you have, it is done? Should you tell your spouse?

2007-05-01 15:52:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband is living in a 1 bedroom apartment. He has a roommate for a few months. His roommate is married and his wife comes to visit him every few months.

He was talking to me yesterday about his roommate and his wife fight and make up and generally try to have a good time together. They have been married for 4 years.

He gives them advice on how not to break up their marriage and be friends for life.

He makes comments about how I never showed him how much I cared for him and really accepted him as my husband.

It makes me feel sad that our marriage broke up. Then, I think about the abuse - both emotional and physical and remember why I left.

I know that I should not be talking to him. I just get physically and emotionally sick after I do because he makes me feel bad and guilty.

I am envious of other couples who are able to make it work though. I must have been flawed in some way...

2007-05-01 15:27:11 · 15 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

For the past 3 weeks he will cancel the day before and tell me he is coming another day. I don't think he can do this and can't afford a lawyer.

2007-05-01 15:19:47 · 7 answers · asked by claire21117 1