I've always been a romantic at heart and have believed in the concept of true romantic love. The older I get the more cynical I become. Most of the guys I work with would cheat on their wives if they thought they could get away with it. I've heard more than one of them say "If I won the Lottery I'd leave my wife") I sure would like to hear from anyone out there who has been (or is) in a happy monogamous relationship. Just starting to wonder if it's just something that exists in movies and books...
2007-05-01 18:42:37 · 15 answers · asked by tursiops_c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We aspire to have true love. But the world is pragmatic. Love is a give-and- take process and it requires constant care for the individual you love. In reciprocating there is some imbalance and there lies the problem. In loving what is important is how much of love you give it to someone you love. The overwhelming love you imagine may be a dream.
2007-05-05 14:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't ever believe in true love until I met the love of my life recently. I have been with him for 5 months. I was married before him and I settled. That whole story was a nightmare. I lost my faith in love through all of it. When I met my true love, I wasn't looking for him.. and he wasn't looking for love.. we just found each other. We believe we are soulmates... and the love we have for each other is so sweet, innocent, true, kind.. it is everything that you read about and more. I never believed I could love someone like that or be loved as much as he loves me. I feel that I was half of a person before I met him and now we are whole.. we are so strong together. We talk about this a lot.. it is as if the two of us are the only one's on this planet sometimes. I want to grow old with him and when we pass, I hope our love is strong enough to carry us over to another place. I feel as though my life before him I was cheated because.. now it seems as though there isn't enough time to be with him.. So, all the money in the world couldn't buy the feelings that we have.. money pays the bills but doesn't buy our happiness. So yes... it does exist. I however don't think everyone is as fortunate to find their true love or their soul mates. I wish that more people could experience what we have, the world would be so much happier.
Good luck to you... !!! Have faith.
2007-05-01 19:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by reeree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing called absolute true. True love is also a relative thing. It depends on persons. Yes, for me, true love is possible and I believe in it. But, somebody may label me as a crazy or something like that. For him my love may not be true love but a crazyness. The point is: only crazy people can practice true love, normal people can't. In almost all cases of love, they are not love in true sense, they are only compromises electroplated with love. The cover may go off any moment, for any reason. Sometimes it can be redone, most of the times not. Yes, when you electroplate compromise over love, then the love can be true. But love is very delicate, u have to maintain this cover of compromise if you want to last the love inside it long protecting it from being eroded due to ouside impact.
2007-05-01 19:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by afdasvfaCcsvf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is respecting the ego of the partner. The ingredients are free space for each partner. It can be possible only through understanding and love.
True love is mutual. It can't ever be one-way traffic.
Hence, it is said that one should marry only that person whose voice one loves top hear. This is because, in the advanced age, th\at voice will be the sound of solace!
2007-05-02 05:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Nilutpal Gogoi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"True Love"
love is always true. It has to be felt in the core of heart. Anyone can cheat his wives but not his inner concious, which realise the person for which true love will always exist in your heart.
True Love will always follow you ,in the form of "rememberance "and you can never leave your true Love, as it will be in your "core of your heart" and will always intensify when you are bodely away from the one , with whom you have the True Love.
True Love will never die.
Hence do not have anydoubt on its existance , as the whole world is existing on its existance.
2007-05-01 21:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by loving_indian4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of those men you work with are a lot of shi t it's talk that is all it is.If they were to go home and the wife was gone see how happy they would be the next day.Most of them wouldn't no what to do with them selves. And that is the truth,what do you expect them to say.My husband tells me when he is ask about me he tells them how Happy we are and he loves me,now this is what he tells me he says but do i believe him
fu ck no. Are we happy i would say yes, maybe, sometimes,
being married for 28 years and giving the answers I give wouldn't that qualify us as being happy.
2007-05-01 19:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to shatter whats left of your dreams, but...I think that human beings are not instinctively monogamous creatures. Unfortunately, i think it is natural for people to "stray" at some time or another...it's in our natures I'm afraid. Book and movies are the way that they are because that is a fantasy that we WANT to believe...it's rarely true.
2007-05-01 18:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by missapparition 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes true love does exist..but it may come in various forms not unlike the ones in books but it sure is there.
2007-05-03 14:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can not be true and false. Love can increase or decrease. At the time of marriage, my wife loved me 100%, I am 50+ and love is -50.
2007-05-02 00:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, but nowadays it is decreasing.
The surroundings is going on changing and thanks to the film directors who instead of making good morale stories will make such stupidity films which just spoild the minds of the new generations.
2007-05-01 23:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋