You cannot do something without the conscious choice to do it. Is it that they are cowards who like to release themselves from guilt?
2007-05-01 18:07:07 · 21 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
actually sometimes it DOES just happen...and no I'm not making excuses for anyone. Loneliness does things to people. (yes married people can and do get lonely) People want to be held, kissed, cuddled, wanted....if they don't get that in marriage, then when it shows up, they take advantage. I'm not saying it's right or wrong...It's just the way it is...sometimes others take advantage of the situation..either way, it hurts...you, them and whoever...and it's not cowardly to say it just happened...because it just does...
Don't judge people till you've been in their shoes...(and btw...you shouldn't judge people at all..it isn't your right...)
2007-05-01 18:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋