Marriage & Divorce - 1 May 2007

She refuses to cook, clean or do anything of significance around the house. I even offered to stay home and take care of the kid's and the house if she wanted to work. All 3 kid's go to school full time. I almost at the point to tell her to pack her bag's and get out! What do I do?

2007-05-01 06:05:03 · 26 answers · asked by wanted 1

is not true i meeting my gay friend for dinner my husband just logged off i been reading what he wrote by checking my email im not a cheater im just hurt that he would rather spend his time with his co-worker it happen because i told him to take care of himself better cause he has health problem but he rather listen to his co-worker than me that why im leaving him

2007-05-01 06:03:51 · 12 answers · asked by airplanes 3

Im 22 years old and been married for 3 years with somebody I have nothing in common with we figt alot we make each other feel like crap. Is time to go but I have no job nothing everything but this computer belongs to him we have 2 kids, 2 and 4 I dont want to leave them with him because he dont take care of them. What do I do somebody any Ideas?

2007-05-01 05:59:25 · 22 answers · asked by Liz 3

I am looking for people who have cheated or been cheated on, and have a successful relationship with the person that did the cheating or was cheated on. Did you/they confess? What strain did it put on the relationship? If you were the one who did the cheating why did you regret it and want to continue your current relationship?


yes i have asked this numerous times, just to get more stories, but after it leaves the first page hardly anyone answers, so i get more answers reposting, lol

2007-05-01 05:51:12 · 21 answers · asked by bluenaketat 4

Do you consider it disrespectful if a man looks at porn behind your back ?

2007-05-01 05:43:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

So what with a broken heart? Insomnia, less eating, no wish to be a life. Is true, you can go to doctor then he will give you pills for sleeping, for eating and will tell you the life must go on. But I'm 3 months in this condition. No positive thought in my mind. I'm going dipper in my depression.
I'm trying to smile when i'm with a friends, i'm trying to look happy at my work, that makes me more sad, acting happiness and crying in the heart.
I feel that i can't love again. I can't live without love, a lot of people can. I can't be with somebody that i don't love.
I hate myself every day more and more. Because i knew that i'm making a mestake and the end will be like this.
But the butterflies in the stomach made this, then love finished the rest-mind, body and heart conection.
.....can somebody help me?

2007-05-01 05:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

They Are In Same Political Club. When We Go Out & She Is Very Touchy Feely (WHISPERS IN HIS EAR WHILE HOLDING HIS ARM, not necessary) When We Are Listening To Speeches I Look Across the Room, There They Are- BUTT BUDDIES, even at my own home. (he will soon be the head of group & start meeting monthly at her office) Last dinner we went to he introduced me as his wife (BEEN MARRIED 28 YEARS) someone made the comment that they thought she was his wife. Calls her on his cell & talks longer than he does with me (10-20 MINUTES) tels me it's a work phone & shouldn't get personal calls He has lied to me about being on the phone with her TOLD HIM I DONT LIKE RELATIONSHIP TO CALL HER AT NIGHT FROM HOME. HE REFUSES-SAYS HE DOESN'T TALK TO HER THAT OFTEN I'M JUST JEALOUS & REFUSES TO DISCUSS WITH ME. SAYS WOMEN ARE JUST LIKE THAT (IT'S A 2 WAY STREET & NOT ALL HER) I found out her office is 2 blocks from his & he says he just found that out He works construction she sells insurance

2007-05-01 05:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by Sue C 1

This has been going on for years! He's really great at cheating. Surely she must know right? She's extremely naive and they've been together now for 11 years. She's thinking about having another child with him. The truth needs to come out before she continues to waste her life on this LOSER! I've thought about sending an anonymous letter with dates of when he has had women at their house or calling her family about it and then have them approach it with her. She trusts her family enough to leave him. Need advice please...

2007-05-01 05:33:32 · 25 answers · asked by Scout 1

2007-05-01 05:32:25 · 14 answers · asked by dmurphy1525 2

Does a particular profession have a higher divorce rate? Do professions with overnight shifts play a part in affairs? Spending more time at work with people of the opposite sex and temptation play a role? Or is it the individual???

2007-05-01 05:31:13 · 24 answers · asked by JC 2

2007-05-01 05:30:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I have been engaged to a man for 2 yrs now. We both have children who live with us. Our issues stem from fighting over our kids mostly. Just 3 days ago I was told to get out of HIS house with my messed up son. This was the last straw for me. I said I would leave. He finally gets home several hours later and tells me he over reacted and he didnt mean to say it that he was just angry. If this were the 1st time i might buy it but its not. I am always reminded that this is his home not mine and how my son is a mence and his is an angel. I am still so angry but hes been trying to work things out with me since he said this. He has been acting so different with me and being so kind its not even like him. I am afraid to let my gaurd down again just to have him fly off the handle with me. I feel as if I dont care anymore at times. I know I love him but i think he may have pushed me to far this time. How do I know if this can ever be repaired?? Is it time i need?? Is it worth it?? Help!!

2007-05-01 05:26:03 · 11 answers · asked by Kim 2

Hands on life practise. It's really great that i get so much support and help. How to have better finances, communications, relationships..

2007-05-01 05:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Back in Sept we had a big fight and I accused him of cheating on me. Well he went to the bar to deal poker( second job) and well got drunk as a skunk and well did just that , cheated. He has been hazy the last few months on what really happened, but never admitted to knowing for sure whether he did something or not. We worked through, and I forgave him( or so I thought) for even the possibility of it and moved on. I occasionally brought it up to dog him....I now realize that I never forgave him truly if I still brought it up.

This past friday night he went to a friends bday party and never came home. He finally called Monday morn to tell me that he saw the girl he slept with and everything came back. He said he couldnt come home and face me because he would have ended our marriage to let me go find someone I deserve. I am willing to truly forgive him. He just wont come home because he dosent forgive himself right now. He says he loves me, but dosent love himself right now...

2007-05-01 05:15:11 · 35 answers · asked by sifford844 2

2007-05-01 05:10:05 · 28 answers · asked by FreedomExpress 1

yesterday i was on my wife screen name im on today she at work i lot at her email and she is going out with some guy tonight. i know i cheated on he with my co-woker but i can't stand her see another guy she already wants a divorce but i love her i made a mistake but im willing to work it out but i cant get her to see it. Has anybody been do this i need some tips on how to get her back?

2007-05-01 05:06:44 · 34 answers · asked by airplanes 3

Suppose you're happily attached with your sweetheart, and planning for marriage the next year. You just got to know that your spouse-to-be is unexpectedly diagnosed with an illness and doctor say he/she won't lived pass the age of 40.

2007-05-01 05:05:55 · 36 answers · asked by LucKY 3

Please No On The Nee Thing!

2007-05-01 05:05:52 · 9 answers · asked by elbelanger2003 1

I only found out because his friends girlfriend told me about the boys nite out. He told everyone I knew and he got in trouble. I am 5 months preg. I feel very unattractive and this just puts the icing on the cake. It's not like he is the best husband to begin with. I haven't talked to him since I found out four days ago. I am always the one to bring up the problem and try to fix things and I am sick of it. Has anyone been in this situation?

2007-05-01 04:06:45 · 45 answers · asked by Annie S 1

I have a work mate who said that she is still awaiting her decree absolute to come through from her estranged husband.

She had an engagement party on Saturday.

Do you think this is morally or ethically right?

2007-05-01 04:04:27 · 50 answers · asked by Rebz 5

My husband and I have been married for 5 years now and have a 3 yr old son together name Jordan. I’m a chef and decided to get back to work and open my own restaurant 6 months after my son was born. My husband’s a lawyer so he works regular 9-5 days. On an average weekday, my husband leaves for work around 8.30am and gets back 5.30 pm while I leave for work around 7pm and get back somewhere between midnight and 1am.I keep a spotlessly clean house, have a gourmet dinner on the table by the time he gets home and spend pretty much all day with our son until I have to leave for work. Last night we had a massive argument about my restaurant, which turned out to be a huge success. He told me he couldn’t do this anymore and unless something changed in regard to my working hours he wants out. Why should I have to give up all my dreams just because I have a husband and a child? Does working when I can more than afford not to make me a bad mother and wife?

2007-05-01 04:03:54 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

heres the thing i have been susupecting my hubby has been lying to me alot lately about where he says hes going and were he actually goes. so i started watching his pay-check stubs to see if he was actually at work as long as he says he is, now he says he is working 10 hours days 4 days a week and then he goes in on friday for extra overtime. but in the last 4 months there were 3 weeks that he didnt reach his 40 hours but was going for those 4 10 hour days and then he says he was "working that friday. so last night i comfronted him about it i said if u r working 40 plus hours a week how come 3 weeks in the last 4 months u didnt reach your 40 hurs. well, thats when he admitted that one day he did leave work early and went a played video games at a friends house. but he doesnt know why those other weeks he didnt reach his 40 hour mark. well, like i said i confronted him and he got very defensive about it and said i dont have to tell u when i leave work early and what i am doing,

2007-05-01 03:57:42 · 38 answers · asked by greengrass 3

Why must this arrogant pig continue to trash his ex...???Hey Alec..we'll buy your book if you promise to move to Canada as you threatened....GROW UP!!!!! Just the thing to bring your daughter closer...

2007-05-01 03:43:13 · 3 answers · asked by sharpneedleinahaystack 1

come after getting a vasectomy?

2007-05-01 03:34:58 · 22 answers · asked by Aija 4

2007-05-01 03:17:07 · 27 answers · asked by renee r 1

2007-05-01 03:17:05 · 16 answers · asked by bumoh_123 1

2007-05-01 03:16:33 · 4 answers · asked by lsgenco 1

when me and my husband got together i new he was still talking to his ex girlfreind from highschool. i didnt think any thing of it at the time, he told her that he was seeing me and then we got married he told her that too. she still e-mails him he clam's up and down that he never talks to her or calls her but on his phone i noticed that he called her(she didnt pick up though) and on his e-mail he has writen her also it s nuthin lovey dovey or any thin but i know she is still in love with him. he clams that he will never leave me for her cause she cheated on him with hi brother and then got pregnat and then gave it up for an abortion. i just dont know why her wants to talk to her and why is he lyin to me and what sould i do?

2007-05-01 03:14:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 1 year is a great guy. The problem is that when we go to his parents house (cookout, birthday celebration) 9 times out of 10 he will go in the house (we are usually outside) and either watch tv, play solitaire on the computer or take a nap. He leaves me out there with his family and I think it's extremely rude. Am I being overly sensitive or do I have a legitimate grip??

2007-05-01 03:13:42 · 37 answers · asked by sunny 1

Just wondering when people started to feel better about going through a divorce with a cheating spouse.

2007-05-01 02:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by prouddad13 2